A lot of women have these issues whereby they tell themselves reasons why they can’t find a man for a good relationship. It could be that they think they are in a city where there aren’t any quality men or that they work a lot so men wouldn’t want to be with them or they have kids or they have been married twice already and it didn’t work, or that they have a physical disability.
Whatever it is that they think that is in their minds and the story that they tell themselves as to why they can’t get the man or relationship that you want, whether we know this or not, whatever we tell ourselves, we believe. What then happens is that you go through your lives and put yourselves in situations that results in self-sabotage because your mindset is already preset to think that this isn’t going to work out because of whatever reason you tell yourself.
Whatever you tell yourself, you"ll find that to be true and the person who is dating you will sense that and it will look like a self-confidence issue or insecurity issue which will affect the relationship negatively. You have basically defeated yourself before you even got started
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