In 2014 I left Nigeria, having spent almost 2 years searching for jobs without any luck, I had a gal who was very 'loyal' despite my 'brokenness' ! We were so much in love despite the usual 'lovers' ish!

I told her about my plan to seek greener pastures abroad (since naija dey fall hands), she agreed with me though reluctantly coz of what she read and heard about distance relationships!

In short I was able to secure a visitor visa to finally leave naija and seek a better life! Hmmm, it was a mixture of joy n sadness! A lot runs through my innocent mind! The thought of leaving my parents behind, the thought of someone taking my 'boo of life' like she likes to call herself dominate my heart! But of course the though of living a better life, escaping the noises of 'molues' and danfo thrills me!

Finally I will be able to provide for my boo and my siblings! But! Hey I was wrong! 'Nowhere in the world where trees bring forth cash instead of fruits', you really have to work! I made a vow to my gal to be back in December that year! Lol! And promising never to cheat on her! We almost made blood covenant sef (no blame me o)

First few months was hell! It was extremely cold! Like there are AC every where! Infact AC sef dey learn gan! We have to wake up early morning daily to look for off jobs! Despite the coldness! Gradually! The little dollars I brought from naija don finish! I have to pay for monthly rents, electricity, water etc!

Hmmmmm! As a naija boy d hustling spirit keeps me going! And of course I maintain communication with bae! We chat on whatsapp most times am free! We upload and tag each other pictures on whatsapp and et al!

But gradually the December I promised was drawing near, yet no plan to go naija sef! Firstly due to paper issues (most of us are illegal immigrant until when luck smile on u) secondly no enough cash yet back home due to accumulated bills! Gradually reality begin to stare at my face!

Boo will call and tell me how her friends were laughing at her! How lonely she is! How boring it is! How badly she needed to be fvckd! Etc! Of course am in thousands of kilometers away! In a cold winter stricken environment wishing for a miracle!

Well! After almost two years of waiting, things changed! The pictures on FB says it all! Perhaps she can't hold on any longer! When I confronted her with my observations! She raised hell! Of course we men are always the usual suspect! I wept for days! But what can I do? Bae started frolicking with diff guys and yet some idiots back home will start shouting 'guys abroad are cheat'!

Of course my friends around laughed at me for believing there's still love in Nigeria! And she told anyone that cares to listen that she left because she's so sure I will end up marrying oyinbo!!

Fast forward! It's been three years now I left home! Paper issue sorted! Even though we ain't super rich, we ain't as broke as we use to be! Bae is still single! Getting older! Turning to churches! Updating heart aches on FB!!

Ladies! The fact that your bf left naija doesn't mean the union is over, stop this inferiority complex! No white lady is sexier than u! No oyinbo is sweeter than u! Don't let friends and gossips breaks your heart! Your man will always be your man if you're patient enough! Sorry if am boring! Just wanna share my experience with u

U re very correct boss .even me now in Congo telling my boo of life to wait for me cos I dey abroad. She no free hear,all those home based Nigerian guys no wan let her rest.they say we guys abroad are not loyal .why mehn why not allow us in abroad to meet our bae in one piece dont expand her hoe for us. Now if u must know in Congo here i no dey fvck no body..tell this to my bae.........lol u believe this u believe anything

What can i say?

Ur lady must never fear oyinbo sha...what she must fear is the same black ladies who are in abroad as well ... who are even more sophisticated, got a good curve who will gonna snatch her booboo anytime

TrapQueen77:



What can i say?

Ur lady must never fear oyinbo sha...what she must fear is the same black ladies who are in abroad as well ... who are even more sophisticated, got a good curve who will gonna snatch her booboo anytime

@trapqueen! Nothing like that! Curves and shapes ain't the only reason u fall in love!

Why won't I break up with u, when I saw ur different pics with foreign girls




Just kidding..
Sincerely speaking , If you can't wait for your bae who is away for at least 10yrs, then I doubt ur patience for JESUS 2nd coming....

AngelicDamsel:
Why won't I break up with u, when I saw ur different pics with foreign girls




Just kidding..
Sincerely speaking , If you can't wait for your bae who is away for at least 10yrs, then I doubt ur patience for JESUS 2nd coming....

10 years? Which lady fit try that? Haba lol

Bruh, how do u expect naija bae to wait 4 one akpos that went,promised to come back soon nd three years he's still dere...... So she shu wait for anoda december wait for another December that wil certainly change to three years..... This is about time not fear of some suntanned oyibo

smardray:
Bruh, how do u expect naija bae to wait 4 one akpos that went,promised to come back soon nd three years he's still dere...... So she shu wait for anoda december wait for another December that wil certainly change to three years..... This is about time not fear of some suntanned oyibo

bros! 3 years too far? For babe wey una dey yan steady?

