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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by barallanee(f): 9:45am On Apr 26, 2017
6..it's nt everybody that like wasting their time dating.. Wen der r facing better things in life... We all hav dreams, dating is nt included in mine
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 26, 2017
princessayesha:
Ladies this ladies that....if women with bad character can't find love then y is my neighbour married to a woman that treats him like a fool?
He is not too rich but she is always shopping, with his money of coz, coz she doesnt work or engage in any bussiness. She even used hot pressing iron to burn his child (her step daughter ), sheis very rude to his family, including his mom ( who is now late ), she calls his mother by name and she gossips about everyone in the neighbourhood. I can go on and on...but they are still married with 3 kids, and he is not complaining, always defending her. She is beautiful tho, very fair with long hair n nice figure.
And then there is another one in my school...very nice and prayerful. A good cook with very good character. Respected by all, loves to help, but she is not very attractive. She is still single at 35. Ayam confused
simple men are moved by what they see. Thats is why we have slay queens, despite the fact that men complain, they still date them, stalk them on social media si who are they deceiving. Tell that your prayerful girl to upgrade.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 26, 2017
coolestchris:
how old r u
how old r u
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by lazygal: 10:08am On Apr 26, 2017
lite15:

I know you are one of those single unmarriageble lady,
This is the problem and downfall of ladies like you, you still have a very long way to go...........................for you just focus on your olosho career.



Lol...lwkmd...why the insults oooooo.you are entitled to you opinions if u feel am single ,ur opinion if u feel am married your opinion ...if you feel its the problem and downfall of ladies like my self ...your opinion
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by lazygal: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2017
Richydos:

Hahahahahahha u have truly seen things oooo # even d living n d dead u have seen em all * just kontinue 2 dey see things


Thank you ! I hope this morning with another success offer .. This is what I c daily ..by the manner of thinking we know the brains behind the faceless pple on nairaland
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Emjay1310(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2017
Top among their challenges is lack of faithfulness. They forget that it's the guys that approach ladies in this part of the world and so they keep waiting for their Mr Right to come not knowing that Mr Right never comes in an obvious way; always disguised. Ladies trust your Guy's and u will be less single
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by lazygal: 10:14am On Apr 26, 2017
princessayesha:
Ladies this ladies that....if women with bad character can't find love then y is my neighbour married to a woman that treats him like a fool?
He is not too rich but she is always shopping, with his money of coz, coz she doesnt work or engage in any bussiness. She even used hot pressing iron to burn his child (her step daughter ), sheis very rude to his family, including his mom ( who is now late ), she calls his mother by name and she gossips about everyone in the neighbourhood. I can go on and on...but they are still married with 3 kids, and he is not complaining, always defending her. She is beautiful tho, very fair with long hair n nice figure.
And then there is another one in my school...very nice and prayerful. A good cook with very good character. Respected by all, loves to help, but she is not very attractive.
She is still single at 35. Ayam confused

May you be blessed with wisdom,success,may your enemies not see u when they check.

THIS IS MY POINT EXACTLY. Reasoning seems to be a big problem and that is why a lot of pple can't find jobs even with their 2.1 or 1st class as once they come a before panel of interviewers ,there is nothing in them .

Pple just get on nairaland to insult because they don't wish to reason or think far and wide .

Stay blessed sister

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by lazygal: 10:17am On Apr 26, 2017
Jman06:
Face your career, be confident, dress good and smart, read wide to open you mind, don't appear needy, be bold, socialize, be selfless, don't look down on people, don't have that mindset of a man is the 'head' and must provide all my needs, stop fantasizing about celebs if you are not one. If you can do the above, you will not just find a man, but a man who will love the ground upon which you walk.


Look around you dear,we have many ladies with these qualities you are stating ...and what makes u feel because a few fantasize over celebs so the average lady does? Don't men fantasize also ?
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by BamideleOJ: 10:43am On Apr 26, 2017
@the composer: You have pointed out very correct facts but you can always employ the simplest words to drive home your points
Bamidele Oludare J.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by metallisc(m): 10:46am On Apr 26, 2017
Oyind17:
Lastly too many 1 minute guystongue

Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 26, 2017
CaroLyner:
6.Love of career:
Some ladies are so in love with their career and cannot give it up for a man.
Nice one

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 26, 2017
NotOfThis:
There're females who are single by choice. Why isn't that on the list?
Oshey grin

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by HarveySpecter1: 10:56am On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
men with gonorrhoea infested dick, do you have six packs and biceps that you are talking.

You don't deserve a guy with six packs if you have a vagina that secrets menses.

