good day everyone. having a bad day, haven't felt this bad b4. ok, my fone has a password that no one knows apart from me. only for my mum to get hold of my fone while I was sleeping last night, dunno how she opened it and went through maybe all my chats on whatsap. she saw all my secrets, now I feel I have been robbed of my right to privacy. even my chats with my ex. she called me this morning and started telling me all I discussed with my ex and some guys. she added sugar and salt to my dad's hearing. I couldn't just help it buh feel ashamed and and feel bad. am 20 and in 3rd year. feeling so bad now, can't even face dem again. will be leaving home to sch soonest as a result. although I feel remorse for my past, and I didn't do anything so bad that's not common. buh y should my mum check my whatsap chats, like she went deep to very old chats. I didn't expect her to do that. to de extent that she told our neighbour and anoda of her friend.

Are u sure she didnt saw u when ur trying to unlock ur phone? U know these oldies sha they have this telescopic eyes

Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Don't be surprised ooo...

Nigerian mothers for you. Some barely know that at 20 you should have some privacy. That was so bad of her to discuss it with your neighbour and friend.

You really can't do anything, other than to move on. The deed has already been done.

She still sees you as her little girl.

Yawnnnnnssssss, that kinda endtime mothers them.

Kilode

queenice7:
good day everyone. having a bad day, haven't felt this bad b4. ok, my fone has a password that no one knows apart from me. only for my mum to get hold of my fone while I was sleeping last night, dunno how she opened it and went through maybe all my chats on whatsap. she saw all my secrets, now I feel I have been robbed of my right to privacy. even my chats with my ex. she called me this morning and started telling me all I discussed with my ex and some guys. she added sugar and salt to my dad's hearing. I couldn't just help it buh feel ashamed and and feel bad. am 20 and in 3rd year. feeling so bad now, can't even face dem again. will be leaving home to sch soonest as a result. although I feel remorse for my past, and I didn't do anything so bad that's not common. buh y should my mum check my whatsap chats, like she went deep to very old chats. I didn't expect her to do that. to de extent that she told our neighbour and anoda of her friend.

Just look through what I am saying..

At 20 you still have a lot ahead of you.. Your life has not yet begun and you are still very young... Instead of feeling bad about it, sit down and let your parents give you some counsel..

The world today is filled with men professing fake love and toying with your emotions only to use and dump you... Your mother is a woman like you and she knows about emotions, love and men... Your father is a man and he knows about what men are looking for.. He himself must have been tempted and he knows what men are after.

You are just 20 and the fact that you are living in your parents house means you are not yet capable to look after yourself completely.. I left my parents house when I was just 18 to look after myself.. I went through a lot, but I never, ever kept any secret no matter how dirty it is from my father...

Don't allow the so called privacy and the fact that you are in 3rd year get into your head. Your life has not actually begun.. So not matter how angry or annoyed you are, take advice from the two people who have been through life and love you dearly.. (although I don't know much about your current relationship with your mother but try to make your mother your best friend and you will make better decisions..

At just 18, my father respected my privacy, no one could touch something that belongs to me without asking for permission, because he trusted me, because I showed him everything that is to me.. Your mother doesn't trust you and does not respect you... Try to change that by giving her a reason to..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Learn to delete your chats and copy out any important detail.

Checking my whatsapp? Hehehehehe You're on a long thing because as soon as the chat dey end, I dey delete the whole chat history .
If you check my chat history, you go only find whatsapp group messages.

That's why I love whatsapp like crazy

ikp120:
Learn to delete your chats and copy out any important detail.

Checking my whatsapp? Hehehehehe You're on a long thing because as soon as the chat dey end, I dey delete the whole chat history .
If you check my chat history, you go only find whatsapp group messages.

That's why I love whatsapp like crazy

You really have a lot to hide.

Talk to your parents about it.

Op let me tell u are not a minor if u don't like what they did tell them

kimbra:
You really have a lot to hide.

Hehehe Babe that was back then when I was still single o. Sometimes I go dey toast and sample like 10 babes at the same time and they no go even know

You wan make I leave the chats so that one of the babes go read am by "mistake"? Hehehehehe Na die be that o.

But I don get serious girlfriend now sha, so I don stop

kimbra:
You really have a lot to hide.

Same here, I don't keep chats and messages .



I can be very secretive, I hate someone invading my privacy cos I won't invade yours.

ikp120:
Hehehe Babe that was back then when I was still single o. Sometimes I go dey toast and sample like 10 babes at the same time and they no go even know

You wan make I leave the chats so that one of the babes go read am by "mistake"? Hehehehehe Na die be that o.

But I don get serious girlfriend now sha, so I don stop

Good for you. I used to password my phone but since I upgraded it and added new features, I just told myself I have nothing to hide and no one uses it without my consent except my kid bro 'cause he's a phone/computer freak. Whenever he's done he hands it back to me. As a matter of fact, I remember leaving my phone in my family house with my brother for 3days and I wasn't scared beside being worried about my calls which I asked him to receive.

MhizTenderly:
Same here, I don't keep chats and messages .



I can be very secretive, I hate someone invading my privacy cos I won't invade yours.

I don't delete my chats. Why'll I own a phone and be conscious of who sees my chats?. It's just not my thing and my siblings know, I let them see what they want and the highest is "I Love You".

My mum isn't so nosy, provided you're an adult.

kimbra:
Good for you. I used to password my phone but since I upgraded it and added new features, I just told myself I have nothing to hide and no one uses it without my consent except my kid bro 'cause he's a phone/computer freak. Whenever he's done he hands it back to me. As a matter of fact, I remember leaving my phone in my family house with my brother for 3days and I wasn't scared beside being worried about my calls which I asked him to receive.

I don't password my phone these days sha because there's really no confidential stuff inside.

It's only my babe that is allowed to handle my phone sha.

ikp120:
I don't password my phone these days sha because there's really no confidential stuff inside.

It's only my babe that is allowed to handle my phone sha.

All right. Hope she doesn't read an unexpected message someday?.

RIP! To English!

QueenSuccubus:




Are u sure she didnt saw u when ur trying to unlock ur phone? U know these oldies sha they have this telescopic eyes

Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Ooh yes! Don't be surprised ooo...

kimbra:
All right. Hope she doesn't read an unexpected message someday?.

Hehehehehe . Nah, I'm a good boy

queenice7:
good day everyone. having a bad day, haven't felt this bad b4. ok, my fone has a password that no one knows apart from me. only for my mum to get hold of my fone while I was sleeping last night, dunno how she opened it and went through maybe all my chats on whatsap. she saw all my secrets, now I feel I have been robbed of my right to privacy. even my chats with my ex. she called me this morning and started telling me all I discussed with my ex and some guys. she added sugar and salt to my dad's hearing. I couldn't just help it buh feel ashamed and and feel bad. am 20 and in 3rd year. feeling so bad now, can't even face dem again. will be leaving home to sch soonest as a result. although I feel remorse for my past, and I didn't do anything so bad that's not common. buh y should my mum check my whatsap chats, like she went deep to very old chats. I didn't expect her to do that. to de extent that she told our neighbour and anoda of her friend.

C'est tout à fait inacceptable! Ta mère a fait la mauvaise chose. Tu devais lui faire savoir que vous n'êtes pas content du tout!

Quinn22:
RIP! To English!

awwww mehn