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Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Wisdomkosi(m): 12:57pm On Jun 20, 2017
I always feel bad whenever I see young girls on Facebook, Twitter, and several other social media parading themselves as slay queens or babymama of a popular musician or a very rich guy. That's why I decided to drop this article concerning why many young girls have decided to be slay queens or babymama instead of being a responsible lady. Recall that not long ago, pictures of young Nigerian girls went viral on many social media because they considered themselves as slay queens and that they equally ready to take the leadership from old school slay queens. Let's go into the business of the day why many girls have actually choose to be slay queens and babymama.

1, Material Things : Many young girls want to belong to the society and have decided to get material things so that they can actually belong to this society where material things are the order of the day. You will believe with me that these slay queens have expensive phones, like the latest iPhones, expensive wristwatch, cars, expensive clothes, shoes etc.
The Quest to get all these material things have actually lured many of our young girls to become slay queens or babymama by jumping from one rich guy to another.

2, Many Babymama have monthly allocation lol: This is true, not long ago I heard that one popular musician gives his babymama 300k every month for being his babymama. Now tell me how many graduates do you think their monthly salary are up to 300k? If the answer is no, tell me why many girls will not want to be a babymama. This is another strong reason why many girls have decided to become babymama. Lol

3 Bad Association : Many young girls don't even know what it is to be a slay queen or babymama but because they now associate with bad friends, those bad friends have actually lured them into believing that becoming a slay queen or babymama is the best. Whenever they see these bad friends leaving large, buying expensive clothes, shoes, phones, etc they will have no option than to join the bad friends there by spoiling their useful habits which is very bad.

4, Social Media : In this era where social media is making our young girls go gaga, and learn many bad things. You will believe with me that social media have contributed immensely into our young Nigerian girls becoming slay queens and babymama. Many young girls feel jealous if they see many celebrity babymamas, e.g, Wizkid, Davido‘s babymamas etc posting pictures on their various social media accounts.

5,Finally Many Break Up : Many of these our young beautiful slay queens and baby mama's have had many break ups and have vowed not to enter into any relationship again instead they choose to become slay queens and baby mama's. On behalf of the slay queens association, I beg our guys to minimize how they break these young girls heart. Make una dey hold them strong. Lol

I have to stop here, you can actually add yours. In my next article I will look into the dangers of being a slay queen or babymama. Thanks

Written by Wisdom Nwedene

Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Ipobwarrior: 1:00pm On Jun 20, 2017
Ok
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Davidgrey: 1:07pm On Jun 20, 2017
"Ignorance" undecided

You clowns term a "slay queen" as a girl being beautiful and confident (wanting and demanding the best)

I don't see anything wrong in a woman wanting to be confident it's suppose to be sexy to men, only small minded insecure clowns like you have issues with it

The desire for material things is "Imbedded" in all of us

The fact that you can't afford to give a lady something Doesn't make her desire for material things an offense

Grow up please, pick up a book and educate yourself, ignorance is not attractive.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by sod09(m): 1:11pm On Jun 20, 2017
if you know the meaning of slay queen...
even ladies are rejecting the tag
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 1:13pm On Jun 20, 2017
First of all, excuse me for not catching up with this colloquial but where the hell did the word 'Slay queen' originated from, who coined it and what exactly does it mean ? In the Nigeria parlance we are all familiar with the meaning of those who are referred to as aristos, those who are consider themselves runs-girl and part of the characteristics of those who response to these two social titles is not limited to the gold-digging nature of their activities among other expected wiles they are notorious for, so I presume someone really wounded came up with that word and I hope someone here on Nairaland gives it a proper definition as to what makes much-trending 'Slay Queen' different from the aforementioned two.

Back to the topic

Wisdomkosi Says:

1, Quest For Material Things
Bro...that's a stale reason, tell us something we don't already know. And for your information, reality is we males are more materialistic and egocentric than females. FACT!

Wisdomkosi Says:

2, Many Babymama have monthly allocation lol: This is true, not long ago I heard that one popular musician gives his babymama 300k every month for being his babymama. Now tell me how many graduates do you think their monthly salary are up to 300k? If the answer is no, tell me why many girls will not want to be a babymama. This is another strong reason why many girls have decided to become babymama. Lol
Pointless. Bro it will be unbias of you if you had examine such information from both end before hopping into the kind of conclusion you made here, what makes you think Linda Ikeji don't keep one or two machismo on her pay roll for whatever it is she desires from them ? But because it is kinda cool among guys to keep hearing what you wrote doesn't mean there aren't 'gigollos' or what some like to call 'fkuc boys' all around the nation seeking for who to fund them in whatever lifestyle they choose to live by. You attempt to cite financial poverty as a factor which drives young girls into becoming slayqueen and baby-mamas is defeated by your inability to realize that it cuts across both gender in Nigeria.

