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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by arleck(m): 1:52pm On May 01, 2017
why the five of una No cun gree get sense again

Nne5
Bibi294
Jeyselassie
Poshestmina
Misscuppy

how else do you want a jealous lover to get back the attention of his bae? undecided

he did wat he needed to do
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by I888(m): 1:53pm On May 01, 2017
GodnGold:
Baba,take am easy na. Make person no go blind for this recession oooo lol.
no mind all these girls jare.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by arleck(m): 1:58pm On May 01, 2017
in cookie's voice Op that your babe is a Certified B I T C H

Dont Fvcking yell you still need her
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 2:00pm On May 01, 2017
tukurutaiwo:


****to her,..

um yeah? duh, it doesn't mean anything if u had sent it to the whole world as long as it doesn't get to her, and you're here trying to emphasize you sent it ***to her. my point is u let a friend convince you it's a good idea to tell such a hideous lie to a girl who has given you 9 yrs of her life, do u know the gravity of that? my friend, in everything u do in a relationship, be as realistic as possible, how would you have felt if she sent that message to you about her own impending nuptials totally blindsiding you? then u later came up with another plan, this time solo, telling her u got another girl pregnant, then she dumped you, do u not see how much you have tried to manipulate this girl's emotions? you're immature and should do a lot of self-cognition before getting into another relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Dvampire(m): 2:07pm On May 01, 2017
My guy...9 years of relationship?! That's deep. When were you planning of putting the ring on it bro? That aside, let her be. She's still smarting from the drama you served. She will come around. You guys have been together far too long. However when this is resolved, marry her fast or else....don't think she does not have toasters o.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Authentic1010(m): 2:10pm On May 01, 2017
You over did everything, in fact you over spiced the food that's what playing games does it spoils things. Just move on bro,perhaps she's probably thinking of marriage now and you don't fit in her list. Next time just speak your mind instead of playing games.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 2:13pm On May 01, 2017
thesuave10:



Kimbra delivery services. I can make some really out of this world orders. So you better deliver and fast too.


Lemme guess, this someone is George Clooney. Relationships are always heading some way. So if I decided to get married at 50 I'd probably had 10+ gfs. One for each year. I usually blame men more tho for relationship fck ups.
What's the point? Now that's the spirit. We should just be having no strings attached sex (this would solve everything) #friends with benefits activist. grin
That was why I said it isn't feasible and he isn't George Clooney. At least George clooney has been in marriages. At times when you think of the disadvantages you would rather feel like being alone.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 2:31pm On May 01, 2017
arleck:
why the five of una No cun gree get sense again


Nne5

Bibi294

Jeyselassie

Poshestmina

Misscuppy


how else do you want a jealous lover to get back the attention of his bae? undecided


he did wat he needed to do
There are other matured ways to handle it, if you try that shhit with me two times, I will do worst.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by fearlessV: 2:49pm On May 01, 2017
Op, you guys have tried naw, for 9yrs. Pls allow the next guy to bleep, just because u bleep a girl doesn't mean it your own, it just your turn
*modified *
It's time you move ahead o
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 3:08pm On May 01, 2017
Chibydinho:

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Very simple... Act nicely and loving this moment.. Sendless the other moment.
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Something happened to me yesterday. I have an online chick that we chat and things are going normal. I noticed on Saturday that she was getting cold on chats, I didn't bother.. I placed a call (my mumu self), she wasn't sounding cheerful like the one I know.. I laughed and as she didn't reply my fb msg that Saturday morning, while she was online.. I vowed to ignore her.
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I did that all through yesterday, she sent two msgs on fb calling me sweet names, I didn't bother to open it while I'm online making posts and even when she comments on them, I reply her on my post to show I am online yet I ignored her on inbox..mixed signals...lol
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She called, I no pick and didn't call back.. Mind you, na person that we dey be love birds ooo....
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So I'm on the pull method now to try make her realize that without her, I fit be enjoying and being happy. The push method was making her feel big head, so na the thing I dey try reduce...
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This is applicable in real life too... Don't act love love everytime, sometime create an issue and ball out small like a boss..lol.... To test if she really kwadu you well... Psychologically, we pursue things we no fit get easily.
I get it.
Thanks bro!
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 3:09pm On May 01, 2017
If there was an example of a woman who wanted to get out of a relationship it's this one. Brother you were set up and she used your behaviour as an excuse to end things. This relationship ended long before it ended. You cannot have a relationship where everyone including the kitchen sink is involved. Why people cannot be honest and say look I don't want to be with you anymore painful to hear but it's the truth.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by arleck(m): 3:10pm On May 01, 2017
MissCuppy:
There are other matured ways to handle it, if you try that shhit with me two times, I will do worst.


Other mature ways how? undecided

oya tell me.


cuz i dont see anythn wrong with op's way of handling her..
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tosyne2much(m): 3:12pm On May 01, 2017
Epositive:
i'll be back smiley


tosyne2much
Why you mention me baba? Say I be Commissioner For Woman Affairs abi? cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by poshestmina(f): 3:14pm On May 01, 2017
MissCuppy:
There are other matured ways to handle it, if you try that shhit with me two times, I will do worst.
You have time to reply that ijiot?
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by tosyne2much(m): 3:30pm On May 01, 2017
This is one of the reasons why relationship discourages guys.. You put all your mind trusting a girl and tomorrow she starts spring up attitude the moment she finds a highest bidder.

OP, believe me!! Either sooner or later, this girl will man up and tell you she no longer wants you. Can't you read clearly that this girl doesn't want you anymore ni? Or must you expect her to sit you down and tell you orally that she's no longer interested in you before you know what she's up to ni?