You people with inferior pu$$13$ will be challenging the superior gender. Ok o.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by queenDD(f): 11:01am On Apr 26, 2017
CaroLyner:
6.Love of career:
Some ladies are so in love with their career and cannot give it up for a man.

So when a lady gives up her career for a man, what happens next? She becomes dependent on him?
If a man wants a lady to give up her career, he should be able to provide her with an alternative, a good one, otherwise forget it.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 26, 2017
Bahddo:
I am disappointed that a lady wrote this. I wonder why many ladies rate their worth by the presence of a man in their lives.

Being single is far better than a nightmare marriage, better than being a divorcee (from rushing into a bad marriage), and certainly better than being murdered by one's jealous spouse. But then we are Africans, hardly ever able to recognize what is more important.

I don't know why you guys keep on trying to diagnose single ladies as if it is a disease being single. When the ladies struggle to get married to escape the backlash from well-meaning busybodies, we again bash them for being desperate.

Seriously, leave single ladies alone. Women aren't born simply to get married to some random dude someday.

Preach ... that's their main priority in life grin marriage shioor
N be swimming in poverty tomorrow ... den after marriage if he divorce u nko
What else undecided abeg preach jare
One don't rush marriage it will happen when both are ready simple.. ...
like say MRS nah achievement
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 26, 2017
Bumbae1:


Preach ... that's their main priority in life grin marriage shioor
N be swimming in poverty tomorrow ... den after marriage if he divorce u nko
What else undecided abeg preach jare
One don't rush marriage it will happen when both are ready simple.. ...
like say MRS nah achievement


Boo kiss
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 11:36am On Apr 26, 2017
HarveySpecter1:


You don't deserve a guy with six packs if you have a vagina that secrets menses.

You people with inferior pu$$13$ will be challenging the superior gender. Ok o.
flabby piece of $HITwith pot belly and alcoholic liver disease. may you marry a woman with a pvs$y that doesnt menstruate. Fool.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by sEGXY2(m): 11:46am On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
flabby piece of $HITwith pot belly and alcoholic liver disease. may you marry a woman with a pvs$y that doesnt menstruate. Fool.
Damn you seem so aggressive!
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by ylaa(f): 11:47am On Apr 26, 2017
U get one litre of soakaway water, mix with one full cup of cement add izal, shake well n take two cups morning n night it will awake your sense of reasoning. OnuOfia, aturu, ewu, de nzobu, nwa ekwensu



quote author=Richydos post=55917498]
Lolzzzzz u sound so pained *mix garlic n pepper inside beach water 2 drink... Maybe u might grow some sense Cox i seem not 2 d them u want pple 2 leave alone
Biko R u married or single? [/quote]

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 11:48am On Apr 26, 2017
sEGXY2:
Damn you seem so aggressive!
why wont i be, when he proceeded to insult the female gender and the vagina he came out of.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by samtol4(m): 11:50am On Apr 26, 2017
Vorpal:


You will give up your career for a man?
You don't give up career for a man rather your man complement your dreams and aspirations ,however you must have a compromise to be in agreement.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by samtol4(m): 11:58am On Apr 26, 2017
samtol4:
You don't give up career for a man rather your man complement your dreams and aspirations ,however you must have a compromise to be in agreement.
My research on this issue can be summed into three : unemployment situation of guys and bad economy .Most of our parents married at the age of 22 - 28 ,then employnent was sure .2. Most ladies don't want to start small with a guy . They want a guy who is comfortable that is not bad desire but then a man with potential will always rise above his poverty level .3 Some men though mature in age and finance are not ready for commitment ,they want sex sex sex .

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 12:04pm On Apr 26, 2017
samtol4:
You don't give up career for a man rather your man complement your dreams and aspirations ,however you must have a compromise to be in agreement.

Direct your post to her not me. I wanted her to explain how and why will she do that.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Babacele: 12:20pm On Apr 26, 2017
Op , hmmmm I agree with some but not with a few of some'o your reasons ...talking about our ladies' negative traits,it pains me to my marrow when we pretend these ladies are not from our homes ; they ain't our sisters nor family members. Faulty family values, me thinks, give birth to ladies and gentlemen with attitudes. So rather than the effect, we should be worried about the cause. When fathers are irresponsible and don't give their family needed supports ,what do we expect from offsprings therefrom?
Marriage is all about 2 persons operating at the same frequency . Why does it seem our parents are more successful in the marriage business? We need to overcome the poverty of ignorance in choosing life partners for all the fingers of marriage credentials and requirements are not equal for all and at all! Some bad and some ugly get hooked while some good gals are still waiting. But most good gals, irrespective of age, still have tons of suitors ready to die for them. As long we are ready to make needed sacrifices against prejudices while not compromising our defining values, we go leave single hood .
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by sEGXY2(m): 12:21pm On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
why wont i be, when he proceeded to insult the female gender and the vagina he came out of.
There are so many denigrating comments on NL, taking time to reply them would only be a waste of time and fetch you haters who will rope in more controversies than you can handle