Wisdomkosi Says:
3 Bad Association : Many young girls don't even know what it is to be a slay queen or babymama but because they now associate with bad friends, those bad friends have actually lured them into believing that becoming a slay queen or babymama is the best. Whenever they see these bad friends leaving large, buying expensive clothes, shoes, phones, etc they will have no option than to join the bad friends there by spoiling their useful habits which is very bad.
AGREED 100% but please remove that young girl's image from your write-up, it is unnecessary, think of her as one of your siblings, a young sister.

Wisdomkosi Says:

4, Social Media : In this era where social media is making our young girls go gaga, and learn many bad things. You will believe with me that social media have contributed immensely into our young Nigerian girls becoming slay queens and babymama. Many young girls feel jealous if they see many celebrity babymamas, e.g, Wizkid, Davido‘s babymamas etc posting pictures on their various social media accounts.
Not just Social Media, Abrahamic religions and the so-called Nigerian entertainment industry with all their uncensored acts, lewd behavior and explicit dialogues are also a major contributing factors that continue to shape their mentality as well as the mindset of the upcoming ones who watches on and learn from Nigerian feems, Yoruba feems, YorubaMagic, AfricanMagic...So much for Parental Guidance. This Content Is Only Suitable to Viewers Below 16 my foot. So don't just nail it on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc or are Nigerian babes the only ones they were created for ?

Wisdomkosi Says:

5,Finally Many Break Up : Many of these our young beautiful slay queens and baby mama's have had many break ups and have vowed not to enter into any relationship again instead they choose to become slay queens and baby mama's. On behalf of the slay queens association, I beg our guys to minimize how they break these young girls heart. Make una dey hold them strong. Lol
I strongly disagree, refer to this two threads. The Big Question: Why Not Him And Him Only? and The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ?

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Wisdomkosi(m): 1:15pm On Jun 20, 2017
Davidgrey:
"Ignorance" undecided

You clowns term a "slay queen" as a girl being beautiful and confident (wanting and demanding the best)

I don't see anything wrong in a woman wanting to be confident it's suppose to be sexy to men, only small minded insecure clowns like you have issues with it

The desire for material things is "Imbedded" in all of us

The fact that you can't afford to give a lady something Doesn't make her desire for material things an offense

Grow up please, pick up a book and educate yourself, ignorance is not attractive.

Your problem is that you did not read the write up. Now let me explain more, I don't have any problem with any matured lady who is old enough choosing to be called a slay queen or decided to be a babymama. The reason I feel bad is seeing young girls, 12, 13,14,15 parading themselves as slay queens. Do you want your daughter at the age of 12 years old posting nude pics on Facebook, instagram, calling herself a slay queen? If your answer is yes then good for you if not then have a rethink

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by TANKDESTROYER(m): 1:19pm On Jun 20, 2017
in summary.... end time.....the world as gone mad.....


THE DAWN IS NEAR!!!!!

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:09pm On Jun 20, 2017
Juz minding my own biznaaazz grin

But honestly, this new generation sha...teens calling themselves *SLAY QUEENS* but cant afford to buy wigs, bra and panties...

I wonder what are they slaying undecided ?

Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jun 20, 2017
Well said. I'm beautiful but wouldn't tag myself a slayqueen. I think it's childish. But to the women who do, so be it. I find it funny when guys whine about these things. Who are the girls slaying for if not for them.

Davidgrey:
"Ignorance" undecided

You clowns term a "slay queen" as a girl being beautiful and confident (wanting and demanding the best)

I don't see anything wrong in a woman wanting to be confident it's suppose to be sexy to men, only small minded insecure clowns like you have issues with it

The desire for material things is "Imbedded" in all of us

The fact that you can't afford to give a lady something Doesn't make her desire for material things an offense

Grow up please, pick up a book and educate yourself, ignorance is not attractive.
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 2:36pm On Jun 20, 2017
QueenSuccubus:
I wonder what are they slaying undecided ?
Only the injured soul(s) who invented that word can provide us the answer. BTW, I hope you aren't among the SlayQueen most on here are raving about given your 'Succubus' title, if by chance you are, then perhaps you could come up with a definition for a KingIncubus i.e. a Slay King grin!

