good day all pls I need an advice urgently.
I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe.
my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now .

Na d tin come make ur brain dull wey u dey write *weeing me down*??

Maybe you should consider priesthood too

IamKashyBaby:
Baba, juz respek her decision abeg.. She is not comfortable having sex with u...

Besides, either she preferred the PRIEST or he is threatening her..

Juz saying the possibilities

thanks dear I appreciate ur advice that means I should break up with her

I can see why you are confused. She indulged the priest but is now saying no to you. Have you thought about the fact that maybe she does not have good memories of the whole experience with the priest?
Give her time and respect her wishes. Putting pressure could ruin what you already have.

smadav:
thanks dear I appreciate ur advice that means I should break up with her

So you decided to break up with her because she is refusing you sex? Is sex the only reason why you are in a relationship with your girlfriend?

Have you two actually had a serious conversation about what exactly happened during her relationship with the priest, and specifically, why she doesn't want to have sex with you?

smadav:
good day all pls I need an advice urgently.
I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe.
my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now .

there are so many things you need to know about girls, one of them is attention. if that's what she wants accept it like that and try as much as possible to maintain it, make sure you do it in a way she will start to wonder if she is attractive or not. . .nobody go tell her to seduce you


thank me later

do u really need any advice on this??

smardray:
Na d tin come make ur brain dull wey u dey write *weeing me down*??

Lol

smadav:
good day all pls I need an advice urgently.
I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe.
my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now .

Lol guy you don try, 5 moons no be beans. Free the babe and go get another. High chance dey say another person dey shine your babe Congo as you dey there dey dull.

MissRaine69:
I can see why you are confused. She indulged the priest but is now saying no to you. Have you thought about the fact that maybe she does not have good memories of the whole experience with the priest?
Give her time and respect her wishes. Putting pressure could ruin what you already have.

thanks dear my problem is why she refused me but have been with the priest before she met me. my problem is not her past life with d priest but why she said no and not shifting grounds

Both of u shld sit nd talk abt it, rather than planning 2 opt out

Naqade:


So you decided to break up with her because she is refusing you sex? Is sex the only reason why you are in a relationship with your girlfriend?

Have you two actually had a serious conversation about what exactly happened during her relationship with the priest, and specifically, why she doesn't want to have sex with you?

yes dear we have and that's the only problem we are facing for now.

cerowo:
Both of u shld sit nd talk abt it, rather than planning 2 opt out

yes we have discussed and she said nothing can make her have sex for now and am not OK with it.apart from d sex issue the relationship is superb. but men am just human

Naqade:


Don't dare me. I am a dude. With a D.

alright

smadav:
thanks dear my problem is why she refused me but have been with the priest before she met me. my problem is not her past life with d priest but why she said no and not shifting grounds

She gave you the reasons but it's not what you want to hear. It's best if you decide if this is something you can live with for now or not, if you know it will hard for you to abstain as well then you have to go your separate ways. Ask yourself this, will you be able to stay faithful?

MissRaine69:

She gave you the reasons but it's not what you want to hear. It's best if you decide if this is something you can live with for now or not, if you know it will hard for you to abstain as well then you have to go your separate ways. Ask yourself this, will you be able to stay faithful?

alright have heard u, I love her and she loves me even more for her to open up to me is something good. she is just good to loose, some one who paid a deth of over 40k for me she is just wonderful. am just confuse cos d human factor is playing a fast one on me cos I don't know wen she will be ready for sex less I forget she is not ready for marriage also so its frustrating.

smadav:
alright have heard u, I love her and she loves me even more for her to open up to me is something good. she is just good to loose, some one who paid a deth of over 40k for me she is just wonderful. am just confuse cos d human factor is playing a fast one on me cos I don't know wen she will be ready for sex less I forget she is not ready for marriage also so its frustrating.

It's her you need to show that it's more than sex you want. Five months is hardly a life time. Persevere

Guy you want me to tell you the truth
Either she is still ....with the priest or she has someone..... her
Also am assuring you 80% she is not sincere with you..Just relax time will reveal more but just be wise

smadav:
good day all pls I need an advice urgently.
I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe.
my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now .

smadav:
good day all pls I need an advice urgently.
I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe.
my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now .

.. Sunday....u start sentense wit small letter and then u say u confuse......I givvvvvvup!!!(no oofeense)

MissRaine69:

It's her you need to show that it's more than sex you want. Five months is hardly a life time. Persevere

I understand but I wasn't celibate before I met her was already sexually active but I compromised for 5months being faithful not even faithful abstaining for those period,on her own part she does not want to shift stand making me contemplating cheating on her.

smadav:
I understand but I wasn't celibate before I met her was already sexually active but I compromised for 5months being faithful not even faithful abstaining for those period,on her own part she does not want to shift stand making me contemplating cheating on her.

That's rather unfortunate
Like I said
You cannot have both worlds ( well you can but it never ends well)
Stay or leave but do so for the right reasons.

Lionessza:
Maybe you should consider priesthood too

Lol

MissRaine69:

That's rather unfortunate
Like I said
You cannot have both worlds ( well you can but it never ends well)
Stay or leave but do so for the right reasons.

Thanks dear I appreciate ur concern,God bless u.