An argument is something that is inevitable in most relationships inasmuch as it builds a relationship and makes partners grow stronger and bound more, if not checked properly can ruin the relationship and leave you to heart broken. Below are 5 ways arguments can ruin a relationship.

# Stop arguing to convince people

You might be right, but arguing isn’t a great way to convince people. Why? Because if they’re defensive and angry, they’ll be unable to hear you. People are like radio transmitters when it comes to communication. They are either set to ‘receive’ or ‘transmit’. This is known as ‘a waste of time’.

Solution

Find a safer time when they are not emotional to drive your point they will offer more audience, and also do it in a manner and place where you do not attract attention.

# Don’t argue about the past

If partners are having arguments about something that happened at a friend’s party 2 hours ago and then suddenly she says that is how you insulted me in 2013 and then he says that’s how you left me stranded in 2010 at the park and so on, then you know something is wrong.

Solution

Apologize when either of you is wrong and move on don’t keep hurt in your hearts as it can really be toxic to your relationship. Constantly going back to stuff someone ‘did wrong’ weeks, months, or years before is toxic. What’s done is done apologize and move on...Read More Here >>> https://lovefactory.com.ng/2017/07/arguments-ruin-relationship/

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