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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Absoj(m): 7:12am On Jun 29, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:...and she could also get dat lucky shot of testosterone with a tie of HIV - more like adding salt to injury ,man. |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by olushowunm(m): 7:12am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue:In case the divorce pull through... I can donate you sperm for IVF for free. Regards. |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by chocodaviva(f): 7:16am On Jun 29, 2017 |
jus a year? #where is d love# # did he even swear d oath of " for better for worst" "in rich and in poor" he is an asshole main while d distance BTW u and ur problem is not as far as d distance BTW ur kneel and d floor. # throw or roll ur problems unto Jehovah bcs he cares# |
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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 7:20am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Na wa o. But if your husband touch one small Girl now, Belle go grow. Such a mysterious world. |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by izobemheuwaize: 7:21am On Jun 29, 2017 |
austinosita: very correct bros |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Olabestonic001(m): 7:23am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: I am very sorry for this and I am sympathizing with you. However, there are some questions that needs to be answered; (a) Have you guys gone for medical checks and who is the root cause of this brouhaha? (b) Do you have an history of abortion? If you do, do you treat it as a 'no biggie?' (c) Do you always remind him about how much 'investment' you've made into his life whenever he mentioned the issue of conception? (I know as a man that such will always be seen as blackmail) (d) Have you guys involve your parents? This is not the time to do cover up! Its time to tell them everything. Including if he's the one with low sperm count or you're the one with a case of abortion fighting back. (e) Have you guys seen a Christian Counselor who can do well in your matter. And ensure if its a case of a former abortion fighting back, don't tell you young man not to fume. Accept any of your blames (if any) and ensure you do not believe giving men money or such stuffs makes them stay, men seek more than that! They seek honor and all. Pls, don't bring how you've 'invested' in him into such a sensitive issue, it will only make him see your investment as a blackmailing tool. And that man needs to grow up too! Its not your right to tell him that though. Move him closer to great men that'll help him grow up. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by mylove4God(f): 7:23am On Jun 29, 2017 |
God did not forsake you, at the right time he will manifest himself as long as you know you are guilty or the cause indirectly due to a past life. Even if, he is a merciful God. Let me tell you a real life story. I know of a woman that was married as the third wife to a Christian man in my kindred, a very beautiful woman who I think is better off than the man It was after I heard that she has been once married for 8 years without no issue and her ex husband family dealt with her before the man finally sent her packing. She was surprised when she got pregnant for the next man she started dating because she believed the fault of not being able to conceive was from. She went ahead to become the third wife to prove herself to the world. Ps: Don't look at the negative part of the story but at the fact that problem was not from her. God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by networkrecharg: 7:24am On Jun 29, 2017 |
ALLOW HIM GET A BABE, DATE AND PREGNANT HERE... YOU SHOULD HAPPILY STAY TOGETHER... TAKE THE KIDS AS YOURS IF U LOVE THE MAN... Dreamscometrue: |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by italo: 7:29am On Jun 29, 2017 |
torres89:And women are kind. Remember, you only heard one side of the story sha. |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ochobaba(m): 7:33am On Jun 29, 2017 |
zuto4u:Thanks buddy |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 7:35am On Jun 29, 2017 |
I swear with my whole life that I HAVE NEVER ABORTED BEFORE. We are both sound. Yes,I do remind him whenever he pushes me to the wall but that I have stopped.No doubt,he has also done good and wonderful things for me. Olabestonic001: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by collettenma(f): 7:39am On Jun 29, 2017 |
just one yr and he is tired,my sis just move on with ur life and remind God of his words and he will never forsaken you.u will concur and for ur tears God will give u double.pray |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by dinggle: 7:43am On Jun 29, 2017 |
I think it is women's fault due to their reaction. A woman who has not conceived after 3months instead of her to ask the hard question to her man and ask him to go do a sperm test....she will take the blame and be going to church to see pastor. As men we simply assume its the woman's fault because she has decided to carry the fault. Women dont know it is more of the man's fault than woman. Other women should take note. In your own case you are lucky because that man dont love you, because just 1 year? U must be joking if u think that man can stand with u for 20yrs and above wit kids or not. You are better off starting afresh now than 10yrs from now. He is a weak man with dried sperm reservoir! This is a lesson for both men and women, never invest fully in a marriage. Keep your financial options open and maintain a secret account just-in-case. You dont wanna be left hanging dry when the chips are down. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by mikolo80: 7:44am On Jun 29, 2017 |
GossipHeart: [/quote] He has his preference, he's a grown man, he can do whatever he wants The same way you can't marry a bus driver Just move on[/quote] |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by mikolo80: 7:45am On Jun 29, 2017 |
GossipHeart: na wa for you o. Wetin come be marriage and for better for worse
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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by LoveJesus87(m): 7:45am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue:P.R.A.Y.E.R there is nothing God cannot do. God would turn your situation around in Jesus mighty name |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ollamy22: 7:46am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Sorry madam for this unfortunate experience. However, i will advise you not allow the situation to pull your life apart. i feel that i could help you in a way. if you are interested, you could pm then we will talk off public forum. thank you |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by amarachi06(f): 7:46am On Jun 29, 2017 |
