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Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 8:54pm On May 01, 2017 |
bbeautylik:Then thank your God.... As our families are different so are our various crosses and temptations 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Marvel1206: 8:55pm On May 01, 2017 |
akblings:OK. But then from your quote there and trying to reconcile it with your former post. It is the parent's duty to train up a child in the way he should go and it is the child's choice either to go with the training or otherwise. It is not "Train up a child in the way he ***must go." I hope I have said a thousand words with that. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Dahustler007(m): 9:02pm On May 01, 2017 |
May Her Gentle Soul Rest With The Lord And Her Children, We Pray For Peace, Love And Understand Amongst Them ....Amen 2 Likes |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by kayjee101: 9:08pm On May 01, 2017 |
greatnaija01:i totally disagree with you; though parent's grooming of their children will go along way to determine how they will act tomorrow, it is not always the case. You can not bring a child to this world and tell him/her how to live; people change. haven't you witnessed a scenerio where the two parents and all their children except one is wicked; why did he/she no follow the footsteps of his/her parent. What really determines how we will act at any given time is US, that entails WE knowing ourselves. Even Orphans lead a good life without coaching from anybody but life. 7 Likes |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by abbeyty(m): 9:12pm On May 01, 2017 |
majekdom2: you are very correct, what of the children who didn't even have both parents to train them but they still grew up loving one another 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by babalonimi: 9:25pm On May 01, 2017 |
Benekruku:U r very very correct! Fr m 2 s ok. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Benekruku(m): 9:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
babalonimi: Thats what I meant! A family total of 5 at most( Parents with 3kids at most) 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by doskie(m): 9:43pm On May 01, 2017 |
flourishing247:thats true. its called sibling rivalry. it just springs out suddenly sometimes from the devils warehouse. it gets so bad some times that the siblings never talk in many years. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by prejulsuc(f): 9:54pm On May 01, 2017 |
majekdom2:Exactly my taught dear.I just realised most of the children who become wayward at times are mostly from a decent home.Most of the things their parents did not allowed them to do when they were much younger are the things they loved doing,when they are living alone. What an irony.God should help them to truely know him by themselves not the one parents imposed on them. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by amakadihot87(f): 9:55pm On May 01, 2017 |
bbeautylik:..........nne its not easy at all,especially when the woman is the breadwinner...........mhhhh after the day's stress you find out you dont even have the strenght to talk to kids or correct them in their wrong doing.........widows go through a lot . 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 10:07pm On May 01, 2017 |
refiner:am not surprised dear. Trust me wen I say it.. Everyone believe it or not its happening live that if I say the story unah go tink say I just made it up. But God for heaven know wetin its happening were I am. Exactly wat u just wrote. If this one the mama join hand self against one person. But u know who God bless not a thousand Philistines can pull u down. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by luminouz(m): 10:24pm On May 01, 2017 |
bbeautylik:Looking at ur dp......I can see it.....u no even smile fully sef! N u have a sharp mouth!!!! Ur guy dey try oooo |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by luminouz(m): 10:25pm On May 01, 2017 |
amakadihot87:U just answered her for me Cc.bbeautylik |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Asidiq23(m): 10:26pm On May 01, 2017 |
flourishing247:no, you are wrong.. Don't say she don't train them well and if you are really talking from experience as you have said, you would know that even if you have trained your kids on the tenents of whichever religion and with good morals,it doesn't mean they would not turn scumbag it is so easy especially with peer groups influence, why do you think it is sometimes the kids of pastors or imam the most corrupt, all this things are trials of this world, some children would be problem to their parents no matter how hard the parent try and even a parent can be a trial to their own children as well, we just need to be prayerful and we should do the best we can in getting children know the messages of God . 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by flourishing247: 10:42pm On May 01, 2017 |
GoodFaith:The love you have for your mother will not make you love your siblings. It makes you love just your mum and ignore your siblings. Every mothers dream is not for her children to love her totally but it's for her kids to be United in love. There can only be one black sheep in a family. The black sheep can never influence others to follow him or her. If you want your family to stay United and break barriers. Train them to love one another. I've seen swings rally round their sis that list her husband and I was amazed at the show of love. The overwhelmed her with support that when her husbands family wanted to mess up. They showed up in full force. People still talk about them till date. They have a bond that can't be broken. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Asidiq23(m): 10:45pm On May 01, 2017 |
