I am now tired, she is making my existence uncomfortable, I totally regret loving this girl, cos to kick her to the curb gives me heart ache. this girl is a model for stubbornness. she can never heed to advise, yet when the thing fails, she will still come to me weeping and asking for my help. why will you seek my help when you can't ever listen to my advise.

this girl borrowed and did mmm, I warned her severally to stop borrowing money and since all she made so far from the program she always reinvested it back, now last December the evil happened and she lost everything, for days she was holed up crying. I said my normal sorry and kept to myself, only for her to ask me that "so I have no intention to support her pay off her debt". I warned her seriously and she kept quiet and started being all moody for weeks while she struggled on her own to pay some of the money. guilty conscience kept disturbing me and I had to help pay off that debt.

fast forward to last month, she had a busines she wants to do, knowing the job situation for graduates, I have always supported her in advise and soft loans for any business initiative she feels she can hustle in. yet when she mentioned one particular one someone told her to get involved in, I sat her down and explained in details the demerits of such an endeavour since it required huge financial outlay. the prospect for the biz was good but since she wanted to borrow again to do it, I asked her to chill abit let me gather myself , I will loan her the money. she agreed

do you believe this silly girl went behind my back to borrow money and started the business. she now told me she has started it, I pretended not to listen and didn't want to ask how she got the cash (before I hear of one man who is just a friend). anyway my people that business has crashed again. monies lost, the crying and sulking cycle has started again.

I feel like sending her out of my house, cos she has been miserable and her debtors are calling. me I am broke now and even if I had, I doubt I will wanna give her.

why can't she ever do the right thing, why can't she ever listen to advice, why can't she keep her failures to herself when it fails rather than making my home a cemetery.

guess this is one of those reasons not to love someone yet till you are sure they are mentally sane.

pity

Permit me to say this, Your girlfriend is a dummy. How many times do you need to get hit before you learn? Her stiff-necked attitude will ruin her if she continues on that path. She knows things are not so smooth yet she went to borrow again behind your back, how selfish can that get? How sure are you she won't still do another and come running back to her Safe place. She'll cripple you emotionally and financially if you're not careful

She is from ur village ppl sent to rearrange ur life from peace to pieces. ...lolz

If she aint wife yet to you kick her out or live a miserable life for ever

Bro, you are not yet married to her. you can still do something now before it gets late
If she do mistake kari bele

I dislike her borrow borrow lifestyle. MMM even said participants should use their 'spare money' only o. Mavrodi and Chude sef go laugh put for her matter. I hope she doesn't gamble with your property someday, from your story she acts first before she thinks and that's why she keeps crying anyhow.

its a red flag If she isn't someone that listens to you.

Press DELETE ASAP!

so u need a prophet to tell u wat to do before u act

Na ur village people dey worry u

Don't send her out BT don't gv her d money

she will term u a stingy man , n breakup wt u
and by that ur village people will leave u

Choi. U go make some pple here start to dey think about their MMM money....

Is she an orphan that you are repaying the debts she has incurred? If she doesn't learn the hard way, she'll never rest. Booth her back to her parents house, let her pay this loan on her own since she is bold enough to get one.

Don't tolerate people giving me unnecessary headache you should try it too

bros if you are not married yet u better look for another option BC ladies like this will frustrate u in marriage I know what am saying pls look before you leap to avoid story that touch after marriage I have 2 / 3 examples I can give on this issue

oh well, I feel for the girl tho! I also like her cos she's a great risk taker (high probability of making it in life) but overdoing it maybe tiny!...believe me, there are some times in life you'll do stuff and expecting BEST and WORST same time!

And concerning you advising her every time, i can imagine you doing it with high and "you know nothing" tone!...and she will always go with "I can proof him wrong" mindset!

then most Nigerians advice people with made up points/points they don't really know hence, when the person figured out some of the points are false they'll always go with "you can't tell me nothing" mindset....so next time don't exaggerate when advising her!

lol...its sad sha but what can you do..if you advice them against going into some ventures, it will be taken to mean that you dont have money hence your unwillingness to support such ventures....

marry her and appreciate the risk she takes since u r laid back in taking risks

or wait till she is in her late or mid thirties, that sense automatically returns,

it's like when sharingan is activated

praise1705:
marry her and appreciate the risk she takes since u r laid back in taking risks

or wait till she is in her late or mid thirties, that sense automatically returns,

it's like when sharingan is activated

hmmmmmmmm not easy. nice pic

Na wao!now i know my stubborness is romantic.the girl sha needs to mellow down and listen to you most times.

I don't knw why op is just escalating everything... Don't listen to them... Marry her she's wife material 100yards

Gourdoinc:
hmmmmmmmm not easy. nice pic

Still with her? Don't marry someone who will drain u financially o...

Nma27:
Still with her? Don't marry someone who will drain u financially o...

my dear, it's not easy at all. I have very serious doubts about her. she keeps promising to change, yet behind my back she will go do something else again. and yet come to me for advise when the shit hits the fan. when I get angry she will say I am uncaring and I should help her . well she currently did something likewise which had to do with emotional cheating. wanna use that as an excuse to run away.

thickminaj:
I don't knw why op is just escalating everything... Don't listen to them... Marry her she's wife material 100yards

lol

Gourdoinc:
my dear, it's not easy at all. I have very serious doubts about her. she keeps promising to change, yet behind my back she will go do something else again. and yet come to me for advise when the shit hits the fan. when I get angry she will say I am uncaring and I should help her . well she currently did something likewise which had to do with emotional cheating. wanna use that as an excuse to run away.

OK. You didn't come into this world for another to use their wahala and frustrate ya. Goodluck

Gourdoinc:
my dear, it's not easy at all. I have very serious doubts about her. she keeps promising to change, yet behind my back she will go do something else again. and yet come to me for advise when the shit hits the fan. when I get angry she will say I am uncaring and I should help her . well she currently did something likewise which had to do with emotional cheating. wanna use that as an excuse to run away.

suffering and smiling .