If as a guy, you have the opportunity of winning a gal and she aggry to your house with you and with all your magic speech she finally allow you to S*x that first day. Can you love such gal?

And you as a lady, how many days, mouth or years can you spend minimum with a guy b4 S*x.

Be free to speak out your mind! Pls no insult

You are daft!

oops sorry, u sd no insult . . .

Men! That type of girl ought to be living in a doghouse.Her vulnerability shows that she is very much cheap and can be pick up like a radio station.I have had such girls and Damn they are so wide and loose down there and it was all a one day stand.lol.

nid to knw d guy well probably six months before we do anthing

Damn hypocryites . . .

Ujujoan:

You are daft!

oops sorry, u sd no insult . . .

Thanks, let God judge for us(JESUS said when some one slap your left chick, turns your right chick to him )

To face the fact, It happens to me.But she still insist that she love me, but she lost her virginity some where else.

Spontaneity, impulsiveness. . .  Thats the word, be yourself, express yourself. . .  Its only in naija that it is a crime to sleep with a girl on the first date.

Everywhere else, u can sleep with a total stranger and say thank u very much, then wave goodbye and part - never to meet again!

whitelexi:

Spontaneity, impulsiveness. . . Thats the word, be yourself, express yourself. . . Its only in naija that it is a crime to sleep with a girl on the first date.

Everywhere else, u can sleep with a total stranger and say thank u very much, then wave goodbye and part - never to meet again!

You're right!!True talk!!

Ah the hypocrisy of it all. There is nothing inherently wrong with a woman having sex on the first date.
If she is of consensual age, relatively sober, and sexually attracted to the guy… and practices safe sex,
she should not be judged any differently than a man who would do the same. Sheesh, enough already men do it, yet
they get away with it, but when a woman does it, all hell break loss, she gets tag all sort of names. Society

wise words rokky

rokiatu:

Ah the hypocrisy of it all. There is nothing inherently wrong with a woman having intimacy on the first date.
If she is of consensual age, relatively sober, and sexually attracted to the guy… and practices safe intimacy,
she should not be judged any differently than a man who would do the same. Sheesh, enough already men do it, yet
they get away with it, but when a woman does it, all hell break loss, she gets tag all sort of names. Society

why not do as men does,

1. ask the man for a date

2. Propose to the man

3. recharge his phone

4. Take him out on a date/ shopping

Then u ve have wat it takes

candylips:

wise words rokky

Ar u m/f? if M u ar less a man, Rubisssh

tithe:

why not do as men does,

1. ask the man for a date

2. Propose to the man

3. recharge his phone

4. Take him out on a date/ shopping

Then u ve have wat it takes

pure nonsense doesn't make sense at all.

tithe:

Ar u m/f? if M u ar less a man, Rubisssh

i refuse to descend to your animalistic level

rokiatu:

Ah the hypocrisy of it all. There is nothing inherently wrong with a woman having intimacy on the first date.
If she is of consensual age, relatively sober, and sexually attracted to the guy… and practices safe intimacy,
she should not be judged any differently than a man who would do the same. Sheesh, enough already men do it, yet
they get away with it, but when a woman does it, all hell break loss, she gets tag all sort of names. Society

That makes man super than ladies

Ujujoan:

You are daft!

oops sorry, u sd no insult . . .

i agree wit u
o, so he really said no insults

Cockyzy:

Men! That type of girl ought to be living in a doghouse.Her vulnerability shows that she is very much cheap and can be pick up like a radio station.I have had such girls and Damn they are so wide and loose down there and it was all a one day stand.lol.

tithe:

why not do as men does,

1. ask the man for a date

2. Propose to the man

3. recharge his phone

4. Take him out on a date/ shopping

Then u ve have wat it takes

It is becos pple like this i wont support the idea that a girl shld make the first move or pass to a guy.Becos men that talk that sleeping with a girl on the first date is an act of waywardness are the same that will condemn a girl that make the first move at them.

nikkykay:

It is becos pple like this i wont support the idea that a girl shld make the first move or pass to a guy.Becos men that talk that sleeping with a girl on the first date is an act of waywardness are the same that will condemn a girl that make the first move at them.

pls dont say that nor mind them,
its not every guy that went to good skools nor every guy that know wat century we r in,
i have always said it, some mehn will die being the thumb n never be the middle finger (the saying "all fingers r nt equal"

true love my foot.
thats just a flint and lets leave it at that
so sleeping with the guy on the first date is a sign of love?
puuuure rubbish.

girls like that are cheap

rokiatu:

Ah the hypocrisy of it all. There is nothing inherently wrong with a woman having intimacy on the first date.
If she is of consensual age, relatively sober, and sexually attracted to the guy… and practices safe intimacy,
she should not be judged any differently than a man who would do the same. Sheesh, enough already men do it, yet
they get away with it, but when a woman does it, all hell break loss, she gets tag all sort of names. Society

well said. though am against the ideal, but I agree with you.

its 2010 pips, so wat if she shagged u on the first day on top of a tree, but to be honest some naija gals r pathetic,,,na wen Bleep dey sweet, them go bigin cry begin ask if u love them, bia this man , if na recharge card and shoppingdey worry u, y u no talk so since

gabriel4u:


If as a guy, you have the opportunity of winning a gal and she aggry to your house with you and with all your magic speech she finally allow you to S*x that first day. Can you love such gal?
And you as a lady, how many days, mouth or years can you spend minimum with a guy b4 S*x.
Be free to speak out your mind! Pls no insult

[size=13pt]if all you had in mind was the "wam-bam-thank you-ma'am" thingy why go thru 'the long magic speech then ?and if you wanted something concrete with her why did you bone her on your first date . . guys and their little minds if a girl sleeps with you on the first date she's cheap' wat of you that asked her for it? lets drop all these cave men attitude and wake up to a new world where guys bone girls and say: you is so sweet babe lets hit it off [/size]

Of course you can develop true love for a girl who b.oinks you on the first date. . . . And it don't mean she cheap. . . .she could have been into you for sometime if she happens to be someone you see everyday,like a colleague at work. . . . i had a wonderful relationship with such a lady that lasted two years . . . .through we ain't together no more(she plucked up,big time)every time i think of her . . . . .i go

The girl loooks tooooo loose, you need to know her very well,

cudeh:

The girl loooks tooooo loose, you need to know her very well,

[size=13pt]poof, which loose abeg, so are you saying a girl that keeps you longing for it for years cant be loose abi? pls things dont follow that pattern anymore we are in a new age now
and if u insist a girl dats bones you on the first date is cheap and loose, then a guy that bleeps on the first date is over the top cheap and loose cos he asked for it [/size]