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Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Sambusiness(m): 7:24am On May 03, 2017
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I love her so much.
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by iraborosasu: 7:32am On May 03, 2017
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Sambusiness(m): 7:35am On May 03, 2017
iraborosasu:
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.
Thank you

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Victornezzar: 7:35am On May 03, 2017
Kai
Seun please add vocabulary section here ahbeg
dis is just morning nd we wer fed with dis

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by cobadit(m): 7:35am On May 03, 2017
You see that's the end of your eye insect.... Best thing to do is find more gals to date and learn better lessons of life

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Nobody: 7:35am On May 03, 2017
Sambusiness:
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I lover her so much.
people will advice u only when they understand what u posted.

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Demsay1(m): 7:41am On May 03, 2017
got no time for relationship advice cuz we have to thank GOD/ALLAH for 2days life first

Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by IamAirforce1: 7:43am On May 03, 2017
iraborosasu:
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.
Jakandeola comes to mind
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by pizzylee(m): 7:43am On May 03, 2017
wat country did u travel to? a francophone country I guess

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Nobody: 7:45am On May 03, 2017
Sambusiness:
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I lover her so much.
hey hey hey!!! What nonsense are you saying huh? You are toiling with a girl's heart and you're here talking about advice huh? Ain't you ashamed of yourself? Why the hell do u seek for advice when you don't worth one...

Look here player, you'd better let your girlfriend go and be with the first one or vice versa... You wanna eat your cake and have it? You go purge!

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by iraborosasu: 7:45am On May 03, 2017
IamAirforce1:

Jakandeola comes to mind

grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Nobody: 7:51am On May 03, 2017
Op, what is the problem? I'm confused
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Nobody: 7:52am On May 03, 2017
Sambusiness:
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I lover her so much.



Bobo, u too ur confused..u been playing this BOUNCING GAME... angry

Make up ur mind. Weigh these 2 girls as u can't have both of them at the same time especially if they know each other..

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Mabpaine(m): 7:56am On May 03, 2017
U avnt made up ur mind. First u av 2 make up ur mind on who u wanna be wiv n tell urself xcept she commits a grave sin, u aint gonna giv up on her. Relationship is abt makin a choice 2 stick wiv a lady despite seeing those better than her in one thing or d other. Dahz also called maturity. Wen u r ready 2 be wiv her, u will knw wat 2 do. U still doubleminded
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by 1StopRudeness: 7:58am On May 03, 2017
U typing is really weird...I guess u are emotionally unstable right now...sorry about that..

U are man don't ever let ur happiness be a function of another person's behavioural pattern....thats how pple end up doing strange things like killing their partner or themselves just because the person left them or they caught the partner cheating..

dont get me wrong..that thing called love is quite fascinating, but really... it's nature's way of deceiving us so that life can continue through sexx...

Anyways, ur case is very simple...u have two women crushing over u.... a stupid ex that wants u back because she now knows u are with someone else.. weda she loves u or not..i don't know..frankly speaking, I don't care. It's the greedy feeling of loss that's actually driving her back to u.....
and the new babe that's just jealous cos she doesn't wanna share u with anyone especially the ex...
this what you are gonna do: don't call her for a few days, have fun take ur mind off things this will make u have a clear mind to manage ur relationship so that ur relationship doesn't manage u..I give ur new babe 2weeks max..she'll call you...
when she does, calm her down, tell her ur ex is just speeding lies, scope her well, make her feel good..dont ever let a lady feel u don't have a side chic..don't throw It at her face oooo..always make it a mystery she can never solve. a guy no other chic wants is probably a nobody...makes her in control of the relationship..she'll probably end of leaving you dat way

Have a great day...

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by MostBanned: 7:58am On May 03, 2017
SorftWerk:
hey hey hey!!! What nonsense are you saying huh? You are toiling with a girl's heart and you're here talking about advice huh? Ain't you ashamed of yourself? Why the hell do u seek for advice when you don't worth one...

Look here player, you'd better let your girlfriend go and be with the first one or vice versa... You wanna eat your cake and have it? You go purge!

I see say you dey vex for OP.

Oya correct yourself
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Sambusiness(m): 8:01am On May 03, 2017
I Really appreciate your comment thank you
1StopRudeness:
U typing is really weird...I guess u are emotionally unstable right now...sorry about that..

U are man don't ever let ur happiness be a function of another person's behavioural pattern....thats how pple end up doing strange things like killing their partner or themselves just because the person left them or they caught the partner cheating..

dont get me wrong..that thing called love is quite fascinating, but really... it's nature's way of deceiving us so that life can continue through sexx...

Anyways, ur case is very simple...u have two women crushing over u.... a stupid ex that wants u back because she now knows u are with someone else.. weda she loves u or not..i don't know..frankly speaking, I don't care. It's the greedy feeling of loss that's actually driving her back to u.....
and the new babe that's just jealous cos she doesn't wanna share u with anyone especially the ex...
this what you are gonna do: don't call her for a few days, have fun take ur mind off things this will make u have a clear mind to manage ur relationship so that ur relationship doesn't manage u..I give ur new babe 2weeks max..she'll call you...
when she does, calm her down, tell her ur ex is just speeding lies, scope her well, make her feel good..dont ever let a lady feel u don't have a side chic..don't throw It at her face oooo..always make it a mystery she can never solve. a guy no other chic wants is probably a nobody...makes her in control of the relationship..she'll probably end of leaving you dat way

Have a great day...

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by MrCork: 8:07am On May 03, 2017
iraborosasu:
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.


..you a great eeeediooot in a nice way...the boy ask for love advise an you insult him.
..what kinda name is irabogoragu..gadddemmit!!(no oofensr)
angry

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by MrCork: 8:09am On May 03, 2017
Sambusiness:
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I lover her so much.



