If U're almost sure your lady cheated on you, and you want her to confirm this, How can you get the fact from her or make her confess especially if she is the hardened type.
Don't tell me to forget her, because I'm already aware of the option, I just want a workable move.
Please the Ladies in the house should help out or Guys with a similar experience that worked.

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If U're almost sure your lady cheated on you, and you want her to confirm this, How can you get the fact from her or make her confess especially if she is the hardened type.
Don't tell me to forget her, because I'm already aware of the option, I just want a workable move.
Please the Ladies in the house should help out or Guys with a similar experience that worked.

Sadly,this is the best option.Either you forgive a cheating partner OR forget her.That way,you save yourself the excrutiating mental torture that will ensue.

U're ryt but sometimes u just want to confirm it atleast to justify all the pains U're going thru.
Its worse when U feel it has to do with friends or someone close.
Knowing would make one feel bad but will also feel like a victory for me at the end, and to know how bad some friends could be.

U said u r sure she cheated.watelse do u want her 2 say or do u want her 2 repeat d act wt u watchin b4 u'll knw wat 2 do?u dnt hav 2 force her 2 confess,its either u 4give her or u let her go.y do u even want 2 hear it 4rm her?if u re sure den u nid nt ask questn.

build up evidence against her, and show her the evidence and make her confess to it. if she refuse to tell truth, she does nt care about u, meaning that u should nt waste urtime with her. if she an nigerian girl, becarefull, they can be very smart minded in outsmarting men. a fact. stay strong

There's notin 2 justify lol, but if u wanna find out, u shld know your way. Like a girl i 1ce had that tells me all d men she slept with when am ban ging her brains out,  How funny

@ Poster

She hasnt admitted to it so why do you say you are sure? Is it just a feeling you have

Unfortunately, if a woman is determined to keep a secret, chances are it will follow her to her grave. If she confesses, then what? It's more than likely you'll leave her anyway.
However, Methinks that if u don't want to be told to forget her, i believe you can forgive her. So forgive her anyway. Hopefully u'll find out that the suspicion was a figment of an overactive imagination.

@ sholababa,ur eng has improvd ovanyt oo,but u cnt sim 2 leave d word an.u re definitely an nigerian.

@ freecoca, yes am a nigerian, but am an lost nigerian, particulary from (Hausa Tribe) that was taken away from africa years ago and place on a an island called jamaica. does nt mean some  1 can speak like a nigerian, act like 1, does nt mean they have to be one. I know it may seem to good to be true, but believe when it is!

The truth is that the guy involved got drunk sometime ago while we 're on a outing and gave a lead to the fact but got to his senses b4 finally letting out the whole cat from the bag.
So U all can see why am sure.
I know I need to forgive/dump my girl but I need to have my facts right so that i can correct my friend, and possibly prevent him from deadly revenge on such matter in the future.

Prevent him from revenge? Did u mean to type 'me' instead of 'him'? Why would he want to take revenge?

I mean if he should straff anoda frds girl in the future , He may not be that lucky to avoid revenge, which could be in any form.
Hav U ever tried to find out why friends or groups fight or kill each other, it's mostly for money or for women.

@ Poster

The guy got drunk and told you? How do you even know he's telling the truth. Guys lie about such things all the time. If I were you, I'd think twice about it!

the best way to get a truth from a lady is by strangling her almost to the point of death~

If that's the case, i wonder how u intend to go abt it.
It's a sticky situation really, cos u don't even know for certain. If u ask her and u're wrong, u end up looking like a jerk. Like i said earlier, u might as well forgive her and get on wt ur life. Who knows? You might be reading more into it than there actually is. If there's a rat, it usually shows itself plainly sooner or later. For now, stop fretting, cos there's nothing u can do abt it anyway.

Just tell the truth yourself and you'll be fine.

annoy her n lie u cheated n dont send her