Its best to always watch threads like this from the sidelines!
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by kushme: 12:30pm On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
dora akinyuli, ngozi okonjo iweala, oprah, beyonce,chimanda ngozi adichie, yemi alade, margaret thatcher, mother theresa, ibukun awosika. I have more where that came from.

cheesy. Continue, funmisticqueen, Laura chinchilla, Theresa may, Janet yellen on and on.... You can go on with your female selective knowledge running on emotion concerning how women are powerful and gave men civilization.

Now, slowly, turn your head 360 degrees right where you are. Every single thing you see, government, air conditioning, cars, road construction, electricity, the rule of law, vaccination, society...... Men created it.

Females had nothing to do with it.

Now, if you have a better understanding with any sense of reality in you, then, it is crystal clear that men care about women like women care about children like children care about puppies..
Reverse the case and things won't go well...
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 12:36pm On Apr 26, 2017
kushme:


cheesy. Continue, fumisticqueen, Laura chinchilla, Theresa may, Janet yellen on and on.... You can go on with your female selective knowledge running on emotion concerning how women are powerful and gave men civilization.

Now, slowly, turn your head 360 degrees right where you are. Every single thing you see, government, air conditioning, cars, road construction, electricity, the rule of law, vaccination, society...... Men created it.

Females had nothing to do with it.

Now, if you have a better understanding with any sense of reality in you, then, it is crystal clear that men care about women like women care about children like children care about puppies..
Reverse the case and things won't go well...



everything men invented was to make a woman's life better and if not for women, men will be in the stone age.women may not have played a major role but a role nonetheless. Please remember peter and marie curie.
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by kushme: 1:06pm On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
everything men invented was to make a woman's life better and if not for women, men will be in the stone age.women may not have played a major role but a role nonetheless. Please remember peter and marie curie.


grin. cheesy.

Just imagine.. cry . Selective intelligence... Though, i didn't expect anything more.... I knew the Marie Curie would come up.. cheesy. Radium and polonium , first woman with a PhD from a french university.. encouraged, awarded and supported by women abi?.
Like you find it difficult to see reality from a bigger picture.. right.. huh. Men would be in the stone age if not for women.. really? Holy horse sh*t... cheesy. I think this is the origin of Fvcking female entittlement mentality....

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 26, 2017
Bumbae1:


Preach ... that's their main priority in life grin marriage shioor
N be swimming in poverty tomorrow ... den after marriage if he divorce u nko
What else undecided abeg preach jare
One don't rush marriage it will happen when both are ready simple.. ...
like say MRS nah achievement
what you saying this?aaaa Bumbae old thing ve expired renew with fresh pple aaa I don't believe u will still be outering words like this,what it that still hurt u abt your past?hun
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Ugosample(m): 2:15pm On Apr 26, 2017
blackberlin:
You didn't add the most important reason to that list:
feminism.

Ladies nowadays, in the name of women empowerment, want to become the head of the family and upset the natural family balance. Who will marry a girl that cannot even offer to cook food for you or do a simple chore while you're dating?

And they expect a guy to "put a ring on it". I'm coming to put a ring on it. . . Just wait oo...

What is the correlation between women empowerment and head of family undecided
Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by Jman06(m): 2:18pm On Apr 26, 2017
lazygal:



Look around you dear,we have many ladies with these qualities you are stating ...and what makes u feel because a few fantasize over celebs so the average lady does? Don't men fantasize also ?
Men fantasize but they know where to draw the line. But ladies will want to see their celeb crush in their man literally and so they turn down many suitors with the hope of finding their fantasy.

Another reason is that while men would stoop low to marry ladies who are not in their class with no qualms, ladies RARELY do marry a guy they consider below them. That is why there are educated working class ladies who are single. Many of them would not even settle for a guy who is at par with them let alone one below. And they forget that most of the richer and classier men would rather use their wealth to 'acquire' younger and fresher babes of who might even be of lower class.

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Re: 5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single by kkins25(m): 2:59pm On Apr 26, 2017
funmisticqueen:
why should we suffer with you, are we siamese twins.
Hahahaha hahahaha

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