ochobaba: He has a listening ear and that your husband doesn't love you cos he wanted you to produce kids for him not a life partner. l have been married for four years and two months with no child but my husband is still there. We are still believing God for a miracle. Mine is hormonal imbalance but my husband is still there for me. Hold unto God and remind him His word and keep doing that. If he sends you out of the house, don't panic, just go cos he is not the man for you. Don't leave the house excepts he pushes you away which am sure he wouldn't. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by MikaSoko(m): 7:46am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Keep believing God! You will surely laugh |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 7:50am On Jun 29, 2017 |
torres89:Because is a man..so he shouldn't qive rise to human bah ? |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by DrogoG(m): 7:50am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: You unfortunately married an as*shole who didn't love you. A man who really loves you won't do this. This is exactly what happens when people marry for marrying sake! Depending on a couple's health, there are many options to have a baby. The IVF you mebtioned is one of them. Even if you're barren, you can pay a surrogate mother to have your child via artificial insemination with your husband's sperm, as you won't want your husband to sleep with the person. So there are many options available. Nigerian women care more about being married than being loved! |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Fashx007: 7:57am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Definitely you will,move closer to God and you will look back and smile Dreamscometrue: |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Olabestonic001(m): 8:01am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: I'm happy to hear that! I want you to shut your ears against the babyish, sad-women and opportunists men tantrums against your marriage. This is your own trial (and everyone must go through theirs). Face it ma'am. Pray for that poor guy to 'grow up'. I've seen men who have been with their women for 30yrs childless and ain't wavering. Its mostly due to a heart of GOD, a humble and real woman and a good community of friends. Go and see your leaders (preferably a Church setting cos only Christians sees marriage as between one man, one woman) I.e a Christian counsellor. And win back that man. Women can share what torments with the public and feel happy after some advices, men will bottle up and wreak more havoc first on themselves, next their wives and finally their community. Pray for your man to grow up! I feel he needs that so much. But, I beg you in the name of GOD, NEVER tell him that! It will only worsen the matter. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ikukuhero: 8:04am On Jun 29, 2017 |
pressplay411: Better person! I love your positive spirit. Can we be friends? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by talk2hb1(m): 8:07am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Richy4:Just an indication, not absolute indication of made up stories. With more text analysis, the story is a made up story. |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ariklawani(f): 8:07am On Jun 29, 2017 |
torres89:If the bible can say,THE HEART OF MAN IS DESPERATLY WICKED, NO ONE CAN understand IT.SO, WHO ARE U TO SAY IS NOT WICKED... |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ariklawani(f): 8:12am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue:.My dear sister,just know that what will be ,will be.if he's made for u ,he won't leave u.don't bring urself down.dust up.and move on. that's ,t if u have tried to make it work.life gos on |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by thinkrite(m): 8:18am On Jun 29, 2017 |
We just heard your own side of the story. If your husband is to be heard, he will surely have something to say. Lady, you need to meet with an elder in your family or his own family to counsel both of you. God help you |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by mark2sunny(m): 8:19am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Dreamscometrue: Once in a while in our lives we go through what we think will kill us or end us. If I tell you stories, you will awake and start celebrating. You have life, you have health and one thing you think you don't have is a husband or a child or both. For investing in whom you love, you're a great woman and one whom few men don't deserve. For being a lovely woman and one who has seen a few challenges in life, I adore you. I just love you and baby girl, what do you think the world can be without you. You want to leave us in the hands of these world's wicket women destroying the lives of men? You have pulled through of this and this too will pass. I wish I knew you in person. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by RockyEyo(m): 8:19am On Jun 29, 2017 |
It baffles me when "grown up" married folk bring their marriage challenges to teenagers and other folks who are also having greater stress in their homes to debate on. Madam I can't even begin to say I understand your pain, I'll just say; seek the right counsel and do not neglet family at this time. lemme ask o because I know women and their wahala Are you sure its not your incessant nagging about the IVF that made the man take a walk(for fresh air)? Haba just a year and and you guys are talking IVF Ok oo. Just seek counsel from the right source (someone you know he listens to is a good start). 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by larrybee2017(f): 8:29am On Jun 29, 2017 |
pressplay411:Gbam! You nailed it here. You die,you die alone and still see a video clip of that man loving another woman while you rot in hell. It's not easy though and I feel your pain but we can't question Him. Many a time He is even working in our favor. Try move on sis it will get better soon. Keep your prayer antenna alive and above all praise him. He alone can see you through it all. Forget the "I did this syndrome" it's all part of the pain. If he divorce you in just a year then he is not worth dying for. I love the song "a rose is still a rose" listen to it. Forget your family will say cause if you die now dem go move on o. The Lord will see you through it all,but remember you are not alone and stop blaming God for your mistake. Just ask Him to hold your hands while you walk through the storm. Close your eyes and when you open it you'll see it all over. Keep fighting you are in our prayers 1 Like |
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