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Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by ArmedRobber: 10:54am On May 15, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:read what u wrote again and ask urself if it makes sense to you. And indeed if it makes sense to you, it shows you re intellectually shallow you don't worth any debate from what u wrote, it will be an exercise in futility trying to flog sense into your head |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by guyla: 11:09am On May 15, 2017 |
EaglesT:So the best way mama could make a point was to make a video to tarnish the image of your benefactor BTW who embarrassed who? Tonto is a celeb 1 Like |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Nobody: 11:11am On May 15, 2017 |
This tonto always looking dirty and ashawoish |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by NemzySeries(m): 11:45am On May 15, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:slap her for wat? Remember u av a mother too |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Trumptech(m): 2:20pm On May 15, 2017 |
Why dont we ask tonto if the woman were to be her mother will she relieve her of her duty and ask her to go. This is a woman you claimed missed by your son to tell you how well she has served you, for you to now send her packing because of frequent sickness. Or you are afraid that she will infect your son with the sickess that she has not infected him since she has been taking care of him. Abeg tonto park well, go back to movies and let your fans keep watching you, less I forget You said you have a foundation what are you guys into, to help the poor or what and yet you cant help a woman that helped you take care of your son. Anyway God decide to send help to the woman if you are tired of helping her so do not complain. |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Akainzo(m): 2:41pm On May 15, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: You are saying yours, are you speaking for everyone? Please read up what BULLYING is and not make statements based on your personal situation. |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by queenfav(f): 3:29pm On May 15, 2017 |
Akainzo:lol.. I get you sha, but it wasn't a formal arrangement. The person that even got her for me was saying i am paying her too much. I live in ibadan.. Inside Ui, cleaners there that are popularly called "any work" can wash a a mountain of clothes and clean your house for 2000 naira. They just got greedy else if they wanted a formal arrangement, they would have said so from the get go. |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by dangotesmummy: 7:00pm On May 15, 2017 |
Akainzo:I'm using myself as an example based on assumption. If an individual is saying the truth no amount of yelling can intimidate him.its only when he's lying that he'll be nervous 1 Like |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by dangotesmummy: 7:46pm On May 15, 2017 |
NemzySeries:this is one of the reasons our politicians don't have any single iota of respect for Nigerians or whatever they're going through. Someone will maliciously lie against you and instead of treating the persons Bleep up so that the next person will learn and not repeat the same thing,we'll bring in sentiments. She's an old woman She's a mother, she's this and that. Why have people become so unrepentantly ungrateful.no wonder people don't show help or love again because if you do theyll always throw it back on your faces I've seen an instance where a woman went to her supposedly rich uncle for financial assistance to pay her sons school fees and I knew this man had the money.he can comfortably pay his fees from 200level to 400 level and it won't affect his income. The next thing he said was let's go to the boutique let me buy clothes for you. It was crystal clear he Didn't want to help her with the way he was dribbling her back and forth When she left I then asked him uncle xyz why didn't you help this woman. She was kneeling down begging you almost crying and you and I know you can afford to give her and it won't affect you Do you know his response. He said people are very ungrateful. We're living in a generation of ingrates.that you helped someone doesn't mean he won't plan with those who are after your downfall to bring you down. That you helped doesn't mean she can't insult you tomorrow or maliciously lie against you to implicate you So it's plain clear this is one of the people this my big brother was talking about 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Akainzo(m): 9:48pm On May 15, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: You can go practice your assertion when Nigeria Police slap you, then will know how scarce your voice can be even when right. As an aside, that you can does not imply that everyone can! Bullies know this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Akainzo(m): 9:51pm On May 15, 2017 |
queenfav: Nope, that people exploit people looking for "any work" is not a reason why people should be mistreated. If you use those any work people, you'd end up paying minimum of 8K monthly thus 10K monthly doesn't seem a bad deal. |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Akainzo(m): 9:55pm On May 15, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: That Uncle is a scum, after he'd be saying he is a Christian and be asking God for His grace and favours. He is not a good person, why does he employ people seeing as some employees for work against their bosses, steal from the company and even connive to kill their bosses. You see, despite these issues, he still employs people to work for him, he simply has a bad character. |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by NemzySeries(m): 1:21am On May 16, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:well said but wud u stop helping pple knowing fully well dat humans wud remain humans? |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by NemzySeries(m): 1:23am On May 16, 2017 |
Akainzo:shey u see? datz why i asked if itz a smart idea to say 1 wunt help bkos humans are bad. ..humans wud neva stop bin humans xcept death |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by dangotesmummy: 7:15am On May 16, 2017 |
NemzySeries:well as the spirit leads |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by dangotesmummy: 7:16am On May 16, 2017 |
Akainzo:his prerogative, his life,his money Nobody helped him work for it so no one can dictate to him who he should give and who he shouldn't give |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Akainzo(m): 10:38am On May 16, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Same with grace, same with gratitude and same for WHO works for you. 1 Like |
Re: Tonto Dikeh Confronts Nanny Who Said She Abandoned Her At A Hospital (video) by Lexxony: 2:11pm On May 19, 2017 |
While thinking through the whole Nanny saga, my mind drifted to a trend that is prevalent among almost every Nanny employment situation in Nigeria. And not just Nanny situations though but every employment situation that is 'informal' in nature. I use informal carefully here to denote domestic employment or employment of a non-white-collar nature. The truth is that when a person is employed as one thing, he or she ends us being used as multiple things. For example, a family employs a Nanny, which means someone to take care of their baby(ies). But the funny thing is that the job description is vague and multiple, sometimes unbeknownst to the Nanny, until she (or even he) starts 'being expected' to fulfill them. So, while you are a Nanny, you also become the family cook, the one that does the family laundry, the car washer, the errand person, etc. You could be employed as a Driver, and you end up also being a Domestic Servant, etc. The interesting thing is that these domestic employers use different mechanisms to bait these employees into doing things outside of their scope. They sometimes, make them feel like part of the family, with same rights as everyone else. And this, to me, is where the turmoil begins. When you have 'opened' your arms and assured your 'employee' that they can get whatever they want because they are now a 'family member', they begin to expect too much. And who are you to blame them? You conveniently use them to do all your bidding all the time, now you have to do theirs. Otherwise, they could blackmail you. I think it will be best if we define employment relationships and set boundaries that no one (employer or employee) can cross indiscriminately. Disclaimer: I'm not saying this was the case in Tonto's situation. I'm not saying every employer or employee is guilty of crossing boundaries. This was just an intellectual exercise triggered by the case study under review. |
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