Nigerian Single ladies are often at the receiving end in a good
number of relationship.


It is not a news that several Nigerian guys break the heart of
ladies they could have dated for more than five years.
The blame game never ends between Nigeria guys and ladies.

It is unfair if aguy breaks the heart of a lady who has been
with him for a long time. Sometimes, a guy could tell a lady
it is all over without thinking of the emotional consequences
of what the woman will face afterwards.

It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in;
single ladies often express their love for a man who has won
over their heart. In this case, the man could decide to play
such a lady as yoyo.

Similarly, 'Base on Logistics, ladies are involved in acts that make men take
undue advantage of them all the time. They easily fall into
the trap men set for them all in the name of love, which is
indeed shrouded with so much deceits.

7 Ways Nigerian Guys Trick Ladies Into 'Use And Dump' Relationship

1. Money Factor

Nigerian Ladies are synonymous with the word 'money'. One of the
ways to win a runs lady's heart is to play the money game.
This is because the lady will easily succumb. Likewise, there
is hardly any lady who does not respect a man who spends
on her. Moreso, it is important for a guy to know he will
spend on his lady. However, if the lady is the lady-mad type,
guys will know she is highly susceptible to deceit. In this
way, she will be used and dumped.

2. Marriage Factor

When a Nigerian guy tells a lady he is seriously interested in
marrying her and the lady refuses, the next thing the guy
does is to devise ways in which he would hoodwink the
lady. This is because guys are very smart at knowing what
category a lady belongs (runs girl or wife material).
Immediately a man finds out a lady is a runs girl, the next
thing the man tires to do is to have fun with her and dump
her.

Ladies who fall into this category come up with lamentation
that a guy was with them for some years, but later left them.

3.Dating

The word dating is what guys use to trap single ladies. If a lot
of ladies are asked what they want, they will answer they
want dating. Therefore, a man will play his trump card and
stick to the woman for a very time until he achieves his aim
of use and dump.

4.Ladies' Priorities

Some Nigerian ladies deceive themselves by setting fantastical goals for
themselves. They build castle in the air. They tell the guy this
is what they want and nothing. They play the time delay
game whereby the guy will be at their mercy. Ladies of this
nature do not give a guy either a YES or a NO answer for a
long period of time. When the guy discovers the lady is
neither here nor there in terms of the type of relationship
she wants, the guy behaves a fool until he harms the lady
and dumps her.

5.He Pretends To Be Rich

Some Nigerian ladies really love the fine
things of life and would not want to settle down with a
struggling guy. Some guys would borrow their friend’s car
and even borrow their houses just to form rich guy. Some
ladies end up falling for this kind of guy and when you
already deep into the relationship, you realize, you fell for a
fake person.And after the guy has achieved his mission of him tricking you... He later dumps you.

6.Dedicated InChurch/ Mosque

Once a guy realizes you are a
religious person and he wants you, he would do anything to
get you, even if it means dedicating all his time to serving
God. Those kind of guys would follow you to all the weekly
activities, they would join a unit in church just so you think
they are Jesus lovers. They want you to think they actually love serving God whereby based on logistic.... They are only doing that so that they can gain your attention.. They don't have any feelings for you, except to use and dump you.. Smh!

7.He Takes All Your ‘Crap’

Some guys would let you do
whatever you want without complaining. They let you yell at
them and insult them. Some would even apologise when they
know they are not wrong just to get you. Just become their
girlfriend and they will show you who they are really are.
Before you say one word, he would have slapped some
sense into you. And that will surely leads to an abusive relationship, and am 100% sure he will dump you since
he has achieved his mission...

This is not to say all Nigerian guys play these tricks. There are still
some genuine ones out there. One just has to be careful
when falling in love so you don’t end up with someone who
is pretending to be what he is not and then you end up
unhappy and full of regrets..

Compiled By: DanceVille

cc:lalasticlala

He who pays the Piper dictates the tune...

Use and dump is a such a strong word




You can't tell me I was the only one who enjoyed the sex. When I was paying for her wares, she was stupidly smiling sheepishly...
Don't annoy me!

Ladies are not naive.They wont go into a relationship one's they know the guy cannot spend at first sight.

Dating is for fun and shouldn't be taken serious

What is do you mean trick?..is shE a minor?..she was gullible and refuse to be wise.she preferred a fine boy to a nice boy,she preferred a yahho boy to a honest boy,she wanted it all!!!..she deserves what she gets!!!!

thesicilian:
He who pays the Piper dictates the tune...

Hmmmmmm.....

Kondomatic:
Dating is for fun and shouldn't be taken serious

Bro.... Like seriously?

dingbang:
Use and dump is a such a strong word




You can't tell me I was the only one who enjoyed the sex. When I was paying for her wares, she was stupidly smiling sheepishly...
Don't annoy me!

That really gat me smile...

DanceVille:
Bro.... Like seriously?

Yes

Ladies..... Your opinions please..

This is true...

I once was a victim of this... This is vewi educative...
Lemme ask bro lalasticlala... what did you think dear? Let our nairalanders ladies learn..
Danceville... thanked so much.

dingbang:
Use and dump is a such a strong word




You can't tell me I was the only one who enjoyed the sex. When I was paying for her wares, she was stupidly smiling sheepishly...
Don't annoy me!

C his mouth....

ThemiDhayor:
C his mouth....

come an beat me

observing on top my papa roof..
I agree with the op...

Sir lalasticlala..........Food don ready.. Serve us.

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