cruchenuti:


Hi, on a serious note. If you are in Lagos. Let's go out. I promise not to touch you until the 5th date.

We could go to the new film house cinemas in Lekki. I hear its massive. Don't worry I'll pay for your uber too. Or taxify..any one you choose.

I'm serious.

After 5th date what next

Bumbae1:

After 5th date what next

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luminouz:

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This is serious matter ..

Bumbae1:

This is serious matter ..

Abi o!!!! U got ursef a date girl! Go Bumbum.....

Bumbae1:

After 5th date what next

It depends on you oh. If you wish to take it to the next level or not. By next level, I don't exactly mean sex but some form of intimacy sha.

cruchenuti:


It depends on you oh. If you wish to take it to the next level or not. By next level, I don't exactly mean sex but some form of intimacy sha.

Next level na marriage ... u dey talk more intimacy u see as guys be

Bumbae1:

Next level na marriage ... u dey talk more intimacy u see as guys be

Relax na, would you jump to marry me and accept my proposal without getting to know me first? It takes time oh. More than 5 dates lol.

Bumbae1:

SINZ:

if i talk eh

TrapHedges:

lols.. Women!
Same here oh..church no close i leave dem bail oh...

Anom na nke my guy naa ata anu, naa anuo ngwo

Bumbae1:
if i talk eh

No talk abeg

Sex on the first date? Well, the question is does it really happen? The answer is yes. Once in a while, you meet some girls who have to kwams at all about having on the first date. Do I advice it? The answer is no. Except of course if for you it's a "chop and clean mouth thing". You can't build a good relationship that way.

That's just my humble opinion, you can disagree to agree.

Mynd44:

Over 90% of Naija babes will not pay or offer to pay
Over 92% of Naija guys will be uncomfortable if a woman pays or offers to pay.

About boob grabbing, what if they are in a cinema hall, they get close and comfy, make out and he fundles her boobs?

You have to be led by the "spirit". Whatever dafuq that means sha

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keypad1:
will be going on a date tonite with this lovely lady. The signs are there for me to know that she likes me and i like her too. Still studying her sha to know if she is wife material.

My fellow guys have you ever had sex on your first date? Did it end well? was the relationship cemented by the first sex on a first date?

Lastly guys where do you think is convenient to take a lady to on a date? I was thinking of mr Biggs or one of the fast food joint. Pls help me with ideas.


Yours faithfully
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Brother-in-the-game

First Date n u are already asking Questions bout s3X? Smh.

Taking to Mr wor?

Ok, im out

Enjoy ur Game Brotherly-in-a-losing-game!

SINZ:



Anom na nke my guy naa ata anu, naa anuo ngwo

haahahahahahaha.. Onye oma, nwanne nke gi ka kwa nma.. Ano'm ebe ah na agba game since lol

onu owe kwara company ? Ima udi company nke naa ekwu

Gemmxy:
Sex on the first date? Well, the question is does it really happen? The answer is yes. Once in a while, you meet some girls who have to kwams at all about having on the first date. Do I advice it? The answer is no. Except of course if for you it's a "chop and clean mouth thing". You can't build a good relationship that way.

That's just my humble opinion, you can disagree to agree.

@ bolded, there is no hard and fast rule about that. Wheda u fvck on da first or on da fifth, it doesnt make for compactability, bonding , understanding, care n unpredictability.

Just like da finger print, r/Ship is individualistic


But we all know what is brooding in op's mind. It has nothing to do with longevity

TrapHedges:



haahahahahahaha.. Onye oma, nwanne nke gi ka kwa nma.. Ano'm ebe ah na agba game since lol

onu owe kwara company ? Ima udi company nke naa ekwu

Uju nokwa ebea, okwa mu na Uju no naa ku the thing kamgbe

Today doubles as my brothers Bday and my homeboy'z house warming/dedication. Anom na'elu ife kamgbe msiri church lota

Ika no na PH?

SINZ:



Uju nokwa ebea, okwa mu na Uju no naa ku the thing kamgbe

Today doubles as my brothers Bday and my homeboy'z house warming/dedication. Anom na'elu ife kamgbe msiri church lota

Ika no na PH?

lol onye egwe.. Odizi ka'm we re the next flight na bia that way now now lol

aka nom ph oh.. Tmao i don bail shaaa, my plans wey makke me come back cast lol.


Nwanne ribe ife.. Onye wuo..its over haha

TrapHedges:


lol onye egwe.. Odizi ka'm we re the next flight na bia that way now now lol

aka nom ph oh.. Tmao i don bail shaaa, my plans wey makke me come back cast lol.


Nwanne ribe ife.. Onye wuo..its over haha

SINZ:



Uju nokwa ebea, okwa mu na Uju no naa ku the thing kamgbe

Today doubles as my brothers Bday and my homeboy'z house warming/dedication. Anom na'elu ife kamgbe msiri church lota

Ika no na PH?

chai Jizọs Kraịst oo, Ihọd ka na igbo ị ga-abụ? aaa
abeg m mechaa jide gị maka olu oo

Martin124:
chai Jizọs Kraịst oo, Ihọd ka na igbo ị ga-abụ? aaa
abeg m mechaa jide gị maka olu oo

Nwanne aghotakwam asusu gi nkea o

SINZ:



Nwanne aghotakwam asusu gi nkea o

Nna eh isu igbo idrokwa easy na typing,okwa wanyor wanyor kan ji eso gi

Martin124:
Nna eh isu igbo idrokwa easy na typing,okwa wanyor wanyor kan ji eso gi

Lol, let's type in English then.


