This is really important cos some guys might be attracted to a lady and not know how to go about it. If d attractn is mutual, is it ideal for the lady to make d first move?

Wait for the lady you like to ask you out. A sharper guy will just get her before you. The only time you might wait for her is when you have so many gals craving your attention that you cant mind them all. Just like me . Its fun.

Why do we love complications? is it a toboo when a girl asks a Guy out?

Freiburger:

Why do we love complications? is it a toboo when a girl asks a Guy out?

Na wetin i realise sef O

Don't be silly. . .

Pweety4me:

Don't be silly. . .

Why Silly?

Freiburger:



Why Silly?

_{Hehe it's a silly act now "asking a guy out". . .}

Pweety, u're sure?

Pweety4me:


_{Hehe it's a silly act now "asking a guy out". . .}

Why not back it up with some reasons why u think its silly so we can understand u?

huh!

Puhleeeease!! . . . .Not this topic againnnn.

How is it a silly act

Mannylex:

huh!

Emmadgud:

How is it a silly act

_{cause i told ya so. . .}

No, don't ask them out, when u have a friendly conversation with them, gear it towards food, tell them u can make this dish or that dish and before u know it they want to eat what you can cook, then tell them "I will make it next on so so time and on so so day, stop by".

They can be predictable

[size=13pt]nope, ask him in [/size]

Chi_Chi77:

No, don't ask them out, when u have a friendly conversation with them,  gear it towards food, tell them u can make this dish or that dish and before u know it they want to eat what you can cook, then tell them "I will make it next on so so time and  on so so day, stop by".

They can be predictable 

lol, yes. they can be so predictable  nice idea, btw.

Chi_Chi77 in a more civilisied part of d world,notin is wrong wit askin a guy out,but our own life/culture made it a diff ball game. But baby u can do it indirectly just as u said.

So after d food what next will u tell him,

Emmadgud:

So after d food what next will u tell him,

if like the OP said, the attraction is mutual, the girl shouldn't have to think of what to tell the guy next. even the shyest guy should be able to make a move after spending hours eating in a girl's house.

_{I was actually thinking about dis 2day and wondering wat would be keeping d guy from making d first move?shyness?i don't really think it's acceptable as a man u should be able 2 make bold desicions and not be scared so if he doesn't have d guts 2 ask me out den i'm afraid it ain't gonna work}.

Pweety4me:

_{I was actually thinking about dis 2day and wondering wat would be keeping d guy from making d first move?shyness?i don't really think it's acceptable as a man u should be able 2 make bold desicions and not be scared so if he doesn't have d guts 2 ask me out den i'm afraid it ain't gonna work}.

some ladies prefer shy guys

_{^Ok den i guess i am not one. . . ermm r u shy guy?}

That's strange, I haven't seen any lady, that like shy guys.

_{^It's ok 2 be a lil bit shy but when it's over d top then naw. . .}

I used to be verrry shy, but some gals charged me up, now I make them shy, really shyness is almost lyk a disease.

_{^Erm can i suck on ur bottom lip 4 a minute plse. .} .

yeah of course, buh lets make it 10minutes pls.

_{Ahahaha ok put honey first. .} .

Is that really necessary, u know ma lip's lyk SUGAR, buh if u insist.