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7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:11am On Jun 29, 2017
Many relationships are not worth holding on to, many thinks they can still hold on to it, however, if you know your worth you will realize you need to end it for it not to end you.

Some of the signs you should note that will not make your relationship stand includes:

1. When your partner don't believe in you

My God! What are you still waiting for? And you think something can change that? No two ways about it, you are just being used pending the time that your partner will get a better replacement that he/she can believe in his/her potential.

This happens to women majorly, i was shocked when i heard a man will always shun his girlfriend whenever she tries to speak English when he is around just because she is a drop out with statement like "is it your kind that speaks English language?".

What else do you need to prove to you that you will suffer even if he marries you?

It is abuse on your part if your partner don't believe in you if you don't know.

2. Your partner does not have your time

You claim you are in a relationship and your partner is giving you negative attitude and forming to be busy more than Dangote or Otedola, you are on a very long thing if you don't run to that person who will cherish you and accord to you the time you desire.

If you think a miracle will happen over night you can keep it going, no matter how busy someone will be if that person loves you they will always find time to be with you, don't be deceived.

3. When your partner is not proud to introduce you

Yes, many have been introduced, yet, nothing good came up. It didn't end well not because you two are not serious about the relationship. At times destiny steps in and there is nothing anybody can do about.

If you don't know, introducing you gives your partner the sense of responsibility?

That alone has a lot attached to it for those who really mean business and not for children.

If your partner keeps telling you it is not yet time, it might not be time till you die separately at old age.

4. Your partner is Stingy uncontrollably

I am not saying your partner should give indiscriminately. But you will know when your partner is stingy. If it is the man, though you might end up in marriage but the future is very important, he will be stingy till everything get worst.

Part of being caring is to give your partner freely when it matters.

Please run for your dear life if your partner is stingy uncontrollably, it will affect you, the children and the family at large.

5. When your partner is jealous uncontrollably

The fact remains that we are all jealous but we only control it.

If that of your partner is uncontrollable, then you are in it for the worst experience ever as anything can happen, your partner can kill you if you are not careful.

6. Your partner don't give room for mistakes

You need to watch it when your partner nags at every slight opportunity.

Their should be room for errors, and this is why communication is necessary in any relationship.

You are human and you are bound to make mistakes and also bound to be corrected as you are also bound to yield positive response towards the correction.

Here, a man should not be too arrogant to be corrected, no one is above mistake.

7. When your opinion does not count

Two heads they say are better than one. You should be allowed to make suggestion that will keep the relationship going. If it is only one out of two that is making decision it will affect the relationship.

Do you know the way we handle our relationship also shows how we deal with people outside.

If you are the type that is bossy in your relationship, you cannot be a good leader.

If you keep going in such relationship you are heading into destruction. It is good to let your partner feel he/she is important when it comes to decision making in the relationship.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/07/7-signs-you-are-in-wrong-relationship.html
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by adajoe555: 7:39am On Jun 29, 2017
Nice write up op

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