Lol, cal me instead. R u hooked?

If you're really that eager, I see no harm in wishing him a happy new year, wish him the best then leave it at that

Although, if you don't mind me asking, what was the reason behind him dumping you?

if it makes u feel better call him but u mite nt hear wat u want to one thing bout guys is if they miss u they will call, sometimes u jst hv 2 accept the reality of things n move on. Pele

You agreed not to communicate, don't call him. But if it's that hard for you to bear send him a text instead and see if he calls.

I dnt tink u shld call him since he's d 1 hu ended it,i gues he also sugestd nt 2 comunicate wt eachoda & since u guyz just broke up i belive wateva made him brkup wt u is stil in his head,jst giv him tym & space.if he's urs he'll com arnd.i cnt blive am actualy sayin ds 2 u,u sound lyk me a few mnths ago bt am ova it now,its jst a mata of tym,seriously doug i knw wat am sayin.talk abt xperience baby.

he was the one that ended the relationship and it was me that told him that he should not call or text me again. i said this because i was really hurt and i was only putting on a front. he was not happy about this but when i kept insisting that all forms of communication should cease, he said if that is what i want, he will accept it.

but its been soo hard for me. i have been crying almost everyday.

Why didnt you call? Maybe it's the same reason he didnt.

As long as there's no hidden remorse, then you should call and wish each other a merry christmas. And a happy new year.

@ chemali

there is nothing wrong with calling someone to wish them well, but if he is rude to you, make sure that is your last call to him. you dont want him to think you are desperate.

I don’t blame u one bit for feeling like u feeling, . . .i mean after all u have been in a “beautiful relationship”

according to u, for the past two years, . . .

But why did he chose to end any form of communication btw y’all cold turkey like that??

. .seems real strange. . . . .real strange.

*Sighs* . . . .well if calling him to wish him compliments of the season, would give u some kinda closure, then go for it, . . .

And if he insist on being a jerk, . . .then honey lose his dam*n number!!!

Best wishes to yah!

Been ages

If you don't "need" to call him, don't.

Bear in mind that he is not interested in salvaging a friendship, and you both agreed not to communicate with each other.
If you wish to say A Merry Christmas out of boredom to someone, go to your next door neighbor or something.
It's obvious he doesn't care.  You better wipe the cluster of emotions from your eyes and move on.

Forget it. Don't call him. U'll only be furthering ur own hurt.

call him, am sure he's feeling the same way, but some men are way too proud.

from ur statement u guys hav been 2gether 4 2 yrs.i see no harm in calling him just 2 say 'HI',happy xmass.ordinary friendship can still continue after brokeup,this is a free world anyway.

If u tink caln him wil mak u beta den cal him bt i tink u'll b doin urself more harm dan gud.

follow ur heart

rokiatu:

call him, am sure he's feeling the same way, but some men are way too proud.

He called it off. If he is interested he'll call her back. No point in her making herself upset if he turns nasty on the phone (since he broke it up he could accuse her of stalking).

hmmmmmm, hrt brk, so hard, thats true, she might not like wat she'll hear on the phone.

1) he broke up with you meaning he ended the relationship

2) he dint call you

well this will be hard to hear, but the dude aint in to you anymore so u gata move on
cos if u call him, u will even feel worst

I suggest u give him some space. I suspect that's all he needs right now. There's no suspense in the relationship. both of u r easily predictable! as a result no passion. i guess he got bored and now wants to catch a new fun (2 bad) but u really need to give him some space. if he loves u he'll come back and if u've been a better girl than any of the girls he's going to meet he'll compare and contrast and then come back to u. but why do u guys always make this mistakes and come here whining and complaining?

@Poster
If I were you, I wont call him but if you think this will make you feel beter
go ahead and call him. Dont allow what you will hear to upset you more.
He may not sound nice.

Good luck Girl

what happens if you call or text and he ignores u?
It seems you are still in love with this dude and if so it might help if we actually know the reason why he broke up with u.
Sometimes some things are meant to be buried forever

Gurl DO NOT call him. Notin gd wil come out of dt call, don't even send a teeny tiny txt msg. Just move on n look on d brighter side; u'll meet someone who cud b beta n u'll b stronger 4it. It pays 2 b emotionally strong, so many hurdles it wil help u cross in life. Just indulge urself in any positive tin that'll give u pleasure. U'll soon b ova him, i assure u.

i was once in a bad relationship and when it ended, i called her for the last time on new years eve to wish her a happy new year and it hurt so bad because i cared about the girl but at that moment, i was leaving her in the past year. After that call i never looked back i didn't call her, i didnt try to meet up with her. she even tried to get back together which i wanted but i was just not doing that again.
I say all this to say that you can call but if you do make it a call of closure. The pain of being dumped and alone will be there but it will pass and life will be good again

Doesnt hurt to call.

i dont think i will call.

he called the relationship off which literally means he dumped me . . . that alone is soooo embarrassing and it hurts so much.

chemali:

i dont think i will call.

he called the relationship off which literally means he dumped me . . . that alone is soooo embarrassing and it hurts so much.

Dats it girl! Just give urself time u'll heal. Believe it wit all ur heart.

chemali:

i dont think i will call.

he called the relationship off which literally means he dumped me . . . that alone is soooo embarrassing and it hurts so much.

eeyah, sorry eh

After two years, I'm sure you've met someone better

Call him if you want to
It's all well.