sugar pp:

@ poster enuf of all dis senseless examples! wat stops d guy bringn another woman wat guarantee that the other woman wld b sensible enough to leave. No wonder Nigerian women settle for less because they hv people like u advisin them on how to be used n abused n thinkin they r fortunate! your subject shld b understandn lowlifes nt men

Pogistega:

GL You speak as if you're not a Nigerian. Maybe you are'nt. Worse things happen here in Nigeria daily. Wives have been kicked out of their homes, to be replaced with house girls. Blood sisters have taken over marital beds, etc, etc. The point is, better results will be achieved, if a woman is as wise as a serpent but gentle as a dove.

Pogistega:

iice I can see why most women will never have a stable relationship with men. Get off your high horse!

Spoken like a blind man. . .enjoy it

Pogistega:

GL You speak as if you're not a Nigerian. Maybe you are'nt. Worse things happen here in Nigeria daily. [b]Wives have been kicked out of their homes, to be replaced with house girls. Blood sisters have taken over marital beds, [/b]etc, etc. The point is, better results will be achieved, if a woman is as wise as a serpent but gentle as a dove.

Well done eh.  You have expanded on my initial statement. Yet couldn't make the connection to it from the beginning.

The state of education tire me

Before I commence, I must "tell" a short story.
A young Christian wife organized a crusade, and as she was about to leave the house for church, her husband gave a directive that she was not to leave the house. She pleaded with her husband that she was the main organizer, and that her absence would portray her n a very bad light, and more so that the crusade was just between 6 - 8pm, but her husband was adamant. She left for church all the same. When she returned around 8.15pm, her husband had locked up the houses.  All her knocks and calls were fruitless. She finally resigned herself to the floor by the back door, troughout the cold mosquito-filled night. In the morning, her husband, nonchalantly opened the door (as if to say that, same fate awaits you today). As the woman came in she said, "morning dear, what do you want me to prepare for you before you go to work". The man stopped in his tracks. He was expecting fire from his wife, not this. The woman reached him and put her arm around his shoulder lovingly, leaning slightly on him, and repeated, "what would you like to eat this morning". When the man turned to face his wife, tears sprang into his eyes, and the reality of what he had done hit him like a stone. He cried, "I locked you out? I don't know what came me! Please forgive me!". The woman replied that she should be the one apologising as she refused to follow his instruction, but the man replied that he knew when she returned, but intentionally refused to yield to her calls, and pleaded for forgiveness.
The lessons to be learnt:
1. For several weeks to come, after that incident, the man appreciated his wife anew, and, on many occasions, when returning from work, bought gifts for her.
2. The following sunday after that incident, for the first time since their marriage, accompanied his wife to church.
If you were the woman that was locked out, what would have been your reaction? I'm sure you would have released a good hiss, first.

sugar pp:

@ poster enuf of all dis senseless examples! wat stops d guy bringn another woman wat guarantee that the other woman wld b sensible enough to leave. No wonder Nigerian women settle for less because they hv people like u advisin them on how to be used n abused n thinkin they r fortunate! your subject shld b understandn lowlifes nt men

vivaladiva:

i swear this poster is mad, okay now me i want to bring a new husband into the house, i have never seen such a •misogynistic society in all my life, come n try this foolish non sense in the uk, if u will not loose your house n pay child support till your anus bleeds, stupendous intete

GL:

@ Pogistega,

the story is unrealistic. like iice said, in reality the new wife would take advantage of the first wife's kindness. even if the story were realistic, the only woman who can learn any lesson from this story is a very desperate one. why on earth would i want to stick with a man who had the guts to tell me he is bringing in a new wife. and even worse, was angry with his wife when the new wife left. what kind of a pastor gives such advice anyway? well, i say any woman who reacts that way deserves whatever she gets in the marriage.