Happy break up in advance anyway
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by arleck(m): 3:32pm On May 01, 2017
poshestmina:
You have time to reply that ijiot?


ur papa idiotangry


low life parasite like you
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by NaeChris: 3:42pm On May 01, 2017
waywardpikin:


Ahn ahn... you dey fear? It's only slap na, you wee not die cheesy cheesy cheesy
Husband and wife. I will attend una wedding o.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by WhistleB(m): 3:54pm On May 01, 2017
Bibi294:
How will u feel if a girl keeps playing ur heart the way u r doing to this innocent young Lady.... Go see her and apologise and make sure you stop all this your immature games
What makes her innocent please? She kissed a guy in his presence. If that were to be me, that is where the relationship ends.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Epositive(m): 4:13pm On May 01, 2017
tosyne2much:
Why you mention me baba? Say I be Commissioner For Woman Affairs abi? cheesy

chief of "women" staff grin grin , help me reason the guy matter ahbeg cheesy cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by HqBoss: 4:24pm On May 01, 2017
op u have ruined the relationship already. ur gf has been cheating on, you ought to have created a plan to find out if she's really been cheating on u but instead u chose an extreme plan to determine if she loves you. well baba u need to leave that girl, forget the fact that you guys have been dating since secondary school. u held her back from being with different guys, this is what's surfacing now. she wants to explore, she's tired of being with one guy. you cant stay with such girl

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by TheGreatIYANU: 5:15pm On May 01, 2017
tukurutaiwo:
Dear nairalanders,

I've been dating this lady since we left secondary school...

i went to visit her and then i met one of her colleagues at work who was a guy and we greeted each other. While i was at her house, i noticed that the way the two of them were behaving was not making me comfortable but still i didn't leave. After about an hour or thereabout the guy decided to leave and she escorted the guy to the door and i decided to follow her which she did know of and then when she hugged the guy goodbye and was about to turn to the door to come back in the guy kissed her and when she turned her face she saw me but i didn't say anything..

It all got me annoyed but i composed myself.

After that day i met the guy there twice or thrice and then i asked her Wassup with her and this guy and she said there's nothing that they are just friends and i believed her. After then i still had issues with the same guy. We still had issues with another guy too though and my girlfriend was not bothered about it and then i just let her be and gave her some space because all she tells me is that I am too jealous.

Please i need honest and sincere advice.

This post pisses me off more than anything on nairaland. Brother you mean the bolded happened and you still in a r/ship with that harlot.

Are you kidding me?! You guys hammering on his useless games, una no read wetin I bold for up abi na only me see am.

Dear Op, you don't need our honest and sincere advice. What you need is a honest and sincere Psyche Evaluation.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Bibi294(f): 5:30pm On May 01, 2017
arleck:
why the five of una No cun gree get sense again


Nne5

Bibi294

Jeyselassie

Poshestmina

Misscuppy


how else do you want a jealous lover to get back the attention of his bae? undecided


he did wat he needed to do

He did the best by pulling those cheap and sensitive stunts?

turukutaiwo, if truly your relationship is 9years, mend ways with your girlfriend... Moreso, a girlfriend of 9 years is too long...are you waiting till she's thirty....

My piece of advice... Don't mind all these guys forming strong head, giving u wrong advice... Most of them are been boss around by their girlfriend and will come to nairaland to form jagaban. Seat her down and talk to her, ask her wat she wanted and if possible, ask if she's cheating.... You might just be overhyped about everything... More longtime relationship are meant to weaken as years go by...

Try and make good friends and not those who keep giving you the wrong advice...

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 5:38pm On May 01, 2017
kimbra:
That was why I said it isn't feasible and he isn't George Clooney. At least George clooney has been in marriages. At times when you think of the disadvantages you would rather feel like being alone.


Hehe.. I see your point almost clearly.. grin. You speak of Clooney like you know him tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Chibydinho(m): 5:41pm On May 01, 2017
GodnGold:
I get it. Thanks bro!
. You're welcome, keep ruling!
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 5:44pm On May 01, 2017
thesuave10:



Hehe.. I see your point almost clearly.. grin. You speak of Clooney like you know him tongue
He's one of Hollywood crush after Tyler Perry. grin
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Chibydinho(m): 5:45pm On May 01, 2017
TheGreatIYANU:


This post pisses me off more than anything on nairaland. Brother you mean the bolded happened and you still in a r/ship with that harlot.

Are you kidding me?! You guys hammering on his useless games, una no read wetin I bold for up abi na only me see am.

Dear Op, you don't need our honest and sincere advice. What you need is a honest and sincere Psyche Evaluation.
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You've got a point sha... Op was Mr. Romeo that met the wrong Juliet.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 5:50pm On May 01, 2017
kimbra:
He's one of Hollywood crush after Tyler Perry. grin

After who?? . Hehe this Is blasphemy and we Clooney fans do not forgive tongue grin
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 5:57pm On May 01, 2017
thesuave10:


After who?? . Hehe this Is blasphemy and we Clooney fans do not forgive tongue grin
Old age isn't treating him well. grin He should rest let's see fresh faces like those of Tyler Perry's.

Any day or time he would always top the list for Hollywood most handsome men. Are you now ok?. grin
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by thesuave10(m): 6:04pm On May 01, 2017
kimbra:
Old age isn't treating him well. grin He should rest let's see fresh faces like those of Tyler Perry's.

Any day or time he would always top the list for Hollywood most handsome men. Are you now ok?. grin

Hehe We're considering your forgiveness. But you've tried. A few bucks would do the trick
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by babyfaceafrica: 6:06pm On May 01, 2017
Go to church for Thanksgiving..
Re: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 6:07pm On May 01, 2017
thesuave10:


Hehe We're considering your forgiveness. But you've tried. A few bucks would do the trick
Are you now asking for some bucks?. grin

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