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Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:39am On Jun 11, 2017 |
SonsOfLiverpool: About your first point, the woman has her roles in the family. If you think dropping money is above what the woman does in the home, then I'm not sure you know what you are saying. And some even do their part and still take up some part of the man's role. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jun 11, 2017 |
Rukkydelta:First of all, "gender equality" is purely a farce. Men and women were never and will never be equal. Don't say you're an advocate of something because your female friends believe in it and you want to impress them. Always be yourself. Do not copy other people's behavior. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by segzy0i(m): 10:43am On Jun 11, 2017 |
you have really tried woman like you is very rare but what I think u can do is prepare him his favourite meal watch his mood may be night or midnight then talk to him about finance in your family let him know that you guys need to plan for the future you can agree on a particular percentage of each money or u give him a part u know you can part with from your salary and let him take the financial leadership of the home let the kids address him for there needs I think by that he will be more responsible sure he will if he's not a drunkard nor a gambler 1 Like |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by NoToPile: 10:55am On Jun 11, 2017 |
I still can't get over the fact that a married man with 2 kids earns 70k and all he does is pay NEPA bills and water bills which is around 10k. How some posters can't see this point is what I am wondering. If this is not wickedness I wonder what it is. Some of us don't understand that if the wife was earning lower than this man, its this same behavior he will depict. The only reason why the poster is still coping is because she has more cash at her disposal. 70k is a lot of money for some families this period we are in in fact a lot of families survive on 70k , school fees , house rent and everything . A lot of fathers deny themselves some extra things simply because they want to meet up with financial duties at home. You want to be best dressed at work, use the best gadget s on top 70k salary as a man with 2childresb it just won't work. If its just 20k this man drops monthly his wife won't complain at all. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
SonsOfLiverpool: then he is not god |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 12:41pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
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Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
johnson232: I can say whatever I want. It's a possibility. If you don't like it, you can leave. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Erums(m): 2:25pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
SonsOfLiverpool: I stand wiyt u |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by rex444(m): 3:11pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
U know,if your bride price was a million, he paid it and married you in. Be that helper not someone who will toss his dirty linings outside cos of his shortcomings... |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by bukatyne(f): 4:45pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
cruchenuti: Your married neighbor finances his home 100% (you are sure of their financial model) and does most of the chores at home? Interesting. Of course, as far as we don't agree with others, we are aggressive. I am sure if we all blamed the wife or told her that her husband is ok, we automatically become sweet wives. Welldone. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
She pays the bills and feeds him yet he still complains about too much Maggi in the food? Why can't he help in cooking to his own taste "He who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel " God is not happy with him 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by bukatyne(f): 5:05pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Sterope: @bold: You got the gist.... even if the income was reversed, they will still have same issues... worse sef because the wife would have to achieve a lot with N70k. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by ImaIma1(f): 5:06pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
PaperLace: The kind of comments feom men here makes me wonder how they were raised. Many parents have done a bad job in this orientation these men have. I just wonder how you guys are in your homes. Thank God for the rare husbands that are selfless and respect women. There are probably 2 in every 100 men. I am blessed 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by bukatyne(f): 5:07pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
The replies on this thread is one of the major reasons most girls want to marry a man earning more. Nobody wants stories that touch. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by thotianna: 6:24pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
I won't ever advise any girl to marry a man she earns more than if she has better alternatives. Many men are heartless users. You will hear them complaining that women are gold diggers for wanting to marry rich men but if she makes the mistake of marrying a poor man she earns more than she don enter one chance be dat. The man will want to demand and boss her around and control her life all in the name of head of house while he is barely contributing anything both financially and in terms of housework/cooking. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by cococandy(f): 6:48pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
@bold is actually untrue. In my small time on earth, I've seen many many such cases. segzy0i: 1 Like |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Organs(m): 8:43pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
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Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by yvesboss(m): 8:24am On Jun 12, 2017 |
fergieboy: Lol..you go fear divorce..i guess yu are very single ryt |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by olureignforever: 5:36pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
dingbang: Gbenu sohun. How else will she be supportive, kill herself. Make I no say wetin dey my mind. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Quinn22(f): 8:58pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Chai! I pity your future wife She's going to be a slave woman dingbang: |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by dingbang(m): 9:03pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Quinn22:please .. Because she is earning 250k and supporting her own family, we won't hear word again.. Women will always want theirs to be heard. If na d man now dey provide, we won't say anything.. Abi are they not her children? Now you tell me.. What can 70k do? How much is school fees per child... |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by Quinn22(f): 9:08pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Why can't he drop 30k out of the 70k for bills and responsibilities ehn?! What is he using the remaining 90% of the salary for? To go to the brotel and fvck ashawo abi? Didn't you read the part where she said he buys expensive stuff on credit and get loans where the family have little to spare and have bills and responsibilities to take care of? Isn't that pure wickedness? If it were the other way around I know we ladies will not hear word. Rubbish! dingbang: 1 Like |
Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by ImaIma1(f): 6:49am On Jun 13, 2017 |
dingbang: Tomorrow he will open his mouth and say he is the head of the family. He should be respected. Meanwhile he cannot even cater for his family. If he has to be chooking eye in his wife's salary and slacking on his responsibilities, has failed as a father,husband,man and human being. And yes women want theirs to be heard. Appreciate them when you should and stop trying to look for a way to.pull them down everytime. Because you want to form solidarity with your fellow man, you discredit, push aside,downplay what she has done. If it is your precious sister,the story will change. 2 Likes |
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