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:39pm On Jun 20, 2017
y3mi:
Only the injured soul(s) who invented that word can provide us the answer. BTW, I hope you aren't among the SlayQueen most on here are raving about given your 'Succubus' title, if by chance you are, then perhaps you could come up with a definition for a KingIncubus i.e. a Slay King grin!

grin

I slay different things..things that u cudnt even imagine lipsrsealed

Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Wisdomkosi(m): 2:44pm On Jun 20, 2017
QueenSuccubus:


grin

I slay different things..things that u cudnt even imagine lipsrsealed

Lol like seriously grin
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 2:57pm On Jun 20, 2017
QueenSuccubus:


grin

I slay different things..things that u cudnt even imagine lipsrsealed

I see...no wonder your signatures states P. L. U. R. I. M. I | Only the STRONGEST will SURVIVE. But guess what Damsel, my imagination is voracious and unfettered, I dare you try me, unless you're actually related to Lilith, then only a Van Helsing can best you. I am more of a Sherlock Holmes type of guy driven with a Spartacus-like zeal. wink

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:13pm On Jun 20, 2017
y3mi:
I see...no wonder your signatures states P. L. U. R. I. M. I | Only the STRONGEST will SURVIVE. But guess what Damsel, my imagination is voracious and unfettered, I dare you try me, unless you're actually related to Lilith, then only a Van Helsing can best you. I am more of a Sherlock Holmes type of guy driven with a Spartacus-like zeal. wink

Aha... grin

Tell me what u got?


Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 3:24pm On Jun 20, 2017
QueenSuccubus:


Aha... grin

Tell me what u got?


Depends on what you want slayed?

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:30pm On Jun 20, 2017
y3mi:

Depends on what you want slayed?


Uuuhh...ooohh..it seems ur ready to take the plunge wink

Juz reminding u that once ur in ...there's no turning back tongue
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Wisdomkosi(m): 5:07pm On Jun 20, 2017
Cc, lalastical
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 10:24am On Jun 21, 2017
QueenSuccubus:



Uuuhh...ooohh..it seems ur ready to take the plunge wink

Juz reminding u that once ur in ...there's no turning back tongue
Damsel I'm not a plunger and if you're referring to 'Hell', then visualize me smirking at you. The infernus has always been my favourite realm to sojourn.

Gosh...this place is dry.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by QueenSuccubus(f): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2017
y3mi:

Damsel I'm not a plunger and if you're referring to 'Hell', then visualize me smirking at you. The infernus has always been my favourite realm to sojourn.

Gosh...this place is dry.

[i] grin

Are u sure about it? wink
]/i]
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by newslifeop: 10:49am On Jun 21, 2017
Ok
Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by y3mi(m): 12:27am On Jun 22, 2017
QueenSuccubus:


[i] grin

Are u sure about it? wink
]/i]
I am as sure as Evans is damned for either life imprisonment or death sentence.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Wisdomkosi(m): 7:12am On Jun 22, 2017
y3mi:
First of all, excuse me for not catching up with this colloquial but where the hell did the word 'Slay queen' originated from, who coined it and what exactly does it mean ? In the Nigeria parlance we are all familiar with the meaning of those who are referred to as aristos, those who are consider themselves runs-girl and part of the characteristics of those who response to these two social titles is not limited to the gold-digging nature of their activities among other expected wiles they are notorious for, so I presume someone really wounded came up with that word and I hope someone here on Nairaland gives it a proper definition as to what makes much-trending 'Slay Queen' different from the aforementioned two.

Back to the topic


Bro...that's a stale reason, tell us something we don't already know. And for your information, reality is we males are more materialistic and egocentric than females. FACT!


Pointless. Bro it will be unbias of you to assess evaluate any information from both end before hopping into the kinds of conclusion you made here, what makes you think Linda Ikeji don't keep one or two machismo on her pay roll for whatever it is she desires from them ? But because it is kinda cool among guys to keep hearing what you wrote doesn't mean there aren't 'gigollos' or what some like to call 'fkuc boys' all around the nation seeking for who to fund them in whatever lifestyle they choose to live by. You attempt to cite financial poverty as a factor which drives young girls into becoming slayqueen and baby-mamas is defeated by your inability to realize that it cuts across both gender in Nigeria.

AGREED 100% but please remove that young girl's image from your write-up, it is unnecessary, think of her as one of your siblings, a young sister.

Not just Social Media, Abrahamic religions and the so-called Nigerian entertainment industry with all their uncensored acts, lewd behavior and explicit dialogues are also a major contributing factors that continue to shape their mentality as well as the mindset of the upcoming ones who watches on and learn from Nigerian feems, Yoruba feems, YorubaMagic, AfricanMagic...So much for Parental Guidance. This Content Is Only Suitable to Viewers Below 16 my foot. So don't just nail it on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc or are Nigerian babes the only ones they were created for ?

I strongly disagree, refer to this two threads. The Big Question: Why Not Him And Him Only? and The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ?

Nice points

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