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Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Johnholmes: 10:45am On Jun 20, 2017
I just met a beautiful damsel a few months back and we decided to take the relationship to the next level (sexually).
I discovered that this lady doesn't derive pleasure from sex or pre-intimacy Which seriously baffled me.
No form of genital mutilation was done on her,
she said she has never masturbated or ever felt an orgasm before and she wonders what people enjoy in it.
I've had my fair share of intimate relationships with ladies but never have I come across someone like this.
Actually she's quite good in the sac but because I am a very sensitive person I knew she was just pretending in order to please me.
On further probing, she said that during sex,

she feels guilty that she's committing sin
She's scared of pregnancy and infections
She's afraid that the relationship will soon end.

Can this be the reason why she doesn't climax.

I know the problem is not from me coz I know how to please a woman and I am quite sizeable.

Are there women that just can't climax? undecided

Please I need matured answers comments and contributions

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by otimothy(m): 10:50am On Jun 20, 2017
Yes there are girls that genuinely dont like sex one bit.

However, they can be worked on and over time they start liking it.

But my brother, na very hard work oo, from mental to physical all the way.

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 10:52am On Jun 20, 2017
Most of them lie just to appear decent. Though, some of them truly don't enjoy it

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Johnholmes: 10:55am On Jun 20, 2017
otimothy:
Yes there are are girl that genuinely dont like sex one bit.

However, they can be worked on and over time they start liking it.

But my brother, na very hard work oo, from mental to physical all the way.
thanks bro
I really need to work on her cause I love her So much.
It's just this issue that's frustrating me.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Kondomatic(m): 11:02am On Jun 20, 2017
Johnholmes:
thanks bro I really need to work on her cause I love her So much. It's just this issue that's frustrating me.
You need sex, nothing more.

Don't deceive her with love.

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Ehiscotch(m): 11:06am On Jun 20, 2017
Sex is pleasurable. Some people just tend to derive more pleasure in it than others.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by durasome(m): 11:07am On Jun 20, 2017
Johnholmes:
I just met a beautiful damsel a few months back and we decided to take the relationship to the next level (sexually).
I discovered that this lady doesn't derive pleasure from sex or pre-intimacy Which seriously baffled me.
No form of genital mutilation was done on her,
she said she has never masturbated or ever felt an orgasm before and she wonders what people enjoy in it.
I've had my fair share of intimate relationships with ladies but never have I come across someone like this.
Actually she's quite good in the sac but because I am a very sensitive person I knew she was just pretending in order to please me.
On further probing, she said that during sex,

she feels guilty that she's committing sin
She's scared of pregnancy and infections
She's afraid that the relationship will soon end.

Can this be the reason why she doesn't climax.

I know the problem is not from me coz I know how to please a woman and I am quite sizeable.

Are there women that just can't climax? undecided
answers
Please I need matured answers comments and contributions
.my own angle,check well to find out what she has been up to in the past. quite a number of them don't enjoy it with men but when it come to doing it with fellow women,they do.I have come across a number of them,but with subtle questions,you get the reason. if you don't like it with the opposite sex,you definitely will with same sex.so ask ask and ask.

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by otimothy(m): 11:18am On Jun 20, 2017
Johnholmes:
thanks bro
I really need to work on her cause I love her So much.
It's just this issue that's frustrating me.

I quite understand it from your stand point, however if you really do love her then the frustration is just a minute issue.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by pocohantas(f): 11:19am On Jun 20, 2017
There are ladies that genuinely dislike or are not fascinated by sex but your girlfriend doesn't hate sex, hers is a psychological issue.
She hates sex the wrong way, wrong way being that she hates premarital sex.

If you both were married, she won't be scared of getting pregnant.
She won't feel guilty.
She won't be scared of STDs, except if you're a wandering prick.
She won't be scared you would leave her.

Chic has a working conscience. Do it the right way or let her be.

Why would she climax? Climax in fornication? grin
It takes rest of mind to climax na.

Well, you can work on her...and hope she doesn't blackmail you emotionally tomorrow with it.

They'll come here to say she is pretending, or a lesbian...they just can't agree a sister no wan do. Later na them go still judge bodycount.

