mandmis007:
I dated a gal for 6 years and last month I introduced myself and my intention to marry her to the whole family. I told them I will come with my family in a months time for proper introduction and other rites but unfortunately she fell sick and had to be operated upon.
As expected I foot the whole bill. A month after she was discharged we started having minor squabbles, she's accusing me of not taking care of her and not supporting her. Not to compound the issue I stayed away for two days to calm frayed nerves.
When I went to see her, she wasn't at home so I called her line six times she didn't answer. When she eventually answered she told me she's were she's looking for a DJ cuz she want to do dedication and that I should wait for her. Whe I stated 30 minutes she didn't show up, I decided to go and watch premier league match. On getting there I saw her coming out of the bar with another man. I accosted her and we had ugly incident there. She eventually entered the man's car and the left.
Determined not to let the woman I love go just I've that I followed then and threatened to beat the man black and blue if he doesn't leave my woman alone. Though there was no physical fight. When she saw it was serious she ran away and left us.
Later a friend called me and told me she's with them and he told me she told them she doesn't love the guy it's me she loves.
The question is: if she doesn't love him why go out with him? Why did she abandon me and zoomed off in his car? Why did she refused to answer my calls? Why did she tell me she's negotiating for a DJ when in fact she's in a bar with another man?
Since the incident she doesn't pick my calls even when she does we end up quarrelling over fone again.
Nairalanders, does this girl still loves me or not?
Should I continue or just forget about her? There is another gal that loves me very much or so she said.

Kondomatic:
You threatened to beat him if he doesn't leave your woman? Like seriously?
How is she your woman?



Not like I believe your story.

Oyindidi:
My brother, the story tire me

Kondomatic:
Did you just family-zone me?

Oyindidi:
What is wrong in that? you like friendzone or no zone

Kondomatic:

You wouldn't Familyzone me if you know half of the things I have done / can still do from that zone.

mandmis007:
I dated a gal for 6 years and last month I introduced myself and my intention to marry her to the whole family. I told them I will come with my family in a months time for proper introduction and other rites but unfortunately she fell sick and had to be operated upon.
As expected I foot the whole bill. A month after she was discharged we started having minor squabbles, she's accusing me of not taking care of her and not supporting her. Not to compound the issue I stayed away for two days to calm frayed nerves.
When I went to see her, she wasn't at home so I called her line six times she didn't answer. When she eventually answered she told me she's were she's looking for a DJ cuz she want to do dedication and that I should wait for her. Whe I stated 30 minutes she didn't show up, I decided to go and watch premier league match. On getting there I saw her coming out of the bar with another man. I accosted her and we had ugly incident there. She eventually entered the man's car and the left.
Determined not to let the woman I love go just I've that I followed then and threatened to beat the man black and blue if he doesn't leave my woman alone. Though there was no physical fight. When she saw it was serious she ran away and left us.
Later a friend called me and told me she's with them and he told me she told them she doesn't love the guy it's me she loves.
The question is: if she doesn't love him why go out with him? Why did she abandon me and zoomed off in his car? Why did she refused to answer my calls? Why did she tell me she's negotiating for a DJ when in fact she's in a bar with another man?
Since the incident she doesn't pick my calls even when she does we end up quarrelling over fone again.
Nairalanders, does this girl still loves me or not?
Should I continue or just forget about her? There is another gal that loves me very much or so she said.

nnamdiokere45:
she abandoned u and zoomed off with d guy,i think u shld know d ans to ur questions bro.
where i blame u is for even following dem and even trying to fight. my bro if dem kill u der wetin u go tell papa God.u died for love? my brother even if my wife leaves me and enters d mans car,i wld drive d opposite direction ,find a bar and chill

Tklabelle:


Lol like seriously? Your wife? Laughing so hard

KelvinCX:
so you date girl for a whole six years and you no fit tell if she love you

Tklabelle:
Honestly ask yourself if all is said and done, it is such a woman you actually want in your life. She is obviously not loyal. If you get back with her, you will always wonder what she does behind your back. My advice:cut your losses and move on!

Countrygirl:
ee tire me oo

tobianthony:
At OP ... to answer your question perhaps you should give us more details about your fiance's personality ...

Just out of curiosity how did you catch up with them ? Did you drive after them ?

Don't let this incident deter you from bring a generous person .

Why do you think she feels you aren't doing anything for her or not supportive ?

Lastly no matter what do not beg this lady ...no matter who's at fault . Next time ideally you should have just walked away after talking to her .

She's a likeable person, loving n attractive. She commands respect 4rm all her friends n relatives, she's very friendly.
Didn't drive after 'em. Tnx, don't intend anything 2 interfere with my conviction.
Probably during her ill health she had expected d usual stipends, bt den she's not strong 2 start considering such. I may be wrong here.

mandmis007:
I dated a gal for 6 years and last month I introduced myself and my intention to marry her to the whole family. I told them I will come with my family in a months time for proper introduction and other rites but unfortunately she fell sick and had to be operated upon.
As expected I foot the whole bill. A month after she was discharged we started having minor squabbles, she's accusing me of not taking care of her and not supporting her. Not to compound the issue I stayed away for two days to calm frayed nerves.
When I went to see her, she wasn't at home so I called her line six times she didn't answer. When she eventually answered she told me she's were she's looking for a DJ cuz she want to do dedication and that I should wait for her. Whe I stated 30 minutes she didn't show up, I decided to go and watch premier league match. On getting there I saw her coming out of the bar with another man. I accosted her and we had ugly incident there. She eventually entered the man's car and the left.
Determined not to let the woman I love go just I've that I followed then and threatened to beat the man black and blue if he doesn't leave my woman alone. Though there was no physical fight. When she saw it was serious she ran away and left us.
Later a friend called me and told me she's with them and he told me she told them she doesn't love the guy it's me she loves.
The question is: if she doesn't love him why go out with him? Why did she abandon me and zoomed off in his car? Why did she refused to answer my calls? Why did she tell me she's negotiating for a DJ when in fact she's in a bar with another man?
Since the incident she doesn't pick my calls even when she does we end up quarrelling over fone again.
Nairalanders, does this girl still loves me or not?
Should I continue or just forget about her? There is another gal that loves me very much or so she said.

celestialdamsel:
You know the answer to the question

mandmis007:


She's always been dia 4 me. Very loving n caring. I don't doubt her faithfulness. My friends told me she confided in him dat she loves me. Her elder sista too told me that.