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Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Start A Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:43am On Jul 01, 2017
Now-a-days, people enter into relationship for different reasons and intentions, some fails while some scale through.

But before single people can fall into any relationship some questions must have been answered, these questions are as follows:

1. Are my really ready?

Relationship involves commitment, concentration, care, etc. Have you asked yourself if you are really ready to also put your concentration on another being you are probably just trying to know?

Will you be committed to the growth of the relationship? Are you really ripe for what you want to deep yourself into? Are you ready to bear all emotionally pains attached to heart break?

2. What exactly do I want?

Yes, most of the times we know what we desire in our partner even before getting to know each other.

I mean what attracts our attention in our partner because most of the times it is by what we see that prompts the instinct of our desires. Do you know your what you want in a partner?

Even before building every other things to shape, some of the qualities you desire must have been seen in your partner.

3. Will I be contented?

It is good to be contented with your choice of partner, though it is not easy but you have to scale through.

You have chosen a chubby woman and you are looking at the skinny one on the street. You like her dress sense and you are still eyeing another who dresses even better, etc.

Once you are in a relationship your eyes should be closed at other attractions.

Yes, they will surely come but it is paramount that you are determined to be with the one you have chosen ahead of the rest till the end.

4. Will I be happy if my partner do what I do?
This question looks simple but those that cheats will be able to interpret it well. You must be ready to answer this question if you want to have a successful relationship.

Can my partner do whatever i do and will I be happy if I hear about it? If yes, then you are good to go, but most times the answer will come when you are already in the relationship.

Even as the "toastee" you must consider those questions before accepting to any relationship proposal.

You need to know that you will see the one better than your choice, it is not your choice that is the best among your point of attraction, there are many others, so you need to be determined to have a successful relationship with just that one you have chosen.

I am not saying anything to scare anybody.

This is what i think and you are free to think otherwise. But if you are still single then look at the questions critically if it is a long lasting relationship you want.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2016/06/questions-to-ask-yourself-before-you.html
Re: Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Start A Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Chikelue2000(m): 6:25am On Jul 01, 2017
I have asked myself dis questions over n over n I have come to dis conclusions

As a man, try n hustle hard
Forget d ladies in ur quest to make it
If any lady comes along, snub d shit out of her but keep one eye on her
If u make it n she sticks around?, bro, u have found ur treasure
In Nigeria most ladies don't do d broke guys thing
Guys r polygamous in nature
Love most times work when there is cash involved

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