I met this lady 3yrs ago,i got down with her without asking her out though i don't have a girlfriend then she was the first girl i will ever get down with.

I told her,she was madly in love with me that after i left that area she kept calling me,i hadly call her because i dont know if i realyy love her.We later got close and the relationship blossom,she was caring and of good conduct but i always feel that she is not the girl for me,i av prayed ,fasted just for me to av the conviction that she is the rigth person but no answer.

I just think that if things continue this way because i still see other girls others outside that i prefer to her,

I have searched throuh my mind and discovered that i prefer other ladies to her,is that i dont love her enough?

Pls give ur candid advice,this is affecting my happines

u r basically cheating/sampling other chicks hence your sudden reason for not being so in love with your g/f again.
why don't u just stop sleeping with her and tell her the bloody truth that you is a player that wants to discover the world.
Save yourself the emotional stress

jay bee:

u r basically cheating/sampling other chicks hence your sudden reason for not being so in love with your g/f again.
why don't u just stop sleeping with her and tell her the bloody truth that you is a player that wants to discover the world.
Save yourself the emotional stress

Exactly

Since you dont love her, the best thing you can do to her right now is to let her go. It may hurt now, but with time she will get over it.

I hope you havnt infected her with "THE MONSTER" Go and get tested.

Sound like the guy has finished eating and now wants to move on.But allis well that ends well.There is no point sticking around if you dont really want to

_{^Awww poor gurl. . .}