Sydney17:
bros! 3 years too far? For babe wey una dey yan steady?

if u av the oppurtunity to become rich nw... Would u wait for 3year that isn't far?

smardray:
if u av the oppurtunity to become rich nw... Would u wait for 3year that isn't far?

how do u know am not rich now! ?

Nice one,although some of us guys are really guilty of thinking our baes are local champions whenever we escape the shores of naija.

Eternity88:
Nice one,although some of us guys are really guilty of thinking our baes are local champions whenever we escape the shores of naija.

thats not true bro! Sorry to say this but I have tasted other countries pvssi and I can tell u there's no difference! Infact na naija sweet pass sef

sometimes i view it as out of sight being out of mind.. i am not directly referring to ur story..i meant generally speaking tho

pweetyoge:
sometimes i view it as out of sight being out of mind.. i am not directly referring to ur story..i meant generally speaking tho

perhaps

Lalasticlala

Most times its the guys that end the relationship because they want better prospects, wanna have fun and they believe it won't work out because of the distance

But the fact is it is very difficult for this kind of relationship to work out, both parties have to sacrifice and go through alot,

At the end of the day you might just want to ask yourself is this really worth it?

it's better to focus on yourself and your career than to go through a long distance relationship with little or no future. You gotta pay those bills homie

Blame the country and not bae or boo...
Nice one op

AngelicDamsel:
Why won't I break up with u, when I saw ur different pics with foreign girls




Just kidding..
Sincerely speaking , If you can't wait for your bae who is away for at least 10yrs, then I doubt ur patience for JESUS 2nd coming....

I dont see you waiting for 5years

Sydney17:
In 2014 I left Nigeria, having spent almost 2 years searching for jobs without any luck, I had a gal who was very 'loyal' despite my 'brokenness' ! We were so much in love despite the usual 'lovers' ish! I told her about my plan to seek greener pastures abroad (since naija dey fall hands), she agreed with me though reluctantly coz of what she read and heard about distance relationships! In short I was able to secure a visitor visa to finally leave naija and seek a better life! Hmmm, it was a mixture of joy n sadness! A lot runs through my innocent mind! The thought of leaving my parents behind, the thought of someone taking my 'boo of life' like she likes to call herself dominate my heart! But of course the though of living a better life, escaping the noises of 'molues' and danfo thrills me! Finally I will be able to provide for my boo and my siblings! But! Hey I was wrong! 'Nowhere in the world where trees bring forth cash instead of fruits', you really have to work! I made a vow to my gal to be back in December that year! Lol! And promising never to cheat on her! We almost made blood covenant sef (no blame me o) First few months was hell! It was extremely cold! Like there are AC every where! Infact AC sef dey learn gan! We have to wake up early morning daily to look for off jobs! Despite the coldness! Gradually! The little dollars I brought from naija don finish! I have to pay for monthly rents,electricity,water etc! Hmmmmm! As a naija boy d hustling spirit keeps me going! And of course I maintain communication with bae! We chat on whatsapp most times am free! We upload and tag each other pictures on whatsapp and et al! But gradually the December I promised was drawing near, yet no plan to go naija sef! Firstly due to paper issues(most of us are illegal immigrant until when luck smile on u) secondly no enough cash yet back home due to accumulated bills! Gradually reality begin to stare at my face! Boo will call and tell me how her friends were laughing at her! How lonely she is! How boring it is! How badly she needed to be fvckd! Etc! Of course am in thousands of kilometers away! In a cold winter stricken environment wishing for a miracle! Well! After almost two years of waiting, things changed! The pictures on FB says it all! Perhaps she can't hold on any longer! When I confronted her with my observations! She raised hell! Of course we men are always the usual suspect! I wept for days! But what can I do? Bae started frolicking with diff guys and yet some idiots back home will start shouting 'guys abroad are cheat'! Of course my friends around laughed at me for believing there's still love in Nigeria! And she told anyone that cares to listen that she left because she's so sure I will end up marrying oyinbo!! Fast forward! It's been three years now I left home! Paper issue sorted! Even though we ain't super rich, we ain't as broke as we use to be! Bae is still single! Getting older! Turning to churches! Updating heart aches on FB!! Ladies! The fact that your bf left naija doesn't mean the union is over, stop this inferiority complex! No white lady is sexier than u! No oyinbo is sweeter than u! Don't let friends and gossips breaks your heart! Your man will always be your man if you're patient enough! Sorry if am boring! Just wanna share my experience with u

OP this can be lil complicated, i have this very good friend so so loyal to her guy, the nigga zoomed off to Canada over 6yrs now nigga aint give a Bleep bout her, she just moved on this year, i wish all gals are as loyal like her mhen

AngelicDamsel:
Why won't I break up with u, when I saw ur different pics with foreign girls




Just kidding..
Sincerely speaking , If you can't wait for your bae who is away for at least 10yrs, then I doubt ur patience for JESUS 2nd coming....

