I have been dating my girl for almost 4years now,out of those four years we had spent like two years staying far from each other.My fear comes from what she told me last year June & she repeated it last week,she said if i should leave her that except she didnt get to see me after she get married but if she do she will cheat on her husband.My fear now is that is that not too much of a commitment?Candid opinon pls,if all you want to do is to insult me pls dont make comment.

Lmao . . . .Funny thread
How old is ur gf?

She is 24.

Sorry

Toppytee:

if all you want to do is to insult me pls dont make comment.

we have freedom of speech in nairaland,  

Toppytee:

She is 24.

wow
and she said sumthin as dumb as if she marries someone else, she wud still be still be sleepin with u?
some girls dont knw how to talk . . seriously

dont worry abt it. its just talk

Since she is insistin u wuld stil wire ha even afta mariage 2 anoda man, guy dat one no supose be ya problm. About ha doin same to u if u marry ha, dnt wory urself cos she aint gonna do it. Shes only sayin u r her most priced & she'd fancy ha future wit u bt she talk am in a wronggggg way.

More advises Pls! The guy no fit sleep!!

of all the guy she's had, u r the best
she is just obsessed with you
that's not to say she would cheat on you if u get merried
it happens very welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
dont tell me u neva heard of that
she just cant love any other person the way she loves you, hence she cant resist you in the future
Maybe you dont know many married Men and Women did not marry their most luved dude due to so many resons
i.e GENOTYPE, RELIGION, PARENTS to metion a few
no wahala OK?

very funny, I must say the girl is childish and she can be trusted

Habib16:

More advises Pls! The guy no fit sleep!!

best comment on nland 2010 so far~

I want to assume she said it out of naivety and "love".
If you read between the lines, what she meant was. . .It's either you or no else.

My 0.2222 cfa.

then ur koko must be huge

no comment

First, when you are with her did you always give her attention, are you a caring guy, hope you are not the type that is always after sex. some ladies can say something and they don't mean it.

She is trying to let u know how she feels about u. That she can't imagine a life without u, it doesn't mean she will cheat on u nor she cheats now. The only problem is the way the puts it. I think she loves u much.