daewoorazer:


Trust me... He ain't bleeping his sister. He is simply from d zanga and here in d zanga, as much as we respect our women, we don't place them on our heads.


Peace

ubongoton:
As in you are even a graduate o,if he didnt love you wouldnt he love your certificate?.
Too much of anything(faithfulnes)is a disease.
DEPART FROM HIM BEFORE THE HOMO ACE KILLED YOU

GlobalGisting:
My name is Joy, I live in Lagos. I was approached by my boyfriend some two years ago. We have been friends and he has been my music director for years so when he approached me it was not difficult for me to accept owing to the fact that I've known him for years.

After we started dating he told me we should do the no-sex before marriage kind of relationship and I accepted because it's a rare idea coming from a guy though I'm not a virgin and it's not been easy revirginzing. We kept going and it's almost two years now.

On several occasions I've asked him for a mere hug, even to walk hand in hand is a problem talk more of kisses. Though I am putting up with all of that but aside sex, a woman needs cuddling and emotional care. I figured out he totally don't understand what romance means. Now my fear is, will he be able to take care of a Woman's emotions even in Marriage? Because since we started dating he always tells me he loves me, but even a flower of 50naira I've never received from him even if I do gift him,. When ever I go visiting him (he stays with his siblings) we always make indomie to eat.

Once he was sick and had no money for drugs I bought all the drugs he needed and took to him, the next day I asked him how he was feeling and hope he had taken his medication, his reply was he hasn't, and when I probed as to why he simply responded "is it because you bought the drugs, did I even beg u for it". I smell an ingrate, but shaa I swallowed it hard.

I've never had a we-time with my boyfriend for the length of time we have dated. The worst of it all is how close he is with her younger sister, I once asked him why he is always so attached to the younger sister to the point that even when coming to see me he comes with her and even in my house I don't still have his attention, it amounted to me trying to severe him from his family, the younger sister is almost 18yrs of age, through with secondary school and sometimes when I watch him playing some rough plays with her I can't help but think incest is hiding in plain sight.

Yesterday after I closed from work I called him and told him I would be passing through his place on my way from work to discuss an issue, cos recently I've been having troubles with my Mom and I'd like him to help me crack tips on how to handle it, I got to his place and he was working (he owns a studio in his house) so I waited for him be through. After he escorted his artists he came back and started gistin with his friend. I called him on fone that it's getting late and I need us to talk quickly so I leave, instead of giving me the attention he asked me to come outside and meet them there. But I insisted I needed privacy as I told him earlier when I called, he refused to come. I left, later on chats I was forced to ask him why he holds his friends and siblings dearer than his woman, are they more important than I am and he answered with a capital "YES".

I felt deflated, as he tried to justify his answer. Truth is I am a faithful lover (even till my graduation from Uni I've had just a boyfriend) and I've been trying to justify myself for trying to keep the relationship goin but that answer keeps bringing back memories.

I don't make demands from him cos I'm working and I even try my best to send him gifts the little I can. I don't see reasons why I should be mistreated cos I love him even if he doesn't show me he loves me.

Please dear Nlanders I need candid advice, am I threading on a quagmire?

ubongoton:

And most of our Zanga are homosexualist

War

Ohhh. U actually mean d butty boys who are always afraid to talk women to bed.

I like ur sense of humour tho

daewoorazer:


Trust me... He ain't bleeping his sister. He is simply from d zanga and here in d zanga, as much as we respect our women, we don't place them on our heads.


Peace

daewoorazer:


Trust me... He ain't bleeping his sister. He is simply from d zanga and here in d zanga, as much as we respect our women, we don't place them on our heads.


Peace