Please I'd like to get people's opinion on this; A lady is in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want her meeting his friends or family members and if by chance she meets with any of these people, he doesn't introduce her. He just goes on with his conversation and acts like she's not there. Please what's your take on the issue?

Let her take the bull by the horn.
Maybe he's cheating and she's is the side chick: Even if he's cheating, he can just introduce her as a friend.

Maybe he's too small/immature @home to date: If he felt he was too small, he should not have approached her in the first place.

Maybe he doesn't trust his friend and trying to be careful: If this is the case, then he should keep off from girlfriends' snatcher/character assassinator

Maybe the relationship is still new and so he wants to be sure of the feelings they have towards each other before he starts showing her off: Then let him be quick abt that.

So many maybes but before we conclude, has the girl called his attention to it and asked him why he does that?

Communication matters a lot

I for one cant date/support/overlook such a snobbish character so I suggest the girl should let him know that his attitude is making her feel uncomfortable in the relationship.

#voice out and hear him out

Martin124:
Please I'd like to get people's opinion on this;
A lady is in a relationship with a guy who doesn't
want her meeting his friends or family members and
if by chance she meets with any of these people, he
doesn't introduce her. He just goes on with his
conversation and acts like she's not there. Please
what's your take on the issue?

There's something wrong between the line sha..but lemme tell u sumtin as well, that there some men out there who got side biitchess but yet they are happy to introduce them on their close friends...

That's y introduction is not really important if u juz been dating like few hours ago..u know what i mean?

Dude is double dating. Doesn't want people to know
Or more logically, there isn't any relationship at all.

TrapQueen77:




There's something wrong between the line sha..but lemme tell u sumtin as well, that there some men out there who got side biitchess but yet they are happy to introduce them on their close friends...

That's y introduction is not really important if u juz been dating like few hours ago..u know what i mean?

hahahahaha see this babe ooo,see lemm just tell you the truth eh the person am talking abt is on this Nairaland and she's been one of my bestie she definitely feels that introduction matter's and somhow it matter's to some pple depending on how your relationship is,introduction does not gurantee anything but rather it make ur girls feel special that feel recognized...so if u don't do this as a man her thought might jus be this relationship may not lead to anything good,that will be her thought...nor con dey corner me ooo babe I sabi una well well all of una..

TreasuredLeidy:
Let her take the bull by the horn.

jesus babe I nor understand dis ya idiom honestly

Draei:

Guess the relationship
is still at its infancy stage.

correct ah ladies try to understand ooo introduction does not gurantee marriage but it means a lot in what you into,,

Xaos:
Dude is double dating. Doesn't want people to know
Or more logically, there isn't any relationship at all.

bro u so on point

Martin124:
hahahahaha see this babe ooo,see lemm just tell you the truth eh the person am talking abt is on this Nairaland and she's been one of my bestie she definitely feels that introduction matter's and somhow it matter's to some pple depending on how your relationship is,introduction does not gurantee anything but rather it make ur girls feel special that feel recognized...so if u don't do this as a man her thought might jus be this relationship may not lead to anything good,that will be her thought...nor con dey corner me ooo babe I sabi una well well all of una..

Eeehnn..

Well, what can i say sha...if she wants introduction, she can introduce herself to his friends as well..but honestly introduction is NOT A BIG DEAL...

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Eeehnn..

Well, what can i say sha...if she wants introduction, she can introduce herself to his friends as well..but honestly introduction is NOT A BIG DEAL...[/quote babe u know say e nor gud oo,imagin u followed ur bF to visit his parents and nothing is been said abt you,u just seat like a doll and later u go like that!are u not gonna feel shy about it,will u go with him again when next he ask u to accompany him?

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Oohhkie...


Parents are parents sha..they are nosy even u dont introduce ur gf to them..

They will always says 'been there. Done that" ...

TrapQueen77:




Oohhkie...


Parents are parents sha..they are nosy even u dont introduce ur gf to them..

They will always says 'been there. Done that" ...

eh eh don't worry oneday u will experience it,in my own way ony one thing I will do already means it marriage but she won't know!!!

Read in between the lines.

Martin124:
jesus babe I nor understand dis ya idiom honestly

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Personally, I do not like introductions especially when everything is still new. Don't introduce me to anybody to make me feel special because anything can happen along the line especially when nothing has been said. I am perfectly comfortable allowing his peeps think what they like. Time go reach wey dem go ask am say who is that Lady you are always with; introduce her to us. This happens most of the time if both are serious. But in the mean time, I am sure no lady wants to be remembered as "aaaaaah, e for be her oooh. We thought it was her lady".

TreasuredLeidy:

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aaaaa na wa ooo