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My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by sweetheart12: 10:51am On Mar 29, 2017 |
A friend of mine is going through this right now and she needs advise. she is in love with a guy from Benin, they both love each other. when the guy talked about marrying the girl to his family they said Capital NO cause of the girl tribe. The girl is from Akwa Ibom. The family had an issue many years back when their Uncle married an Akwa Ibom woman and they had serious issues in their marriage and then they divorce, so since then the family cause of the experience said no one from their family will ever marry from Akwa Ibom but can marry any other tribe. The whole family of the guy is saying no that he cant marry my friend cause of her tribe. My friends fiance will never give up cause of how much he loves the girl. My friend is really going through a lot now. please i need good advise so i can encourage her with it. |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 29, 2017 |
That is so old school now! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by Nobody: 11:06am On Mar 29, 2017 |
It surprising that some families still reject the person their children intend to marry because of the place they hail from or because of an experience they had. We should understand that individual differs in personality and traits, our individual background or our place of origin shouldn't be an excuse for us to be rejected or relegated. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by Dyt(f): 11:20am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Same tribe discriminates sef Naija I hail oo 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by sisisioge: 11:26am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Make everybody kala their maamu! If the guy won't give up, he should go ahead and marry her without his people's permission then...abi which advice we wan give again. Tell your friend to find her husband go front! It is very important to have supportive family in any marriage. Geskia! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Op it's sad but such is life in Nigeria. She has to move on. Likewise the guy. Cause if the mother and dad is against it? Not even extended family.. Cos extended family is irrelevant when it comes to saying yes or no. But when the parents especially say No.. My dear Abeg move on.. Cause the problems ahead cannot be envisaged at all.. Except both of them are very prayerful throughout the married life. Then they can damn all consequences and marry. But if not? She should just jejely move on. And next time before dating any guy, enquire if the new guy has such restrictions in their family. So sad 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 29, 2017 |
waiting man no go hear for Nigeria? If the girl na oyibo now na dem go dey run up and down. yeye dey smell 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by sweetheart12: 11:55am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Thanks every one, i really appreciate your advise...... |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by sweetheart12: 11:55am On Mar 29, 2017 |
xoxo001: you are right |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by sweetheart12: 11:56am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Dextology: i am surprise too, i mean not in this present time and age..Gosh. |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by jieta: 12:25pm On Mar 29, 2017 |
the parents have there genuine reason for saying no and i expect her to follow her parents order. that was how my mum advice my uncle not to marry a tiv woman, the end result was six feet after four boys. |
Re: My Fiance Family Says We Can't Get Married Cause Of My Tribe by twosquare(m): 4:06pm On Mar 29, 2017 |
Your friend or you? SMH...Nlanders with soft lies... |
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