I really loved the second paragraph of your comment..
are you for real? can you?

you may be one with self control,but there are others that have spoilt the minds of people about these abroad guys.
well ...she just doesn't trust you enough

Sydney17:
thats not true bro! Sorry to say this but I have tasted other countries pvssi and I can tell u there's no difference! Infact na naija sweet pass sef

Not all cases plays out as you posted . some will waste your time for nothing.

Sydney17:
In 2014 I left Nigeria, having spent almost 2 years searching for jobs without any luck, I had a gal who was very 'loyal' despite my 'brokenness' ! We were so much in love despite the usual 'lovers' ish!

I told her about my plan to seek greener pastures abroad (since naija dey fall hands), she agreed with me though reluctantly coz of what she read and heard about distance relationships!

In short I was able to secure a visitor visa to finally leave naija and seek a better life! Hmmm, it was a mixture of joy n sadness! A lot runs through my innocent mind! The thought of leaving my parents behind, the thought of someone taking my 'boo of life' like she likes to call herself dominate my heart! But of course the though of living a better life, escaping the noises of 'molues' and danfo thrills me!

Finally I will be able to provide for my boo and my siblings! But! Hey I was wrong! 'Nowhere in the world where trees bring forth cash instead of fruits', you really have to work! I made a vow to my gal to be back in December that year! Lol! And promising never to cheat on her! We almost made blood covenant sef (no blame me o)

First few months was hell! It was extremely cold! Like there are AC every where! Infact AC sef dey learn gan! We have to wake up early morning daily to look for off jobs! Despite the coldness! Gradually! The little dollars I brought from naija don finish! I have to pay for monthly rents, electricity, water etc!

Hmmmmm! As a naija boy d hustling spirit keeps me going! And of course I maintain communication with bae! We chat on whatsapp most times am free! We upload and tag each other pictures on whatsapp and et al!

But gradually the December I promised was drawing near, yet no plan to go naija sef! Firstly due to paper issues (most of us are illegal immigrant until when luck smile on u) secondly no enough cash yet back home due to accumulated bills! Gradually reality begin to stare at my face!

Boo will call and tell me how her friends were laughing at her! How lonely she is! How boring it is! How badly she needed to be fvckd! Etc! Of course am in thousands of kilometers away! In a cold winter stricken environment wishing for a miracle!

Well! After almost two years of waiting, things changed! The pictures on FB says it all! Perhaps she can't hold on any longer! When I confronted her with my observations! She raised hell! Of course we men are always the usual suspect! I wept for days! But what can I do? Bae started frolicking with diff guys and yet some idiots back home will start shouting 'guys abroad are cheat'!

Of course my friends around laughed at me for believing there's still love in Nigeria! And she told anyone that cares to listen that she left because she's so sure I will end up marrying oyinbo!!

Fast forward! It's been three years now I left home! Paper issue sorted! Even though we ain't super rich, we ain't as broke as we use to be! Bae is still single! Getting older! Turning to churches! Updating heart aches on FB!!

Ladies! The fact that your bf left naija doesn't mean the union is over, stop this inferiority complex! No white lady is sexier than u! No oyinbo is sweeter than u! Don't let friends and gossips breaks your heart! Your man will always be your man if you're patient enough! Sorry if am boring! Just wanna share my experience with u

My problem with people like you is that you forget say na blood dey run for the girl vein BTW who is as human as you are


Yet you are in a way blaming her for being human

if na your sister be that girl be sincere what will you advise her to do

to wait for a promise that has failed ?

Dating a 9ja girl while you are aboard is the easiest way to hell . Besides them frolicking with other men , they are going to drown you with bills .

Well, I don't plan on dating nwoke obodoyibo...

Different strokes for different folks

hmm

pweetyoge:
sometimes i view it as out of sight being out of mind.. i am not directly referring to ur story..i meant generally speaking tho

out of sight isn't usually out of mind...sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder..

Make H puppy confirm am first if this story na real before i go comment