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30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Bigjagga(m): 3:02pm On Mar 27, 2017
Let me digress a bit from my regular tech posts. I was going through the contents on punchng and i found this post. Do you totally agree? Meanwhile when you are asking these questions, the idea is not to interrogate him/her with questions like a robot, but to ask questions that elicit interesting and fun answers that can lead the conversation into fun and unexpected directions.

1. What makes you happy?

2. Do you want children?

3. What is your financial situation? How much debt do you have?

4. Where do you see yourself in 10 years? What are your long-term goals?

5. Do you have a close relationship with your parents?

6. How is your credit?

7. Where do you want to live: a city, suburb, or overseas?

8. How many really close friends do you have?

9. What kinds of pets do you love — if any?

10. Do you know how to cook?

11. What’s the most violent thing you’ve ever done?

12. Have you ever cheated?

13. Do you prefer socialising or staying in?

14. What is your family’s history with disease?

15. How do you want to raise your kids?

16. How much money do you need to be truly content?

17. Would you be willing to seek couples therapy if we ever needed it?

18. What is the worst thing you have ever done?

19. What do you love to do most in the world?

20. What are your feelings on divorce?

21. Do you want a prenuptial agreement?

22. How do you like your meat cooked? Seriously, I need to know.

23. Do you promise to stay with me even if things get really bad? If one of us gets sick or becomes disabled, will you be there?

24. Have you ever been convicted of a felony?

25. Do you have a savings account?

26. How do you feel about the missionary (sex) position?

27. Would you ever use my toothbrush without asking me?

28. How do you feel about having breakfast food for dinner?

29. How do you regard the gym on your list of important things you need to do?

30. Do you still call your mom for advice on the underwear you’re purchasing?

Source: http://punchng.com/30-questions-to-ask-before-agreeing-to-marry/

Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 27, 2017
30. cracks me up. cheesy grin
But these are actually perfectly reasonable questions.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by xynerise: 3:25pm On Mar 27, 2017
So we should ask these questions in a single conversation or daily?

Do I look like a questionnaire? undecided

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Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by prestige2013: 3:30pm On Mar 27, 2017
Why ask, when there is Courtship!
During Courtship period you get to know most of these except for few which call for discussion.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by SNOWCREAM(m): 3:30pm On Mar 27, 2017
Question for the Gods. Couples who've been married for decades here can't answer on behalf of their partner
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 27, 2017
Prenuptial agreement doesn't work down here. How wealth is the average Nigerian man to think of securing his wealth?.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by adorablepepple(f): 3:35pm On Mar 27, 2017
I think these questions are for relationships in the abroad not in naija
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by HARDDON: 6:26pm On Mar 27, 2017
and the most important one is conspicuously left out!

if only we see beyond out noses!
if only we have discerning Spirit to know when they said party is telling a lie or not.

How did we get here? that we leave God out of Our most important decisions?
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Bigjagga(m): 6:26pm On Mar 27, 2017
xynerise:
So we should ask these questions in a single conversation or daily?

Do I look like a questionnaire? undecided
Over a period of time, it could take months, the important thing is to chip in the question at the appropriate time.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Samsononas(m): 6:29pm On Mar 27, 2017
The questions are too much na
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Nobody: 6:38pm On Mar 27, 2017
These questions are much.
how many do I have to answer
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by ehinmowo: 10:05pm On Mar 27, 2017
if we take a census nw, u will see dt most divorcees dated and asked zillion of questions.....na by dt one?
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by firstking01(m): 10:28pm On Mar 27, 2017
Some questions there are just too irrelevant.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Bigjagga(m): 1:41pm On Mar 29, 2017
Samsononas:
The questions are too much na
You can ask two questions per week or even one. The idea is that you have to ask the question when the opportunity comes and at the right time.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Bigjagga(m): 1:45pm On Mar 29, 2017
For guys that are still dating or guys that want to date( If you want to get to know her more), you can view my new post "29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting" https://www.nairaland.com/3711317/29-interesting-questions-ask-lady

Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Frolic: 1:54pm On Mar 29, 2017
There is only one question to be asked, 'Are you ready to stick by me with my flaws and all? '

All those questions up there are meant to be learned during courtship and not asked!
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Bigjagga(m): 2:05pm On Mar 29, 2017
Frolic:
There is only one question to be asked, 'Are you ready to stick by me with my flaws and all? '

All those questions up there are meant to be learned during courtship and not asked!

You may come off as a boring guy if you don't get her to share her stories with you or take her out and get to talk happily about some of her past or future experience.
Re: 30 Important Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To Marry by Frolic: 2:11pm On Mar 29, 2017
Bigjagga:

You may come off as a boring guy if you don't get her to share her stories with you or take her out and get to talk happily about some of her past or future experience.
That's such a normal thing to do... It comes naturally , I mean and you dont have to preplan that. Or have ppl become suddenly so discombobulated and redundant ? Lol

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