You see them around and you are even one of them. Ladies are not ready to dig it down with Hopefuls. they prefered someone that has arrived. Where do you ladies keep your faith of slow and steady wins the race ?

Well truth is no one wants to suffer & i've even noticed that most guys whom their wife suffered with,on see/touching money starts misbehaving.

cos they are ready-made.why aren't u dating a village girl?

Cause they are richer.

The answer is too obvious to be said.

They don't have anything to offer. So why suffer with a struggling guy?

kai. men don suffer

Same way we don't wanna marry a useless cargo that can't cook.

lol Some ladies dont want an already made man

But due to recession, we dont want a couch potato

Some prefer a man that is building up, not so much struggling, but a hard worker, so the couple can feel as one when she contributes her own.  

platinumnk:

lol Some ladies dont want an already made man

But due to recession, we dont want a couch potato

Some prefer a man that is building up, not so much struggling, but a hard worker, so the couple can feel as one when she contributes her own.

lol, your gumbo has got you talking some sense these days abi?

amyg:

cos they are ready-made.why aren't u dating a village girl?

who tells you she's not fom the village ?

Secretz:

lol, your gumbo has got you talking some sense these days abi?

na u sabi! after gumbo I thought I died and gone to heaven so I had a NDE while lying on the bed

Lmao, gumbo sounds so weird, you told me what it was once plat, I've forgetten

Same way guys want a nice, down to earth virgin girl after they have finished messing about with many girls.

Ebonyeyes:

Same way guys want a nice, down to earth virgin girl after they have finished messing about with many girls.

Some guys are asshole.

ibkaye:

Lmao, gumbo sounds so weird, you told me what it was once plat, I've forgetten

Gumbo is a stew or soup originating in Louisiana which is popular across the Gulf Coast of the United States and into the U.S. South. It consists primarily of a strong stock, okra, meat and/or shellfish, a thickener, and the vegetable "holy trinity" of celery, bell peppers, and onion. The soup is traditionally served over rice.

[img]http://rickeyscateringco.files./2009/01/gumbo-cl-346735-l1.jpg[/img]

jenibayo:

Some guys are asshole.

You aint lying about that

ibkaye:

Lmao, gumbo sounds so weird, you told me what it was once plat, I've forgetten

She told me too, and I really don't think I could ever forget. lol

Ebonyeyes:

Same way guys want a nice, down to earth virgin girl after they have finished messing about with many girls.

abi ooo, no mind am.

platinumnkgirl which food be dis.

jenibayo:

platinumnkgirl which food be dis.

its gumbo! a delecious food from the south, sorta like okra soup with a whole lotta meat served with rice and crackers

@ibk and secrtez- if i come cook this for you , you will pack your bags and move to louisiana

I'll take my grey poupon over your 'gumbo' thankyou very much

Platinum wan kill me with this her concoction.

Lol @ villagegirl.  She sounds like a village girl.
The new babes are career women who think they can provide for themselves.

Living lies.

platinumnk:

its gumbo! a delecious food from the south, sorta like okra soup with a whole lotta meat served with rice and crackers

@ibk and secrtez- if i come cook this for you , you will pack your bags and move to louisiana

ibkaye:

I'll take my grey poupon over your 'gumbo' thankyou very much

Secretz:

Platinum wan kill me with this her concoction.

haba now! u know there are movies made about this stuff? Look at the Disney movie the Princess and the Frog

they are eating Gumbo, try it, and u wont ever go back

NO!!! How can I settle down with a poor man, who has nothing to loose, but a lot to gain?

@poster, pls tell me, would you allow your sister to settle with 'oji amu eji ego'?

It's the same way men these days want not just a domesticated wife but as well as a woman who's educated n has got something going for herself. So it works both ways!