modelmike7:
Never thought of this prior now.... I am coming

torres89:
ladies first as they say

but i think it should be which ever rhymes well when both names are pronunced.

Exponental:
It's a last honour given to you woman before marriage. Right from your wedding venue, you will be introduced as Mr & Mrs..... and forever (even if she footed all the wedding bills)
2ndly, she accepted your marriage proposal (under normal circumstances)

profhezekiah:
The female name will come first because after d wedding she will hand over her leadership to d male,her dominion and care stops at wedding,she will use her life to please d man in marriage

AlexCk:
As for me,
I care less whose name comes 1st.
That 1 no be priority jare

The only important thing is to have a blissful marriage biko

coltaine:
hell no....my name comes first cos she coming into my home not the other way

MummyIMadeIt:


Answer this question honestly, and you would seek the answer you find.

Who really Owns the World? Is it the Man or the Woman.. If the earlier hence the woman has always been under the dominion of the Man from time immemorial as she is known to succumb to her parent(DAD) and to a higher authority the Man. No woman is born free, that is why you see the recent trend of Feminist trying so hard to get their freedom, which is never possible as many women are against their approach. So it's a natural trait. The Man is a Dominant Gene to the Woman's.

MummyIMadeIt:
My wonderful people of N.L, i greet you all in the name of Christ Jesus and his love. It has not been an easy one out here as it has been hot all day long not because of the weather but because of a new insight to knowledge that has been presented to me by my DAD.

Uhmm! brosis and ladies to cut the long story short, My DAD is erudite of knowledge on his own and a strict DISCIPLINARIAN and that no one except God can take away from him; so it happens that he has always have his stand that during the wedding ceremony of a couple, that the MAN'S NAME SHOULD ALWAYS COME BEFORE HIS LADY'S NAME AS THAT IS THE NORM THAT SHOULD BE PRACTICED NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND WHERE THE WIFE'S NAME APPEARS BEFORE HER HUSBAND'S NAME.

e.g.

It should be HECTOR weds BUNMI; and not BUNMI weds HECTOR

CAVEAT: the names here aren't in anyways in relation to any moniker here on N.L.

Lemme drop some of his reasons here, but i believe most feminist would never agree with me on this though but no shaking, as the saying goes "No Knowledge is Ever a Waste". So guys get ready to be enlightened likewise females.

MODS WHICH WAY FORWARD, PLZ PUSH THIS TO FRONT PAGE

Chuknovski:
it's a modern trend to put the lady name first it's sorf a courteous thing, modesty towards women, even me that print wedding cards for people I just respect their choices either way they want it

Pureheart91:


BUT OGA I THINK THE OP IS TRYING TO TELL US THAT THIS MODERN TREND IS A SHAM ABEE SUMTINELSE..

OP AM I CORRECT?

Chuknovski:


he only presented his own opinion and solicited that of others

Pureheart91:


OKAY, BUT I WANT TO KNOW SINCE DIS IS UR LINE OF BUISNESS, HAVE YOU SEEN A GUY DOING THE OTHERWISE DURING HIS PRINTOUT

Pureheart91:


BUT OGA I THINK THE OP IS TRYING TO TELL US THAT THIS MODERN TREND IS A SHAM ABEE SUMTINELSE..

OP AM I CORRECT?

Lunagirl:
People like to carry unnecessary things and make it major issues. So basically,

1) You scaled through the hustle of gathering money for wedding and raising a family.

2) You scaled through the hustle of finding a good partner in this adulterated world.

3) You scaled through village people and their antics.


And then the issue at hand will now be whose name should be on the wedding IV page. Why should it even matter? If it must be discussed, I don't expect it to be a serious discussion. If he wants his name there, fine. If he wants mine, fine. It shouldn't even matter!

But who am I to talk? I still dey find the kin husband sef

MummyIMadeIt:


Its my strong OPINION that when doing something its worth doing the RIGHTWAY, and its not everything that the westernworld throw unto our path we have to copy because they have their own way of reasoning and behavior.

MummyIMadeIt:


Its my strong OPINION that when doing something its worth doing the RIGHTWAY, and its not everything that the westernworld throw unto our path we have to copy because they have their own way of reasoning and behavior.

Medunah:

Guy, seems u already made up ur mind.....wats the point of asking for other people's opinion then??