.

I will love to date a doctor
But any hardworking lady will do
I cannot date a lady that want to become a house wife

UNEMPLOYED is the only occupation I frown upon.

MrBrownJay1:
UNEMPLOYED is the only occupation I frown upon.

so the job doesnt matter so far shes employed (even though she works as a stripper. Waitress, terrorist etc ) abi?

greyboy5000:
I will love to date a doctor
But any hardworking lady will do
I cannot date a lady that want to become a house wife

most guys would want their wife to be housewieves esp when she is extremely pretty or to prove that the are the man of the house and can carry out their responsibilities well

why your own con different boss

At this point in my life yes it's important, it might sound vain but I'm not going to be with a man who has not put up as much effort as I did to better themselves. I don't stress about which career path one took but you had better be well qualified and skilled.

The second question shouldn't be there for me. When I first go out with you , one of the first things I want to know is what it is that you do daily and where? . So if I'm not satisfied from there , no need to go on further dates let alone starting a relationship.

I would have loved to date a pilot , probably because at some point I wanted to be one so this would have cured my curiosity .

thepussyhunter:


most guys would want their wife to be housewieves esp when she is extremely pretty or to prove that the are the man of the house and can carry out their responsibilities well

why your own con different boss

i will like my wife to be a role model for my kids (particularly the female one)
I want a career woman that my female child can look forward too while growing up, since our parents are our first role model in life
I don't want to give birth to potential slay queens that Bleep boys will call olosho
You know the story on nairaland


Plus her finance can help in the house to give our children the best life they can have

greyboy5000:
i will like my wife to be a role model for my kids (particularly the female one)
I want a carrier woman that my female child can look forward too while growing up, since our parents are our first role model in life
I don't want to give birth to potential slay queens that Bleep boys will call olosho
You know the story on nairaland


Plus her finance can help in the house to give our children the best life they can have

nice one bro

thumbs up

Lionessza:


At this point in my life yes it's important, it might sound vain but I'm not going to be with a man who has not put up as much effort as I did to better themselves. I don't stress about which career path one took but you had better be well qualified and skilled.

The second question shouldn't be there for me. When I first go out with you , one of the first things I want to know is what it is that you do daily and where? . So if I'm not satisfied from there , no need to go on further dates let alone starting a relationship.

I would have loved to date a pilot , probably because at some point I wanted to be one so this would have cured my curiosity .

wow! .......

Well said miss

and ermmm dont u think it'd be dangerous dating a pilot
with all the plane crash (es) and other ish

thepussyhunter:


wow! .......

Well said miss

and ermmm dont u think it'd be dangerous dating a pilot
with all the plane crash (es) and other ish

Thank you .


Lol, I know hey. Anyway it was a curiosity thing for me , now I know I wouldn't be able to date a man who will be away from home that much, so not meeting a pilot earlier was a blessing .

These days it does that's the truth people choose not to tell themselves

Lionessza:








Thank you .


Lol, I know hey. Anyway it was a curiosity thing for me , now I know I wouldn't be able to date a man who will be away from home that much, so not meeting a pilot earlier was a blessing .

lmfdte (laughing my flaccid dick to erection)

oh i see...........
We thank the lawd then for such blessing in disguise............


hope you dont mind me asking but ermmm whats the "lucky guy" doing (am guessing he's a doctor though )

thepussyhunter:


lmfdte (laughing my flaccid dick to erection)

oh i see...........
We thank the lawd then for such blessing in disguise............


hope you dont mind me asking but ermmm whats the "lucky guy" doing (am guessing he's a doctor though )

Lol , yup.




Lol , far from the medical field but not need to discuss that.

thepussyhunter:

so the job doesnt matter so far shes employed (even though she works as a stripper. Waitress, terrorist etc ) abi?

I once dated a stripper, no biggie. What's wrong with being a waitress, is that not a job?!.I meant gainfully employed, because terrorist, drug dealer or thief ain't jobs, they are crimes.

So long as the babe is comfortable and passionate about doing her job then it's all good to me. What I don't want is a woman who could be a lawyer/doc (or whatever fancy job) but hate what she does all day, and comes back home full of negative energy and rants, and ruins life for the rest of us living with her.

greyboy5000:
i will like my wife to be a role model for my kids (particularly the female one)
I want a carrier woman that my female child can look forward too while growing up, since our parents are our first role model in life
I don't want to give birth to potential slay queens that Bleep boys will call olosho
You know the story on nairaland


Plus her finance can help in the house to give our children the best life they can have

But bro, you know that a lady could be a lawyer/doctor (or any other fancy jobs) and still be a slay queen, right?!

MrBrownJay1:


But bro, you know that a lady could be a lawyer/doctor (or any other fancy jobs) and still be a slay queen, right?!

true I have seen such
This why I said hardworking lady in my previous post
A working lady will have no time to take pictures to post on the internet to get cheap likes or anything them slay queen are well known for

greyboy5000:
true I have seen such
This why I said hardworking lady in my previous post
A working lady will have no time to take pictures to post on the internet to get cheap likes or anything them slay queen are well known for

It's in the nature of women to wanna be admired or complimented on their looks, this is how many of them value themselves.
Posting sexy pics on social media is NOT the issue here, every women does it, the difference is TO WHOM?!

