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I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jun 06, 2017
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by chinoxstock: 1:52pm On Jun 06, 2017
Flee from youthful lust..

Commiting fornication up and down is not God's plan for your life...

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 06, 2017
grin


Slay Kings will come here soon and give u tons of advice grin grin grin


But lemme call sorftwerk sha..he is like the Adonis of NL..
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Brooke60(f): 1:54pm On Jun 06, 2017
chinoxstock:
Flee from youthful lust..

Commiting fornication up and down is not God's plan for your life...
She knows the way to Church if she needs preaching

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 06, 2017
Discuss it him. Try and make it work.

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 06, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


SlayKings will come here soon and give u tons of advice grin grin grin


But lemme call sorftwerk sha..he is like the Adonis of NL..
lol pretty one, what do I know? grin


Well CEEcey, I'd advice you talk to him cos you never made mention that u spoke to him and the problem persisted. U guys should spend more time in pre-intimacy, it shouldn't be about penetration. Although there is a way to give a woman orgasm through penetration but it seem he's still an amateur to know his way around that, so I'd suggest he sticks to learning the finger and tongue techniques for now.


Try this position;

if you wanna have orgasm through penetration, put a not-too-soft pillow just a little distance from ur butt while u laying back and have him penetrate you taking it slowly at first and make eye contacts with him, as he penetrates, ask him to press his palm softly down above ur pubic bone right underneath ur abdomen, as he penetrates slowly in and out, the other hand should rub on ur clit and believe me...u will scream his name within minutes...think of the feeling u get when someone's using a broom to walk ur feet...that tickling feeling, yeah...I'll stop here for now, tell him to try this first.


Remember, plenty of pre-intimacy. Good luck

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jun 06, 2017
SorftWerk:
lol pretty one, what do I know? grin


Well CEEcey, I'd advice you talk to him cos you never made mention that u spoke to him and the problem persisted. U guys should spend more time in pre-intimacy, it shouldn't be about penetration. Although there is a way to give a woman orgasm through penetration but it seem he's still an amateur to know his way around that, so I'd suggest he sticks to learning the finger and tongue techniques for now.


Try this position;

if you wanna have orgasm through penetration, put a not-too-soft pillow just a little distance from ur butt while u laying back and have him penetrate you taking it slowly at first and make eye contacts with him, as he penetrates, ask him to press his palm softly down above ur pubic bone right underneath ur abdomen, as he penetrates slowly in and out, the other hand should rub on ur clit and believe me...u will scream his name within minutes...think of the feeling u get when someone's using a broom to walk ur feet...that tickling feeling, yeah...I'll stop here for now, tell him to try this first.


Remember, plenty of pre-intimacy. Good luck

He gets angry Anytime I try to discuss it with him,says am comparing him with other guys.

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 06, 2017
Some girls will never cüm until a dude collapse trying to satisfy them

No man should go beyond his strength trying to form James Bond all because he want to satisfy a girl that will still cheat if she wants to

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:


He gets angry Anytime I try to discuss it with him,says am comparing him with other guys.
he's not ready to keep u then...you got to threaten to quit if it continues, and mean it when u say it..that way, he'll know u serious!
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jun 06, 2017
Come try me and feel the difference
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by jakandeola(m): 2:37pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.
ur bobo neva sex u well iv neva be wit a girl dat complian. before action is gud u both play wit ur body. sex is not only about pucce and pric. u kiss a lot touch each oda a lot in diff place. check in internet website were a blog is much on how to enjoy sex
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Afonjanightmare(m): 3:19pm On Jun 06, 2017
Inside this Buhari regime you still dey find orgasm

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by kullozone(m): 3:27pm On Jun 06, 2017
cheesy

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Onliie(m): 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.
break up with him
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jun 06, 2017
Break up with him already
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Young03(m): 4:55pm On Jun 06, 2017
u can DM me, u no go regret aswear
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Suckaholic: 5:15pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.

You need to see me
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jun 06, 2017
Story time.

At least, you already know what gets you off, and that's the first step towards an orgasm. When a friend of mine was twenty-one, she had never experienced an orgasm but her boyfriend(first) was sensitive and open-minded. And when he realized she wasn't cumming (she couldn't have faked it, since she didn't know what to fake), he told her to start touching herself to find out what she liked. She got past her reservations and eventually tried it during the holidays when no one was home. Suffice it to say: it was a revelation. She got to understand her body better. The next step was to use that knowledge.

You have two options: one, be vocal; two, take charge. You don't have to give him a set of instructions to begin each session. Just guide his appendages to where it feels good and make honest noises of appreciation so that he commits those touches to memory. My friend's bf, however, told her to get on top and "screw it like she wanted". The woman on top position gives you room to grind your clit on his pelvis - circles or whatever direction you want, take it in half-way or full, go fast or slow.. You have the chance to be selfish and actually take your pleasure, instead of waiting for him to please you. And while you're doing that, he gets the opportunity to watch you and learn what needs to be done to get you to climax. He will get to know your pressure points, and keep them in mind when switching positions.

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Emperor119(m): 6:07pm On Jun 06, 2017
Talk things out with him... If he doesn't listen... you can go ur way
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by omoiyalayi(m): 6:12pm On Jun 06, 2017
Wow your libido must be very high & dia is nothing wrong wit dat. There re thousands of guy guy out dia dat can satisfy you so....

Break up wit him & luk 4 anoda fu*k buddy

It's beta 2 do it dat way Dan cheating on him

I'm sure he will find someone dat suit it's own kind of sex style.