tripoli007:That's absurd of you to say she failed as a mother, please apart from the fact that, it is absurd to say l things about the dead, your assumption is wrong... Who told you she don't do all those things you said... Look ,some children are just meant to give their parents problem no matter how hard the parent try to guide them right, some children aren't merciful at all, and today when peer influence is on the high side, it is so easy for them to change, this things happen, even in the Quran and in the Bible, the son of prophet Nuh(Noah)goes against his father, isn't his father a prophet, also his wife also reject him and both of them refused to enter the ark prophet nuh built to save them... So it's need prayers and a lot of admonition again and again, if a parent have tried their own best to train a child to be pious and morally sound, and the child refuse,then it is to the child,s detriment, God knows and sees the effort of the parent and He is not gonna hold them for whatever foolishness of the child.. Every one would bear his or her cross. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by NLProblemChild(m): 10:51pm On May 01, 2017 |
refiner:rip to the dead. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Asidiq23(m): 10:55pm On May 01, 2017 |
driand:You are exactly like one of those children in the post. Oponu,must you talk If you don't have any better contribution |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Asidiq23(m): 10:57pm On May 01, 2017 |
luminouz:Abi O,no mind am, how did he know she don't train them well,dem go just dey talk anyhow for here.. They are never realistic 2 Likes |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by luminouz(m): 11:01pm On May 01, 2017 |
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Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by DavidEsq(m): 11:06pm On May 01, 2017 |
refiner:@ the highlighted: Sori to burst ur parochial bubble; weda parents bcm curses or blessings to their kids is not "solely dependent on the kids". U neva c at all. So u talking from ur keyhole of limited experience. Some parents are the very worst to ever hapn to their kids. If a open mouth, dey yarn u stuff ehn, u go pull this topic down, ASAP. 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by hysteriabox(m): 11:07pm On May 01, 2017 |
refiner: Kai So sad, but ur narrative is even the saddest. U come with a "brief" version of events and and emboldened conclusion, With no details from her antecedents... nah, its far from the truth. I av met very terrible siblings... one family of 5 I knew back in the 90s, they were so spoilt, their parents practically died of heart attacks thanks to their various escapades. But guy...the parents sowed...they set the stage for the drama they later endured. Where did the sister learn such classical withcraft/manipulation, spreading hatred...am sure she learnt from the best whom she saw for donkey years. Before we blame d harvest, lets be sure to admit the seed sown RIP to the dead. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by DavidEsq(m): 11:20pm On May 01, 2017 |
tripoli007:Wow! Lucky u bro. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Chommieblaq(f): 12:15am On May 02, 2017 |
She will find rest with the Lord. I know some people will blame the woman but most time it's not like that. I have seen children from worst background, without parental care turn out great, also have seen the ones with all the love and care turn out to be something else. Peer pressure and influence, you will be wondering where you went wrong. For a woman or man to singlehanded raise 7 kids, it's not easy. This generation is something else, God have mercy. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 2:42am On May 02, 2017 |
DavidEsq: Aberg yarn ooh brother..I dey surprise as everyone seems to have nice mother ...i cum dey wonder if na only me get worst mama..not really worst but her character get comma |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 4:09am On May 02, 2017 |
greatnaija01: Thanks for the compliment. Yet we manage to have the strongest military in the world, landed humans on the moon, fought to liberate many countries, have a robust space program, have many of the worlds top tourist destinations, etc 1 Like |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 5:24am On May 02, 2017 |
dis is a serious issue oooooo...
its confusing tho..
diaris god sha
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Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by driand(m): 6:11am On May 02, 2017 |
Asidiq23:Did I mention you? Or is it ur aunt? WTF is ur problem? |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by DavidEsq(m): 6:17am On May 02, 2017 |
Tritri:U no dey sleep ni |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by DavidEsq(m): 6:19am On May 02, 2017 |
EgunMogaji:Na by like dat? |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by LeanonGOD(m): 6:57am On May 02, 2017 |
Those who had laid blame on the dead aunty are bunch of sick people. Judas was a disciple of Jesus but he later sold his Master. Peter was a disciple of Jesus - and for three times Jesus warned him that devil would used him yet, Peter denied his Master three times. One of the greatest tragedy in life his to be born sighted but to lack of insight - one thing is to be born another thing is to reborn yourself. I know two families whose stories are similar to the above. Weeping over their dead mother, service of songs, wake keeping, burial, and big party after the burial will not unite them, it is Only God that can unite, and remove the bitterness in their DNA - if they Humble themselves and open their eyes. |
Re: How My Aunt's Children Led To Her Death by Nobody: 10:02am On May 02, 2017 |
[s] greatnaija01:[/s] I totally disagree. training your children in the way you deem right is not a guarantee that they would grow up to love you. There are many cases of children who grew up with good home training and turned out to be the opposite of the values and morals instilled in them. There are a lot of factors to it. And secondly what's ur definition of the best way to train a child? Because every parent has his own way of parenting his kid - different strokes for different folks. In America we have our own way of disciplining our kids. Get ur facts right before posting or trying to smear the image of a country you flagrantly no nothing about. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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