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Lassun01: 11:24am On Jun 20, 2017
I also have a gf who wouldn't want any thing physical but later discovered she was Les'.. .probe well bro
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by NairalandCS(m): 11:41am On Jun 20, 2017
Impossicant.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Johnholmes: 4:54pm On Jun 20, 2017
Lassun01:
I also have a gf who wouldn't want any thing physical but later discovered she was Les'.. .probe well bro
hmmm
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by NnamdiN: 7:02pm On Apr 13, 2018
Johnholmes:
thanks bro
I really need to work on her cause I love her So much.
It's just this issue that's frustrating me.
sent a pm. Respond pls
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Foodforthought(m): 8:20pm On Apr 13, 2018
Kondomatic:
You need sex, nothing more.

Don't deceive her with love.
Stop judging him...no be ur relationship
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by stubbornman(m): 9:59pm On Apr 13, 2018
angry Give her a gaddam head when she's a bit drunk and watch her get nutty..
You can't frustrate my sexual know-how angry

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by McBrooklyn(m): 10:00pm On Apr 13, 2018
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by don4real18(m): 10:02pm On Apr 13, 2018
You need to up your game bro... Mention me to learn how to give a woman pleasure in bed
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 13, 2018
Yes, some women can't climax.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by MissRaine69(f): 10:21pm On Apr 13, 2018
Some women can’t climax for many reasons
Psychological
The technique of the man
Not having a clitoris - FGM
And Fear

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Martin0(m): 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2018
MissRaine69:
Some women can’t climax for many reasons
Psychological
The technique of the man
Not having a clitoris - FGM
And Fear

haba ayam sure you not among these sha
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by MissRaine69(f): 10:50pm On Apr 13, 2018
Martin0:


haba ayam sure you not among these sha
You expect me to confirm? cheesy
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Martin0(m): 11:07pm On Apr 13, 2018
MissRaine69:
You expect me to confirm? cheesy
grin
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Johnholmes: 6:58am On Apr 15, 2018
A little update guys
Right now, our sex life is on another level
Infact, I am struggling to keep up with her sexual appetite.
It was actually a psychological thing that acted as a mental block for her.
I'm happy she now enjoys lovemaking .( something she previously detested)
I was patient with her and it finally paid off .
She even thanks me after grin......can u imagine?

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Kobicove(m): 8:30am On Apr 15, 2018
Yes, there are a few.

Being with them can be so very boring undecided

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by luminouz(m): 1:57am On Jan 04, 2019
Johnholmes...Johnholmes..Johnholmes...I hadda mention you in a dead thread... To get your attention!

I read of your memoirs dealing with warts and I must say you really impressed me with the quick fire responses you gave to exterminating it.
I'm just curious, how did you know the girl u slept with gave u warts?? Were there spots on her vjay or laps or anus? Cuz I read even by touching moist infected surfaces you could still have been infected! Or hand(from you) to genital(fingering her and touching ur dick or anus later without washing off) contact!!
Thanks bro!

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Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Lightangel65: 12:33pm On Jan 04, 2019
It's a blessing in disguise, she won't fall into sin
And she can live a life without sexual temptations.

I would be grateful if i had this opportunity.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 04, 2019
Just go fuvck olosho and have rest of mind. undecided
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Lightangel65: 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2019
Mrbolt565:
Just go fuvck olosho and have rest of mind. undecided

People just talk as if sex is a normal thing,
Sex is a sin with a high gravity

1Cor 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.[left][/left][color=#990000][/color]
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 04, 2019
Lightangel65:


People just talk as if sex is a normal thing,
Sex is a sin with a high gravity

1Cor 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.[left][/left][color=#990000][/color]
shut up!
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Lightangel65: 1:59pm On Jan 04, 2019
Mrbolt565:
shut up!
I won't and i wonder why u are so worked up about this.
Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by marvin906(m): 2:12pm On Jan 04, 2019
just give her a good head

Re: Are There Girls That Genuinely Don't Like Sex? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 04, 2019
Apparently, u dont know that a woman's clitoris contains more nerves that the Penis. Infact there are 200 nerves for every male nerve. This implies that Women tend to enjoy Sexual Intercourse more than Men. Women can have two types of orgasm -Clitoral orgasm and Vaginal Orgasm.while Men can only have one i.e penile orgasm.
Most women have only experiences Clitoral orgasm cos its easier to get to the clitoris than the inner walls of the Vagina. Most times, Vaginal Orgasm brings about cumming i.e release of whitish fluids from the cervix region. If a Woman tells u she doesnt enjoy Sex, its either because her genitals have been mutilated i.e her clitoris has been damaged or she has a psycological issue. In the case of clitorial damage, ur best bet is to work on her inner walls . If its psychological, u've got a big issue in your hands. Women can be very mysterious beings bro. Trust me.
#Stay Woke Bro

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