send him a text message from a different number alerting him to go for a test

Or better, send him an anonymous test telling him to confront the girl, or compel her they should both go for testing.

what are you waiting for, what king of friend are you? go and tell him face to face shout it in his face that she is Hiv positive

how do you know that she is hiv positive where did you get the info
Also how do you know they having been having sex without condoms
When do you feel it is your responsibility to potentially save a life is it until you get permission from NL

what do you men that you don't know how to tell him? its his life we're talking about here. just tell him straight to his face, he will never forgive you if he finds out that you've known about it all the time.

@poster
i can only blame the fool in this saga for having unprotected sex with that girl. . . . . . . . whatever you do NOW is pointless and wont solve any problems!

Poster. . . .

Send them both a farewell card. . . . .Too late to let the fella know about the HIV status

Omega, how i got 2 know she is positive is, alot of pple dont know how ARV drugs looks like, what most dis hiv patient do now is when they are giving drugs they change the drugs into a diff containers, so unless u know how ARV drugs looks like then u can tell, i work in d laboratory so i know how ARV drugs looks like no matter what container u put dem, but d girl boyfriend is not in any way connected to medical. Infact there was a day he was looking 4 sometin in her bag i was there, he even brough the drug out bt seen it was not label he did know what it was, afta checking 4 whatever he returned it. Now oneday mistakenly she left he card carelessly i saw everytin, days to for next collection of drugs,days to meet wit doctor and so on. Guy dis is real.

the boyfriend has probably contacted the virus already so you might as well tell him to his face. they'll be busy fighting each other no one would have time to quarrel with you. i think the guy should sue her or something, this is very wicked. but then, how do you know she didnt already tell the guy; it's possible he also has HIV and they decided they are a good match.

GL, she didnt tell him, becos there was a day i threaten her, i told her i am going to tell him, but she said pls i should not that she was going to tell him herself, and beside i was not there went the relationship started. the reason why am afraid to tell him is that he might collagse. another part is she even go to his house and spend some days with him, guys do you that this guy left his former girl friend for this girl, the funniest part is the rejested girl is fighting the girl in question to leave her guy for her.

Hassymo5.by negotiating telling him wit her was were u went wrong.i thought he's ur friend.

its not too late to tell him, supposedly hes +he can start the treatment early.

the girl is probably scared he might leave her if she tells. if she was smart enough she would have insisted on a condom.

but how do you know they sleep together without a condom?

as people here have already suggested, send him anonymous text, or email. or tell him that they should both go for hiv test since they have s.ex without a condom to be on the safe side.

my goodness. bi!tches will only ruin your life

HIO4:

my goodness. bi!tches will only ruin your life

and you think men are saints when it comes to hiv status

Well, somebody should say something to either of them. And when you do ask them to visit
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-334255.0.html
Otherwise they'll both die for nothing.

What's your relationship with this girl? you seem to hang around her a lot.

~Sissy~:

its not too late to tell him, supposedly hes +he can start the treatment early.

the girl is probably scared he might leave her if she tells. if she was smart enough she would have insisted on a condom.

but how do you know they sleep together without a condom?

as people here have already suggested, send him anonymous text, or email. or tell him that they should both go for hiv test since they have s.ex without a condom to be on the safe side.

Its not always the case that when one partner is positive,then the other one is also positive.There have been countless documented cases where partners sleeping together without condom for years ,then go for test;and one is positive,another negative.

Like i said earlier,the OP should send him a text message,then he should go for a HIV test and take it from there

^^^^^
thats why i said "supposedly" hes infected

save a life fast!

for the mere fact that she's killing him faster by re infecting the poor guy,the best u can do is send him an anonymous txt,letting him no the trouble he's in by advising him to go for test to ascertain his status,b4 confronting the subject[code][/code]

MrPrsdent:

y u dey pop ur eyes

~Sissy~:

y u dey pop your eyes

at the meaning of the word 'supposedly'

means 'Presumed to be true or real without conclusive evidence'

never knew that.shows we learn things on NL

for god sake tell teh boy. you would want to know if it were you wouldnt you

Hello hassymo5


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what are friends for ?
if you cant face you friend and tell him them i dont think he is your friend.

i can still help if only you can give me the chance,

text me his number to :0802626561

tell him to open his tongue, apparently the only vague visible sign of contradiction is cracked tongue with rash like stuff on it, na so i heared o lol. for sceptic daters your worries are resolved just dey use style check person tongue lool

You must tell him , no talk beyond that . You owe the girl no loyalty what she is doing will get you jailedin in developed countries

Tell a female friend to help you call and tell him.
She can't now accuse you as her boyfriend will say a girl called and told him.

guys i dont know how to handle this, i have decided to let them b,because they are happy stayin with each other.

@poster
You're not bold enough.
2morrow, your own sibling/relation might be at the same risk and would need sb to bail him/her out
You no do well at all. Your lady friend on the other hand is very selfish.'
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