No1. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! University of Winchester Professor Eric Anderson explains. "An uncontested sexological finding is that the longer a couple is together, the less frequent and less intense their sex will be. This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex therapist.

No2. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps you in a one-down position, in similar terms, those with 'poor' partners might be tempted to cheat with 'rich' guys to satisfy their financial obligations or needs. This is very common among students but also among married as well.

No3. They're Seeking Emotional Fulfillment:
"Women have affairs when the relationship is not addressing their needs," says Susan Shapiro Barash, author of A Passion For More: Wives Reveal the Affairs That Make or Break Their Marriages. "I've rarely spoken to a woman who describes her lover as similar to her husband; rather he provides what the woman can't get in the marriage." Conventional wisdom holds that women crave emotional connection, that they lust for intimacy and stability, while men are like Tex Avery cartoon wolves, howling and hitting themselves over the head with a sledgehammer whenever a cute girl crosses their path. Men pursue sex. According to infidelity expert and The Cheat Sheet author Stephany Alexander, women cheat in the pursuit of appreciation and attention. How long can you go without receiving love and attention before you look somewhere else? Some can go for only days or weeks, and others can go for years. However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention.

No4. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment, you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution.

No5. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male attention, your temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-control to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize other guys want you, your desire to act on it may have you feeling euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros and cons list.

No6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love.

No7. Bored:
When the routine is the same over and over again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from him. You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize about being with someone else. You begin to feel excited (something you haven't felt in "forever" just thinking about it. Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of effort. It requires both of you introducing new ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be sure of what you want.

For more information about infidelity, self-esteem, and ways to cope, I recommend reading more related article.

No be all women like sex ooooo, women cheat when their men can't take care of their financial needs,the materialistic ones are likely to cheat the most.

People cheat - both males and female - because they have loose moral standards. Every other reason is secondary.

They're a confused creature

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op sorry 4 deil.....

nawa o

OP, u forgot to add;

No8. Internal bleeding in the brain

cos no matter how u satisfy a woman, that madness wey dey her lineage go still control her go outside

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Jealousy

crazy comments

LethargiQue:
According to Number 5, all I have to do is make Katherine lose weight, and I finally get to bang her?

Her boyfriend treats her like shït and her ass soft, we made out by mistake one time, been looking to get down ever since..

Baaaaadth guy,,,..

No. 1 and 2 is the only reason for me why women cheat,
Once you have no 2 they'll do anything for you, you can even put a leash on them like dogs, they don't mind..

And if you suck at no. 1 prepare for brother Chukwudi at the boys quarters to help you out

Gshegg:
No. 1 and 2 is the only reason for me why women cheat,
Once you have no 2 they'll do anything for you, you can even put a leash on them like dogs, they don't mind..

And if you suck no. 1 prepare for brother Chukwudi at the boys quarters to help you out

I agree but cant rule out No6 - once they feel they're not appreciated by who they're with, they'll jump in with tells them they look out....

fernandooleku:
OP, u forgot to add;

No8. Internal bleeding in the brain

cos no matter how u satisfy a woman, that madness wey dey her lineage go still control her go outside

I'm not a doctor to know that... lol

When you have the spirit of cheating in you, no Jupiter can stop you from cheating.

if you cheat during relationship, you don't know when you will cheat during marriage.

There is no excuse to cheat,if you have issues,solve it or break.up.....

saydfact:


I agree but cant rule out No6 - once they feel they're not appreciated by who they're with, they'll jump in with tells them they look out....

bro, it's girls we're talking about here, even though they feel unappreciated, they will still stay and endure cos no. 2 is steadily available.

I wee nor lie but no7 got me flirting with another guy

All these romance section boys, always feeling like they know women...whereas they know nothing. The babe that cheated on her guy after collecting 100k, was it for money? The guy whose girlfriend is flirting with his friend, is it because of money?
The one whose gf went for NYSC and followed corper, was it for money? So many threads on cheating gfs in this section, all pointing at emotional reasons, yet una no wan get sense and stop mentioning money every second.

Majority of you that are quick to mention money as a reason, have no money. Guys that have the money, are very aware it goes beyond money! I very much understand you guys situation, some day you all will make money, and know better.

Women cheat more for emotional reasons ; boredom, under-appreciation, bad sex, lack of attention, revenge...etc

Gshegg:
bro, it's girls we're talking about here, even though they feel unappreciated, they will still stay and endure cos no. 2 is steadily available.

HMMM.. You must be a pro.... On point

Aderola15:
I wee nor lie but no7 got me flirting with another guy

How were you able to overcome it? wanna share small...

Gshegg:
bro, it's girls we're talking about here, even though they feel unappreciated, they will still stay and endure cos no. 2 is steadily available.

Mstchhhhhhhheeeeew

Which yeye money una get sef?

Aderola15:


Mstchhhhhhhheeeeew

Which yeye money una get sef?

which you prefer NO1 or NO2 ?

pocohantas:
All these romance section boys, always feeling like they know women...whereas they know nothing. The babe that cheated on her guy after collecting 100k, was it for money? The guy whose girlfriend is flirting with his friend, is it because of money?

Majority of you that are quick to mention money as a reason, have no money. Guys that have the money, are very aware it goes beyond money!

Women cheat more for emotional reasons ; boredom, under-appreciation, bad sex, lack of attention, revenge...etc

TRUE TALK..... but maybe the guy she collect 100k from is the one she's cheating with not the main guy - so na still same of same...

saydfact:


TRUE TALK..... but maybe the guy she collect 100k from is the one she's cheating with not the main guy - so na still same of same...

Nope, she was cheating with another guy.

Ask guys that have the money, most times when their girlfriends cheat...she cheats with someone way below their 'level'. As in, you'll be wondering what she saw in the guy, that's where the emotions come in.

saydfact:


How were you able to overcome it? wanna share small...

Loool... Slapped myself back to the right track, would have shared how that happened but ion know who's gonna be checking my posts to write epistle again.


But honestly, boredom is the only thing that would make me wanna think twice about my relationship and that's definitely after trying my best to provide solution to whatever problem might have gotten us to that stage.

saydfact:


which you prefer NO1 or NO2 ?

Aderola15:


Mstchhhhhhhheeeeew

Which yeye money una get sef?

Pleaseee, that's the language you guys listen to, you smell it from miles away..

saydfact:


HMMM.. You must be a pro.... On point

Lol, work hard and get rich, women will find you even though you're deep underground in the Chilean mines

LethargiQue:
According to Number 5, all I have to do is make Katherine lose weight, and I finally get to bang her?

Her boyfriend treats her like shït and her ass soft, we made out by mistake one time, been looking to get down ever since..

Who's Katherine?