HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE!!!

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple work together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and make God the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse your spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

God bless you.

Amen.
not searching tho. when the time comes,
may God bless me with a good husband because I will actually be a good wife.

The lesson many never learnt. They expect only one sided commitment.

Gbam!!

TreasuredLeidy:
Amen.
not searching tho. when the time comes,
may God bless me with a good husband because I will actually be a good wife.

nobody asked you if you were searching or not...

Yep, I agree

dingbang:
nobody asked you if you were searching or not...

nobody quoted you to quote me or not hector

The truth is that people rush too quickly into marriage forgetting it's a lifetime experience. understanding each other and tolerance is key to living together. Ability to overcome turbulence makes the union stronger

TreasuredLeidy:

nobody quoted you to quote me or not hector

do u really reason this way? So one must quote someone else before they quote them back...?


I really don't think you will go far in life if u continue reasoning like this..

dingbang:
do u really reason this way? So one must quote someone else before they quote them back...?


I really don't think you will go far in life if u continue reasoning like this..

hey! calm down. was just kidding.
I know too well that you need not to be told before you quote smbody.

You don't need to curse your generation because you lack sense of humour.

I really really don't think you will go far in life if u continue judging ppu with this kind of temper.

Ok