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Can You ? by shestrong(f): 1:33pm On Apr 30, 2017
If you are friends with someone on the Internet and chat with them on messenger programs for example, you would know what am talking about.Although ,personally, i've not fallen in love with someone online but I have felt connected in some ways to people whom i have never met face to face.
If you happen to know someone over the net,u can feel connected if ur ideas or views match theirs.
But could such a love stand the test of time?
Would such a love overcome the potentially high expectations generated by an online or virtual personality?
Would such a love,come to terms with the reality of physical imperfections or deficiencies?
These r important questions to consider
Assuming that a couple has met over the Internet or over the phone through a friend or someone ,the more interesting thing I'd like to know is what would be their reaction when they infact meet in person for the first time?
What if the persons turns out not to be as attractive physically when u first meet them?
can you overlook that fact and love them the same way u did as before u met them?
What about the potential of anonymity?people who mask their true identities online
You may have good intentions ,honest ,genuine nd want real love,but can you be sure that the person ure chatting to or speaking with share those intentions?
Please share ur experiences if any.

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Re: Can You ? by SuperSuave(m): 1:39pm On Apr 30, 2017
yes, I fell like klitschko and rose again
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Apr 30, 2017
grin


My bestie met her hubby thru dating site..they met only twice in person and her hubby proposed to her...the nxt thing, they got married which i missed it sad


Now they have this beautiful daughter ...

Love conquers everything ONLY if 2 ppol are fighting for each other & this is very important in every relationship grin

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Re: Can You ? by Nne5: 1:52pm On Apr 30, 2017
No Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes
Op I dunno know
Re: Can You ? by SmellingAnus(m): 1:56pm On Apr 30, 2017
Yes of course... Even Isaac and Rebecca agreed to get married to each other even without communication between both of them grin

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Re: Can You ? by emeijeh(m): 2:00pm On Apr 30, 2017
Yes, with an active data subscription

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Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 2:05pm On Apr 30, 2017
SuperSuave:
yes, I fell like klitschko and rose again






hahahhahhahahhahahaha, what r u saying?
Re: Can You ? by Headlesschicken(m): 2:06pm On Apr 30, 2017
undecided Maybe
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 30, 2017
SuperSuave:
yes, I fell like klitschko and rose again

I still can't believe he lost the game grin
Re: Can You ? by ikp120(m): 2:07pm On Apr 30, 2017
Big YES!

About the survival of such relationships; it all depends on their level of maturity (not age o, because age is just a number).

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Re: Can You ? by yomi007k(m): 2:07pm On Apr 30, 2017
angry

Hell No...make up these days hv thought me alot.

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Re: Can You ? by firstking01(m): 2:08pm On Apr 30, 2017
Sure....i have countless of times.

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Re: Can You ? by SINZ: 2:09pm On Apr 30, 2017
ikp120:
Big YES!

About the survival of such relationships; it all depends in their level of maturity (not age o, because age is just a number).

You said it all.

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Re: Can You ? by SuperSuave(m): 2:12pm On Apr 30, 2017
lovelygurl:

I still can't believe he lost the game grin
He's old already but still put up a good fight tho.
you're a boxing fan?

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Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 30, 2017
SuperSuave:
He's old already but still put up a good fight tho.

you're a boxing fan?

Not really, I just watched that 1 when everybody was like KLITSCHKO is losing. I was so shocked, couldn't believe it grin

Buy yeah you are right., he's getting old
Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 2:28pm On Apr 30, 2017
Nne5:
No Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes
Op I dunno know

u must know oo
Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2017
yomi007k:
angry
Hell No...make up these days hv thought me alot.





is it about the make up? what if ders this connection between you both?
Re: Can You ? by yomi007k(m): 2:34pm On Apr 30, 2017
shestrong:





is it about the make up? what if ders this connection between you both?

U mean like internet connection?


Well maybe but...

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Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 2:34pm On Apr 30, 2017
firstking01:
Sure....i have countless of times.



did it work out?
like r u still in touch?
Did anything change after meeting physically?
Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 2:34pm On Apr 30, 2017
yomi007k:

U mean like internet connection?

Well maybe but...
but..?
Re: Can You ? by yomi007k(m): 2:36pm On Apr 30, 2017
shestrong:


but..?


I cant date or love who I have not seen....she can only be more of a special pen pal.



Im a very pragmatic person....I dont trust ppl I see not to mention those I dont.

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Re: Can You ? by dingbang(m): 2:36pm On Apr 30, 2017
Shestrong but people met through social media and are married till date.. So why act as it its a new thing?

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Re: Can You ? by SuperSuave(m): 2:36pm On Apr 30, 2017
lovelygurl:


Not really, I just watched that 1 when everybody was like KLITSCHKO is losing. I was so shocked, couldn't believe it grin

Buy yeah you are right., he's getting old
not really a boxing fan too, I only like the knockdowns and knockouts grin I download loads of their videos
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Apr 30, 2017
SuperSuave:
not really a boxing fan too, I only like the knockdowns and knockouts grin I download loads of their videos

Lol grin
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 30, 2017
Op, we are unable to answer the questions you are asking us. You'll never know if you don't try
Re: Can You ? by firstking01(m): 2:44pm On Apr 30, 2017
shestrong:




did it work out?
like r u still in touch?
Did anything change after meeting physically?
Well, for the first question, yes...

Second question, yes but not on this platform, eventhough i have an experience here too...

Third question, for the few i 've met nothing really changed tho....


But, always keep your expections moderate and don't be too optimistic about the person so your heart won't break.

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Re: Can You ? by JhimmySpark(m): 2:44pm On Apr 30, 2017
Yea.... You can.. Give it a try..
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Apr 30, 2017
Only when you are depressed then yes it's possible, ever heard of cat fish? You'll fall inlove with ghosts one-day. if you Skype each other then it's alright, you haven't met the person physically but atleast you're aware of how they look like and who they are....

Cheers!!!!
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 30, 2017
It takes two to fall in love, of course you can be attracted to someone you've never met. smiley

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Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2017
Lashort:
Only when you are depressed then yes it's possible, ever heard of cat fish? You'll fall inlove with ghosts one-day. if you Skype each other then it's alright, you haven't met the person physically but atleast you're aware of how they look like and who they are....

Cheers!!!!




lol,,u just got me laughing with the catfish thing.Happy Sunday lashort
Re: Can You ? by shestrong(f): 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2017
dingbang:
Shestrong but people met through social media and are married till date.. So why act as it its a new thing?




just negodu
Re: Can You ? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Apr 30, 2017
Sure, but its not sustainable untill you meet the person and actually get to know them. Ie: test compatibility.

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