These foolish slay queens just accept any request from strangers to comment and give likes on their pix anyhow, while the gainfully employed ones will share these pics with only their friends, as their account are probably private.

So if a lady is a lawyer/doc, yet gives access to her profile to every Dikc, Tom and Harry to be commenting and throwing likes then...

any occupation apart from runzgirls and actresses

MrBrownJay1:


It's in the nature of women to wanna be admired or complimented on their looks, this is how many of them value themselves.
Posting sexy pics on social media is NOT the issue here, every women does it, the difference is TO WHOM?!

These foolish slay queens just accept any request from strangers to comment and give likes on their pix anyhow, while the gainfully employed ones will share these pics with only their friends, as their account are probably private.

So if a lady is a lawyer/doc, yet gives access to her profile to every Dikc, Tom and Harry to be commenting and throwing likes then...

true
But don't you think a working lady with focus will be a good role model for your female child
She won't see the need to be complaining about broke guys or joining issue Bleep boys

Cause her mom will teach her to be independent

lefulefu:
any occupation apart from runzgirls and actresses

which occupation is runzgirls kawanu

greyboy5000:
which occupation is runzgirls kawanu

na dem be dis

lefulefu:

na dem be dis

greyboy5000:
true
But don't you think a working lady with focus will be a good role model for your female child
She won't see the need to be complaining about broke guys or joining issue Bleep boys

Cause her mom will teach her to be independent

You are right, it is important, but sadly, the minute our kids step out the door, they are faced with LIFE, and its a different ball game out there. If your child falls with the wrong crowd or is easily influenced by the social trends then whatever you have taught him/her for yrs will be erased from their young mind... And they will start acting contrary to any of your life advices.

Some of these slay queens have proper upbringing but it's trendy/fun to be a slay queen (to them), and only a very strong minded child could say NO and follow the path her parents wishes for her.

MrBrownJay1:


You are right, it is important, but sadly, the minute our kids step out the door, they are faced with LIFE, and its a different ball game out there. If your child falls with the wrong crowd or is easily influenced by the social trends then whatever you have taught him/her for yrs will be erased from their young mind... And they will start acting contrary to any of your life advices.

Some of these slay queens have proper upbringing but it's trendy/fun to be a slay queen (to them), and only a very strong minded child could say NO and follow the path her parents wishes for her.

sure bro
We don't have any say on what our future children becomes
but we can always prepare them to make informed decisions
Same as our parents couldn't control most of the choices we make later in our lifes
But we still call on some of thier teachings and lessons, when ever we reach a brick wall in life

I think that is role of parents anyway

greyboy5000:
sure bro
We don't have any say on what our future children becomes
but we can always prepare them to make informed decisions
Same as our parents couldn't control most of the choices we make later in our lifes
But we still call on some of thier teachings and lessons, when ever we reach a brick wall in life

I think that is role of parents anyway

Well said, but then let us all remember that the majority of ours mums were not career women and we still could proudly look up to them and their advices.

MrBrownJay1:


I once dated a stripper, no biggie. What's wrong with being a waitress, is that not a job?!.I meant gainfully employed, because terrorist, drug dealer or thief ain't jobs, they are crimes.

So long as the babe is comfortable and passionate about doing her job then it's all good to me. What I don't want is a woman who could be a lawyer/doc (or whatever fancy job) but hate what she does all day, and comes back home full of negative energy and rants, and ruins life for the rest of us living with her.

oh i understand perfectly now.......................you are very correct

but then when the chidren starts coming then that mindset / thinking wont be valid as jobs like stripping etc which the wife finds delight and joy in doing would no longer be appropraite...........

Remember both parents have to live as good examples to the children

MrBrownJay1:


Well said, but then let us all remember that the majority of ours mums were not career women and we still could proudly look up to them and their advices.

hmm they were not career women
True
But if you say they had good influence on this generation of ladies
I may disagree
Cause if that is the case where did all this slay queen come from
The truth is that the mentality that man have to provide for the woman with women doing very little for themselfs gave birth to the mentality that support slay queens


Note: I am not insulting our mothers though
Perhaps they didn't know any better then
They didn't anticipate fb, yahooboys and co that now aids the lifestyle of slay queens

lefulefu:
any occupation apart from runzgirls and actresses

but an actress go make you popular and una relationship go dey well known na

you dont want that

Lionessza:












Lol , yup.




Lol , far from the medical field but not need to discuss that.

lol

cool......

You know i have never ever ever ever seen your pic here on nl


do you have a phobia for posting pictures on public forums

or are u that stingy enough to not let the world get a glimpse of your beauty

thepussyhunter:


but an actress go make you popular and una relationship go dey well known na

you dont want that

fame on newspapers while being treated with disrespect at home .dont get me wrong ooo .i love and admire our nollywood actress...even sef i am great fan to oge okoye and daniela okeke.but say marrying a lady from dat profession dats suicide na.

lefulefu:

fame on newspapers while being treated with disrespect at home .dont get me wrong ooo .i love and admire our nollywood actress...even sef i am great fan to oge okoye and daniela okeke.but say marrying a lady from dat profession dats suicide na.

hahahahaha

one man's poison is another man's antidote

issoraite.............