hello nairalanders,
I av been aving dis issue on my mind for years now. I am a graduate in my late 20s, but av no gf. I av had just one relationship in my life which I had while in my final year in d university ND we broke up two years ago. nd since den av stayed away from women.
d issue is nt dat I love to b stay alone, but am very terrible with relationship. I love too much ND I fear dey will take advantage of me. I am very purposeful ND goal oriented, I currently run a consulting firm, girls hit at me, in fact some ladies do ask me out, but I fear I will f**up. My belief forbids me from double dating ND lieing, so if am dating I put all my mind into it. But my fear is, I dnt want to b called a mugu or be seen as weakling me taken advantage of. I want to settle down two years time ND I need to build a relationship for dat. Pls wat can I do?
mature minds pls.

I'm just like you Bro! One thing I've come to understand is; Love but be ready for the consequences later! Its what has being keeping me going!

#BeYourself
#Don'tGetScaredOfLove
#ShitHappensInLove

Baffles me when I see graduates type 'nd' for 'and'. It's real shyt mehnnn


Back to the topic, you need to be you and let things work out naturally. Cast away the fear in your mind. Don't rush into any relationship. Start by being friend with the girl and gradually build on it

Jacksparr0w127:
Baffles me when I see graduates type 'nd' for 'and'. It's real shyt mehnnn

At first when I saw it I thought he meant National Diploma

Uhm... Well, You've not started living if you don't take risks.

@jacksparrow, dis is nt an interview or job application, if u r nt comfortable wit d abbreviations, u can move to d nxt post

smartty68:

At first when I saw it I thought he meant National Diploma

I swear to God, that was what came to my mind cuz it was in capital letters. Lol

Jacksparr0w127:
Baffles me when I see graduates type 'nd' for 'and'. It's real shyt mehnnn

Not only you bro
When I saw ND
I tot he mean National Diploma
I'll just be like ( As universities started awarding ND).

oilcity:
@jacksparrow, dis is nt an interview or job application, if u r nt comfortable wit d abbreviations, u can move to d nxt post

lol. Ok sir

I dropped my advise already

Some women want men like you. Keep casting your net bruh, don't let a few bad experiences deter you.

Nedfed:
AsHas universities started awarding ND

That's where I was confused and why I had to read through his epistle

Jacksparr0w127:
I swear to God, that was what came to my mind cuz it was in capital letters. Lol

But then you are writing cuz instead of because. Let's stop with the nonsense.

Safiaa:
But then you are writing cuz instead of because. Let's stop with the nonsense.

Fvck off

am sorry to say this buh if your not ready to take risks..
then just get ready to be single..
and i strongly suggest you don't rush things cause of settling down quickly..
you might make a mistake you will live to regret

Jacksparr0w127:
Baffles me when I see graduates type 'nd' for 'and'. It's real shyt mehnnn


Back to the topic, you need to be you and let things work out naturally. Cast away the fear in your mind. Don't rush into any relationship. Start by being friend with the girl and gradually build on it

Dorrrr, same way u typed "shyt" for "shit". Kettle calling pot black.

Nma27:
Dorrrr, same way u typed "shyt" for "shit". Kettle calling pot black.

You crack head know shît is censored on Nairaland

Jacksparr0w127:
You crack head know shît is censored on Nairaland

Lol... Snap!

Nma27:
Lol... Snap!

#Yawn

nna, love is all about taking risk..just pray for the best but whilst at it,prepare also for the worst..thanks

Jacksparr0w127:
#Yawn

Yimu

Nma27:
Yimu

leave me biko

Jacksparr0w127:
leave me biko

Noooooooo!