When the wedding bells rang few years ago, Tiwa Savage and Tunji Balogun wowed the world. To them and all those who witnessed it, it was a magical moment which was blissful and colorful, and was the talk of the town for some time. It sure served its purpose because it had a spark of royalty and glamour, a wedding every young lady would love to dream of. A wedding every young lady would dream of having. You could see the joy on their faces and how fulfilled they both felt. But no one knew the motive that lay within their hearts. Did I just say motive? Yes you heard me right.

Let's start with Tiwa Savage. She was a successful and accomplished Singer in her late thirties. She tasted stardom when she was about 30 years and rose astronomically to become one of the most successful Afro pop Singers in the continent. She was a perfect definition of a lady in her prime and the future was more than bright for her. But, she was afraid. Yes, afraid she had traded her musical career with her chance to have a decent home: loving husband, kids and a lovely home. A sacrifice she later realized she was not ready to make.

Like every sane woman she craved to have her family to love, cater and to live for. She was not ready to give up her deepest desire and musical dreams for the ever demanding work of being a wife and a mother. Her deepest desire was her musical dreams. Her ambitions superceded her crave for family.

Tiwa was a natural go getter, a dreamer and an achiever. You could see it in the ways she reflected her it in her music. You could see it in the ways she portrayed her music, with a blend of indecency and a spice of eroticism. She had to flaunt her sexuality to thrive further in dimensions unknown to her pairs it was an icing on the cake. Her cake being her powerful yet melodious voice. She was a complete brand of feminine stardom.

When she made her make as the unchallenged Queen, it dawned on her that she was alone. This craving ignited fear that she may never have the family of her dreams. Desperation began to creep in as the crown she carried drove away many decent suitors. To most of them she appeared unapproachable. But in her heart she was crying out to be approached. When she lost hope, the available became the desirable. She chose Tunji, the closet man around her.

On Tunji.
Tunji was a music record producer who was trying to make his mark until he met Tiwa Savage. He saw raw talents and decided to push her beyond her limits so she could be successful. But besides the raw talent, he saw a lonely lady who was vulnerable. He took a step further and orchestrated a sequence that will fall in his favor. This guy was a serial player, known for having affairs with older affluent women. He knew the most potent tricks because he wasn't new in the game. He had his trophies (kids) from different women. He was smooth at his game. Putting his prey in spots they can't escape from. He was skilled beyond the average; those tacts were his survival instincts.

When Tunji saw Tiwa Savage, He saw a chance of playing differently. This time he needed to invest his time and money to build his prey to the desired taste and size. He needed her to become old enough to be feasted on, a plan he assiduously executed. There is no better patience than the one exhibited by a predator studying its prey.

On their wedding day, that glorious day they said their vows, they were fulfilled and Tiwa felt she had finally had a chance to have a family and build her music while Tunji felt he has finally nailed his cash cow. After the wedding ceremony they lived happily ever after like in the movies but this lasted for a while because the happy ending ended too quickly. One party was denied continuous dividends from his investments. Tunji became too greedy and his mouth became too big and his stomach too deep.

When Tiwa realized, she decided to fire Tunji from managing her music and that was the beginning of their crisis. This very act dealt a great blow on their marriage. Tiwa, however, got what she wanted from the union; her lovely son. This made her fulfilled and contented.

Looking at this whole drama, I realized that many people marry for the wrong reasons. Marriage is fueled by interests and not love alone. In marriage, love is never enough. Being one in marriage is not all about sharing the same surname or apartment but the sharing of interests. For a marriage to stand the test of time, the interest of the two parties must align at a particular point. With mutual interest, your marriage has a good chance of lasting long.

Before marriage, it is important to redefine your interests, make it known to your would-be spouse and agree to it. When love fades your interests will be the bond that keeps you together even when your hearts are far apart.



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Hmmmmn.....wot can I say

Lemme spread my blanket here..

QueenSuccubus:




Lemme spread my blanket here..

What concerns us with all these marriage brouhaha? Their family issues is their business, let all analyst mind their own business and stop all this gossips and attention seeking charades.

So u just sidon dey analyse another woman marriage? Bomb dey ur head.

how her marriage take "konsign" me?

OP time plenty for your hand oo







Another piece of trash

TBH, I didn't read that epistle

Good write up but op who ask U.. we are all selfish in ou own way the concept of love is an illusion created by hollywood the sooner we realise that finding someone u are compatible and ur interest or ambition align out weight finding love the better for our society





Who love don epp...romeo or abi naa ryan gosling from the notebook

Doctorfitz:
So u just sidon dey analyse another woman marriage? Bomb dey ur head.

I am a writer

newguy1:
Good write up but op who ask U.. we are all selfish in ou own way the concept of love is an illusion created by hollywood the sooner we realise that finding someone u are compatible and ur interest or ambition align out weight finding love the better for our society





Who love don epp...romeo or abi naa ryan gosling from the notebook

I am a writer and i believe a whole lota folks can learn from it

Nukilia:
What concerns us with all these marriage brouhaha? Their family issues is their business, let all analyst mind their own business and stop all this gossips and attention seeking charades.

Try n be objective. I wrote it so people can learn from it. Dont be a hard knot. Wise people learn from others.

2kaybiel:
how her marriage take "konsign" me?

You learn from their mistakes noni

paschal47:
OP time plenty for your hand oo







Another piece of trash

Someone once said, "if you want to hide something from Nigerians, you put it in writing."
There's a lot to learn from what i wrote

QueenSuccubus:




Lemme spread my blanket here..

Mama d mama

deltaprincess:


I am a writer and i believe a whole lota folks can learn from it

don't remember y I say that... but I also said it was a good write up

KennyID17:


Mama d mama

Aloha cutie the guy wih a saggy pants


Good afternoon from the other side

deltaprincess:

You learn from their mistakes noni

there is nothing to learn from them, i will of course enjoin you to learn from them cos ladies are usually the receiving end of every failed marriage.

QueenSuccubus:




Aloha cutie the guy wih a saggy pants


Good afternoon from the other side

Good morning from this side

KennyID17:


Good morning from this side

Abeg which side

Good writer no doubt but you're not saying anything we don't already know.

waywardpikin:
Good writer no doubt but you're not saying anything we don't already know.

You maybe all wise.... but i bet not everyone is all wise like you.

2kaybiel:
there is nothing to learn from them, i will of course enjoin you to learn from them cos ladies are usually the receiving end of every failed marriage.

Out of Tiwa n Tunji who is at the recieveing end? You male folks and your ego.
A word is enough for the wise

QueenSuccubus:







Abeg which side

From d beans side of life

Youre too invested in someone else's life. Not good.

Safiaa:
Youre too invested in someone else's life. Not good.

Try and see the brighter picture..... we all can learn from this

deltaprincess:

Out of Tiwa n Tunji who is at the recieveing end? You male folks and your ego.
A word is enough for the wise

lolz

deltaprincess:


Try n be objective. I wrote it so people can learn from it. Dont be a hard knot. Wise people learn from others.

Sincere apologies