Many times, i begin to wonder why the rate of divorce is alarming even after people go for counselling or do a church wedding. There are somethings you expect to have been taught or probably heard about. People fall out of love on daily basis for flimsy excuses.
These are some of the things you don't get to hear before saying ''i do''.
1. Marriage is another school- As much as you know, you keep learning in marriage. It's an institution where you don't get tired of learning new things. It is an institution where your inlaws correct you on things you are doing wrong and how to go about it.

2. Marriage causes distance- No matter how close you are to your friends and family members, marriage keeps you busy. The hours you spend on calls wit them constantly reduces. The number of times you see also reduces, it is sometimes as a result of long distance, or ,marriage responsibilities.

3. Marriage changes you- So many people be like, ''my partner was not like this, she was slimmer, he doesn't really give attention anymore, this and that. Truth is, everyone changes not just your partner. Your status changes, your name changes, you either get fatter or have some stretch marks as a result of child birth. You change your mentality and how you act in public. There are some events you want to attend, but you can't. There are hangouts you can't be a part of.

4. In marriage, it is not always a smooth ride- There are times in marriage when you or your partner just feel like staying alone, there are times you just miss home, miss some memories, there are times you cry and smile. There are times you feel good and times you feel sad. There are times you both yell at each other, get mad, confused and have mixed emotions.

5. In marriage, it is not all about you- Many people always have what they want, their opinions always count when they were single. But it is not always like that in marriage, you must come to a agreement with your partner. It i not all about you. There are times you go out of your way to make your partner happy. Your partner's family members automatically become yours and you treat them right.

include what you think marriage really is aside the ones mentioned here.

5. Marriage

...@no.5
. If my marriage is not all about me, then who will it be all about Buhari ...

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I will not comment sha...
before I break a rule!!

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Chai...

Marriage makes you a "fool" , you need to play the "fool" to succeed in marriage, even if you are correct sometimes you need to say sorry and pretend the other party correct. If you can't say sorry or act like the " dumb" it will be hard for you to succeed in marriage.

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When I get to the bridge, I will cross it.

People need to understand that they should treat their normal relationships like marriage too...they should apply this principles to relationships too..
always remember a stitch in time saves nine....learn now from your relationships

Intending couples shy away from asking deep questions...

Ekakamba:
Marriage is forking overrated! A good home (marriage) is base on LUCK!

Might be overrated but even when a man gets himself a baby mama, people on nairaland will still complain and taunt Linda Ikeji to go and marry so, might also be necessary. The key to a good marriage is most likely tolerance though.

Famoustemmy:
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i read mine like a fool

Marriage is a means to try to control a grownup man

Jay1F:
...@no.5
. If my marriage is not all about me, then who will it be all about Buhari ...

About you and your spouse.

marriage has no general principle guiding it, because what works for Mr and Mrs A may not work for Mr and Mrs B

Noted


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For those who are interested in marriage.

ileogbenfidel:
Marriage is a means to try to control a grownup man

If a grown up man can marry himself, have his children by himself, raise his children by himself and be a companion to himself...No one will control him through marrying a woman!

Marriage hmmm, I'm still afraid to drag my partner into it thou

Nothing is new here.

Marriage is overrated joor!

Make sure everything is natural. No Yansh pad.

ok

LONG NOTE .....SOME WILL STILL READ THIS AND STILL BREAK UP .......

Ekakamba:
Marriage is forking overrated! A good home (marriage) is base on LUCK!

No my dear there is no try ur luck in marriage. Remember how you made your bed is how you lye on it. As the bible stated that a wise woman put her house together while the foolish one scatter hers. Meaning that you need to apply wisdom and understanding above all sacrifice. Without all these ..no way my brother. No matter how bad a man might be a good woman must pin him down with those three words. Dalu