...... Now u sound like ikp120........

generalbush:
Just Dump Her!

I didn't read sha... but as long as it is a girl's matter...

Just Dump Her!!

generalbush:
Just Dump Her!
I didn't read sha... but as long as it is a girl's matter...
Just Dump Her!!

darbeelicous:
...... Now u sound like ikp120........

generalbush:
Just Dump Her!
I didn't read sha... but as long as it is a girl's matter...
Just Dump Her!!

and if I don't know him well enof I'd say dis is an alt.... ...... Or is it?

generalbush:


LOL!!

He is my real niggur !!

darbeelicous:
and if I don't know him well enof I'd say dis is an alt.... ...... Or is it?

Bluezy13:


To avoid stories that touch

generalbush:


Guess you are new to Nairaland?

darbeelicous:
new ke?? Far from it.. what makes u think I'm new??

tamertery:
Well, she might have made some future calculation, that you may end up loosing your job, and she wants to secure her future....

generalbush:


September 2016. You are relatively new! lol

There is only one official BUSH on Nairaland..

No other person takes that name!

The guy from the Biafran part of the country!

Benita27:
She's a leech. Must have calculated the dude will soon go broke.

iniwrites:
First Rule of Relationships: Communication Matters Alot. Talk to her first before you come here bro. Goodluck. Speculation doesnt help.You cannot be having sleepless nights and heart aches over her actions and inactions and she is unaware

That aside, a girl acting strange just cause your financial condition took is hit is a sign of danger. A good Man needs a lady who will build with him not one that will live off him. if you can't reach any reasonable conclusion, then leave. she aint THE ONE

lovelygurl:
Op sometimes people just imagine things. You might have been expecting that kinda reaction from her or feel that she'll leave you because of the issues you are having.

And if you are not imagining things then talk to her. If talking doesn't help then let her go

generalbush:
Just Dump Her!
I didn't read sha... but as long as it is a girl's matter...
Just Dump Her!!

Gladys2017:
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osuofia2:
good day fellow Nlanders, your advice is needed ,but for those who only know how to insult without suggesting reasonable solution. I ready for una cos I don't care.
My story.
there is this girl I was introduced to by a family friend, we startd as friend but along the line the emotions startd building, the love was strong, so i felt, and I came to conclusion that she is the one. before now we are like are like 5&6 but off recent she seems to be changing from the her I used to know ever since I confided in her that my place of work is currently experiencing some challenges, as my office is not operational now due to some reasons, ever since I told her she has really been acting cold, communication btwen us is unlike before,
matured fellows kindly advice me as I have planned to speak sense into her but I don't know if that's the best decision.

osuofia2:
good day fellow Nlanders, your advice is needed ,but for those who only know how to insult without suggesting reasonable solution. I ready for una cos I don't care.
My story.
there is this girl I was introduced to by a family friend, we startd as friend but along the line the emotions startd building, the love was strong, so i felt, and I came to conclusion that she is the one. before now we are like are like 5&6 but off recent she seems to be changing from the her I used to know ever since I confided in her that my place of work is currently experiencing some challenges, as my office is not operational now due to some reasons, ever since I told her she has really been acting cold, communication btwen us is unlike before,
matured fellows kindly advice me as I have planned to speak sense into her but I don't know if that's the best decision.

Drwolf:
so, what you are experiencing now is the girl no longer feeling you or the relationship anymore and she's contemplating breaking up with you. Due to maybe she sees you as a loser or something worse. Trust me trying to impress her or asking her what the problem is isn't going to work rather it will make the situation worse. What you should do is ask yourself if you really love her or if you love yourself more
If you love her that much, this is going to be difficult, ignore the whole act she's putting up, act normal, reduce the calls and visits and try to improve yourself. Make her see you improving yourself also and ensure you have results. This may or may not work but it's better that chasing her around.
But if you love yourself more, break up with her. Because she's likely going to break up with you anyway.
Well it's your decision to make, just the advice I'll give to anyone in the same situation.