I was chilling with guyz who came for car maintenance at a mechanic workshop. Unfortunately I was the only single guy in the mist of 5 men, we chatted to the issue of guys flirting around and I was surprised when a guy defended why he has side chicks because her woman does not love sex, another guy said he has not had sex in a year now with the wife, one of them whose wife gave birth in December is yet to have sex with the husband in four months.
The common issue I noticed was the fact that their wives never liked sex when they courted as singles. it took one of the men three years of begging to have sex with the gf now wife.
I was dump founded and they seem accustomed to the sex drought and it is like I will have my experience when I start a family.
Married men in the house, how do you survive? is this a general issue at homes, am afraid of getting married with all these revelation or is our men unromantic to their wives generally after marriage? am looking for answers

Taking care of a baby alone will make a wife not have full interest in sex. You might not be able to have sex at times even when you have the urge for it. The best thing is to be saved and redeemed so as to forgo extra marital affairs.

squarelead:
Taking care of a baby alone will make a wife not have full interest in sex. You might not be able to have sex at times even when you have the urge for it. The best thing is to be saved and redeemed so as to forgo extra marital affairs.

Your initial point was very valid but the last statement is a lil confusing, what has salvation has to do with sexual urge.

Sammiejokes:

Your initial point was very valid but the last statement is a lil confusing, what has salvation has to do with sexual urge.

The urge to have it will definitely come... And you might probably want to find an alternative measure to satisfy the urge. But when loyalty and commitment to something is there, it could be to your marriage, partner or spiritual believe, it will be hard to go against it

That's the reality of life, too bad.

Sammiejokes:

Your initial point was very valid but the last statement is a lil confusing, what has salvation has to do with sexual urge.

maybe salvation cures KOnji too
you've never being saved so you won't know

squarelead:
Taking care of a baby alone will make a wife not have full interest in sex. You might not be able to have sex at times even when you have the urge for it. The best thing is to be saved and redeemed so as to forgo extra marital affairs.

So saved a redeemed will now replace the sex??

mtcheeww

rasojie:



maybe salvation cures KOnji too
you've never being saved so you won't know

well being saved help you to abstain from temptation but we all have our breaking point and even paul said something submission of your body to your partner. i hope our ladies can chip in some light why they loose sex drive with time