..bro we feel your pain..black women are useless.. Anyways best thing to do is find a nice lightskin lady from datin websites. It's free wink
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by iraborosasu: 8:20am On May 03, 2017
MrCork:



..you a great eeeediooot in a nice way...the boy ask for love advise an you insult him.
..what kinda name is irabogoragu..gadddemmit!!(no oofensr)
angry

Must you quote me? I didn't insult him o, I gave him the best advice ever.

P.S That name has 3 international awards attached to it grin

Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by AnnaGray(f): 8:24am On May 03, 2017
Sambusiness:
I and my gf have been dating for a year now what happened is this I was actually dating someone before I met here I feel in love with her and we started dating meanwhile I was still dating my other gf later she finds out so I had to quite the relationship with my first gf in other to save hers we have been cool together, we are like best of friends peoples sometimes jealous our relationship she loved me so much and I loved her too. Meanwhile I was still having feelings for my ex gf unfortunately I traveled out of the country and everything with us was still cool but suddenly everything began to change I tried all my best to talk to her but she never listened most times I will tell her am done she will still beg me again and I will forgive her unfortunately the issues started getting out of hand that I had to make a decision that am done with the relationship we didn't talk for two day so I had to talk things over with my ex gf just few hours after talking things over with her my gf who we haven't talked for two days called me and pleaded with me again I forgave her not knowing that my ex gf has already broadcast the news that I was begin her now my gf friends out and she said its over please what must I do I need your advice because I lover her so much.

Women,
Can't live with 'em,
Can't live without 'em.


love
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by harffie(m): 8:27am On May 03, 2017
iraborosasu:
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.
I thought I was the only one, not till I read your comment..lol
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by harffie(m): 8:28am On May 03, 2017
AnnaGray:


Women,
Can't live with 'em,
Can't live without 'em.


love

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Fmartin(m): 8:57am On May 03, 2017
undecided
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by shinarlaura(f): 9:14am On May 03, 2017
You re just sooooo confuse. What do u think a heart is made of? Rock?

Please stop toiling with those girls emotions. Please be focus.
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by uche92(m): 9:20am On May 03, 2017
Guy see as you wan carry headache come kill pesin
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Nobody: 9:43am On May 03, 2017
shinarlaura:
You re just sooooo confuse. What do u think a heart is made of? Rock?

Please stop toiling with those girls emotions. Please be focus.
eh eh give him advice na babe
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by hernandson(m): 10:01am On May 03, 2017
iraborosasu:
Buy a very Good English text book and study it. It might not bring your gf back but It would save your readers from grammatical torture next time.
epic savage lawd!!! there are better ways to kill a nigga bro,this is tragic tragic tragic

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Fernandowski(m): 10:21am On May 03, 2017
R. I. P English


see you again

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Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Chibydinho(m): 10:25am On May 03, 2017
From your story.. You sounded a very nice man with one soft heart that can be melted by just the smile of a lady.. That's good and bad...
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Good in the sense that if you fall in love with a lady that understands and loves you so much..she will help build up some defenses in you...
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Bad because as your story showed, these two women have your separate remote controls.. Ex can call and with that sweet voice control you even if you caught her cheating the previous day... Same with the main babe.
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So, bro... You've got to work on yourself.. No babe can help you on that for now. At the time being, cut off all communications with ya Ex (I don't eat leftovers.. Learn that too).. She is ex for a REASON. Imagine how she broadcasted getting you back.. Her remote worked on you...
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As for ya main babe.. You've started you love her so much and blah blah, but Oga, be a man na.... Enjoy your life alone and let the way you enjoy ya life bring women closer to you and not you acting clingy and needy like you dey on heat... You can call ya main babe and talk things over with her,....... But stop being too soft like a weakling.. Act like a Boss, let her call you often.
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Give her space and meet other ladies too just for fun etc.. No bleep (unless chance come), but try having a side chick.. It helps to balance how you pour ya emotions.
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See as these ladies are advising you here..lol .. Most of them get like 3 guys that they control sha... So treat them like that... Don't lay ya heart on one babe to avoid heartbreak.. Remember... Leave ya ex.. That babe carry ya manuals for hand and can control you like her dog.
Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by ranisharma: 10:32am On May 03, 2017

Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Advice My Girlfriend Left Me For This Reasons by Sambusiness(m): 10:53am On May 03, 2017
Thank you so much
Chibydinho:
From your story.. You sounded a very nice man with one soft heart that can be melted by just the smile of a lady.. That's good and bad...
.
Good in the sense that if you fall in love with a lady that understands and loves you so much..she will help build up some defenses in you...
.
Bad because as your story showed, these two women have your separate remote controls.. Ex can call and with that sweet voice control you even if you caught her cheating the previous day... Same with the main babe.
.
So, bro... You've got to work on yourself.. No babe can help you on that for now. At the time being, cut off all communications with ya Ex (I don't eat leftovers.. Learn that too).. She is ex for a REASON. Imagine how she broadcasted getting you back.. Her remote worked on you...
.
As for ya main babe.. You've started you love her so much and blah blah, but Oga, be a man na.... Enjoy your life alone and let the way you enjoy ya life bring women closer to you and not you acting clingy and needy like you dey on heat... You can call ya main babe and talk things over with her,....... But stop being too soft like a weakling.. Act like a Boss, let her call you often.
.
Give her space and meet other ladies too just for fun etc.. No bleep (unless chance come), but try having a side chick.. It helps to balance how you pour ya emotions.
.
See as these ladies are advising you here..lol .. Most of them get like 3 guys that they control sha... So treat them like that... Don't lay ya heart on one babe to avoid heartbreak.. Remember... Leave ya ex.. That babe carry ya manuals for hand and can control you like her dog.

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