For a moment there, I thought you were using Google Translate.

SINZ:


Lol, let's type in English then.


For a moment there, I thought you were using Google Translate.

does google translate have igbo?well how far na,?where are you based,?me I nor understand your way ooo,come eh we need to talk,nor be this NL talk oo,just seat and talk...

Martin124:
does google translate have igbo?well how far na,?where are you based,?me I nor understand your way ooo,come eh we need to talk,nor be this NL talk oo,just seat and talk...

Google translates Igbo and a few other indigenous Languages. Although its badly flawed.

My location is clearly written on my profile. I'll be leaving Owerri in a matter of days though, I'm relocating.

We could always work something out if you'd like us to meet and talk about money.

SINZ:


Google translates Igbo and a few other indigenous Languages. Although its badly flawed.

My location is clearly written on my profile. I'll be leaving Owerri in a matter of days though, I'm relocating.

We could always work something out if you'd like us to meet and talk about money.

Nna eh na wa ooo,lemm email u...

Martin124:
Nna eh na wa ooo,lemm email u...

Alright, boss.

My elder brother fuvk the girlfriend till day break on first date.but today thy are happily married with three kids.

So to me, sex or no sex .if a man luvs you he luvs you.Even you don't give him after 2yrs. If he doesn't want to married. You cannot do anything about it.

From experience, Just flow with your feeling.
Sex or No sex can never make a relationship work!!!

IamKashyBaby:

hahahaah...no wonder ur so seXXXy coz u always drink tea..is that Fit Tea?

Btw, when are u coming back?

Yes its fit tea My own special brew .. can post some to your not sure if it will pass customs though

Lol didnt Sinz tell u .. gone for few years

Mynd44 lalasticlala is something wrong with server since last week few mentions not showing till i actually view on thread

Bumbae1:

Next level na marriage ... u dey talk more intimacy u see as guys be

So is this how you are going to leave me hanging. You didn't say either Yes or No. Na wa o.

At least lemme start planning ahead for the weekend

cruchenuti:


So is this how you are going to leave me hanging. You didn't say either Yes or No. Na wa o.

At least lemme start planning ahead for the weekend

Lol my hubby watching u right now u berra run
He ruthless like anything

1bkaye:
Since it’s a guy asking, be honest with yourself, will it have a negative effect on the way you view her? A lot of guys form open-minded in the beginning when it comes to this topic but then start having epiphanies and suddenly 'realise' how wrong the girl was once they’ve already slept with her lol.

Nigeria is still very much a society rooted in conservative ideals no matter how things are changing so be realistic, especially since you've said it could potentially become a serious relationship. Anyway it ultimately depends on the individuals, it works for some and doesn’t for others, depends on how you both handle it, good luck.

This is thoughtful.

In theory, it sounds all idealistic. But in practice, it's dicey. Only very few Nigerian men (like less than 5%) would really give up the opportunity to have sex on the first date. But after the serotonin wears off, the guys start second-guessing the entire setup. Like if she's done 'it' with me on a first date, who's to say how many times she's done it with many other guys on a first date, and who knows if she wouldn't drop her pant for some other guy who takes her out on an informal date even while in a relationship?

It's similar to how Nigerian guys in general off- and online swear they prefer ladies who are sexually expressive and give in without any hassle. But when they meet ladies who fit the bill, you start hearing words like loose, olo*ho, slayqu**n, w*ore, and the likes.

Or how they want to condemn ladies for insisting on no-sex-till-marriage, but most of them want to marry virgins.

Or how they say they prefer ladies who are making their own money and independent, but shudder at the thought of being with a lady who has decent earnings.

Most Nigerian guys like to appear/sound liberal and forward-thinking, but truth be told, they are about as sexually repressive and conservative as Saudi Arabian Wahhabist teachers.

I'm talking about the majority here (say above 90%), I'm not referring to ALL Nigerian guys.

So Mr. OP, the very fact that you're asking the question on NL gives me good reason to doubt that you'd be able to handle a relationship after having sex on the first date. So, don't even think about it.

I mean, it's on this NL that some guy had a three*ome (Seun, are you guys serious, censoring thr**some too, WTF?!) with some girl and his friend, then wanted to have a relationship with the girl but was having second thoughts simply because they had a three*ome even though he admitted that the girl had most of the attributes he was looking for. And there were many commenters calling the lady they don't know 'cheap,' and telling the guy to dump her a$$, even tho' they'd give their liver to be in a 3s*me with the same girl.

If you are a lady and you're reading this, pay little mind to what these guys are saying online and offline. They don't mean it and since ladyshaming is fun to them, they'd use as many expletives to divert attention from their fragile self-esteem and annoying indecisiveness. Most can't even kiss and keep their mouth shut. They'd tell you they'd respect you for who you are on Friday and on Saturday morning they're telling their buddies about how many rounds they went with you and sharing disgusting details.

-Lord