Dis kind of tin break marriages it's beta u find out now Dan after marriage

Dats all

Over & out
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by shinarlaura(f): 6:13pm On Jun 06, 2017
SorftWerk:
lol pretty one, what do I know? grin


Well CEEcey, I'd advice you talk to him cos you never made mention that u spoke to him and the problem persisted. U guys should spend more time in pre-intimacy, it shouldn't be about penetration. Although there is a way to give a woman orgasm through penetration but it seem he's still an amateur to know his way around that, so I'd suggest he sticks to learning the finger and tongue techniques for now.


Try this position;

if you wanna have orgasm through penetration, put a not-too-soft pillow just a little distance from ur butt while u laying back and have him penetrate you taking it slowly at first and make eye contacts with him, as he penetrates, ask him to press his palm softly down above ur pubic bone right underneath ur abdomen, as he penetrates slowly in and out, the other hand should rub on ur clit and believe me...u will scream his name within minutes...think of the feeling u get when someone's using a broom to walk ur feet...that tickling feeling, yeah...I'll stop here for now, tell him to try this first.


Remember, plenty of pre-intimacy. Good luck


Hmmmmmm.

Minister of lipsrsealed lol

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by samyfreshsmooth(m): 6:26pm On Jun 06, 2017
SorftWerk:
lol pretty one, what do I know? grin


Well CEEcey, I'd advice you talk to him cos you never made mention that u spoke to him and the problem persisted. U guys should spend more time in pre-intimacy, it shouldn't be about penetration. Although there is a way to give a woman orgasm through penetration but it seem he's still an amateur to know his way around that, so I'd suggest he sticks to learning the finger and tongue techniques for now.


Try this position;

if you wanna have orgasm through penetration, put a not-too-soft pillow just a little distance from ur butt while u laying back and have him penetrate you taking it slowly at first and make eye contacts with him, as he penetrates, ask him to press his palm softly down above ur pubic bone right underneath ur abdomen, as he penetrates slowly in and out, the other hand should rub on ur clit and believe me...u will scream his name within minutes...think of the feeling u get when someone's using a broom to walk ur feet...that tickling feeling, yeah...I'll stop here for now, tell him to try this first.


Remember, plenty of pre-intimacy. Good luck

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by free2ryhme: 6:27pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.

rotten child

demon

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by samyfreshsmooth(m): 6:37pm On Jun 06, 2017
shinarlaura:



Hmmmmmm.

Minister of lipsrsealed lol

hey there pretty one


what ya doing talking to a minister of lipsrsealed

Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by shinarlaura(f): 6:40pm On Jun 06, 2017
samyfreshsmooth:


hey there pretty one


what ya doing talking to a minister of lipsrsealed

grin grin

How re u doing?
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by samyfreshsmooth(m): 6:48pm On Jun 06, 2017
shinarlaura:


grin grin

How re u doing?

am pretty cool......but u still havent answered me o


why u talking to the minister of lipsrsealed

cos i've kinda been trolling...or no following is the right word
so i've kinda been following u and judging from ur posts and comments you and dat my oga have nathing in common


while his te minister of lipsrsealed u're more like the minister of smiley

am curious to know why

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Efewestern: 6:52pm On Jun 06, 2017
chinoxstock:
Flee from youthful lust..

Commiting fornication up and down is not God's plan for your life...

oga park go one side.. my problem with you people, if you are not okay with her sexual life then don't comment.

forming holy holy and you guys do more evil than those going to shrine.

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Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by shinarlaura(f): 6:54pm On Jun 06, 2017
samyfreshsmooth:


am pretty cool......but u still havent answered me o


why u talking to the minister of lipsrsealed

cos i've kinda been trolling...or no following is the right word
so i've kinda been following u and judging from ur posts and comments you and dat my oga have nathing in common


while his te minister of lipsrsealed u're more like the minister of smiley

am curious to know why


Of course we have something in common wink

He s one of the very few friends I ve make here.

Didn't u see the advice he gave there. Only an experienced mine can give such advice grin

And to that, he deserves the name I give him.... Minister of xx xx xx xx xx grin grin
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Abortions: 6:55pm On Jun 06, 2017
Nma27:
Discuss it him. Try and make it work.
Wic one be Discuss it him na
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by samyfreshsmooth(m): 6:59pm On Jun 06, 2017
shinarlaura:



Of course we have something in common wink

He s one of the very few friends I ve make here.

Didn't u see the advice he gave there. Only an experienced mine can give such advice grin

And to that, he deserves the name I give him.... Minister of xx xx xx xx xx grin grin


oh i see..................thats cool i guess





hey i want a name too

what to i have to do to deserve a name like me oga sortw,erk
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by shinarlaura(f): 7:04pm On Jun 06, 2017
samyfreshsmooth:



oh i see..................thats cool i guess





hey i want a name too

what to i have to do to deserve a name like me oga sortw,erk

From ur comments, I will choose a name for u wink
Re: I Don't Have An Orgasm With My Boyfriend by Olufemiolaolu(m): 7:07pm On Jun 06, 2017
CEEcey:
Anytime I have sex with my boyfriend I don't always enjoy it and I have never have an orgasm with him.I can only help myself with my hand.I don't want to cheat on him but he can't satisfy me sexually.Please I need your advice because am fed up.
Hmmm u better watch it because d orgasm u re looking 4 can land u into trouble. sex is worth waiting 4 dear.

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