MRSoftapples:
Op calm down..
Speak to her as if you are talking to your sister..
Be free and express your self, don't try to impress her by speaking grammar or telling her romantic words you saw online..
Just be sincere with her and look into her eyes and speak your mind..

Emodeee:
tell her to send her account number.

na bad thing to dey shy mehn. i can relate. na your friend go parole her behind your back if you waste time. just tell her anything as it comes to your mind. if she likes you, she go accept. no rule to toasting a girl.

hanassholesolo:


but how do i look her in the eyes? we haven't spoken on phone even

i texted her "hey" and she said "hello'

i'm completely short of words and don't know what would be an appropriate reply

i swear this is not even about sex, i just genuinely like this person and it's so weird because i haven't felt this way about anyone who wasn't family

NairalandCS:
So asking somebody 'how are you ?' is now cliche ?

Na wa o.

hanassholesolo:


i don't know man, isn't it cliche'ish to you?

i mean, how are you today?

hanassholesolo:
She's a good girl man, this is my one and only shot to get her. The thing is when i got her number, there were some bad guys also trying to snipe her but i got there quick. i don't know what happened after i left. (this is probably not helping my case

NairalandCS:


It isn't to me. Me asking someone 'how are you doing today?' shows I genuinely care about the person.

hanassholesolo:


but how do i look her in the eyes? we haven't spoken on phone even

i texted her "hey" and she said "hello'

i'm completely short of words and don't know what would be an appropriate reply

i swear this is not even about sex, i just genuinely like this person and it's so weird because i haven't felt this way about anyone who wasn't family

ikp120:
What did you notice about her when you saw her?

Use that to start the conversation.

Oya, where is my counselling fee?

hanassholesolo:


i'm just afraid of her saying "fine" i hate when people use one word reply.

hanassholesolo:


dude, it's everything, her eyes, her smile, her face. she has such a gentle voice

KILL ME NOWWWWWW

hatbricker:
This gal you're dying to be with, a guy somewhere is already tired of her, just see her as everyday gal and don't feel inferior and don't even give her the impression she's special else she'd see you as a "nice guy" which is a major turn off to ladies.

ikp120:
Hehehehehe That's my nigga right there!

Oya na, start to dey hit the babe with that on WhatsApp. But don't tell her that you love her o. Else, she will be like "how could you love me when you don't even know me?"

sexybbstar:
To start with, you said you met her yesterday? Hmm, try to be patient for some days or weeks and study her if she's really what you want.

Don't ask her out straight away, try to be friends with her, let her get into you first, then strike the matches!

rose54321:
Didn't know we had shy guys too. That's really cute.

As someone already said, there's really no rules to chatting a girl up.
My advice is be real, dont use popular lines, also don't over think it (like spending hours constructing a line). Just say whatever comes to mind.
What will be will be.

hanassholesolo:
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Thanks guys. I called her and she seemed disinterested. I had one chance and i f***ing blew it..

Me right now:

hanassholesolo:
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Thanks guys. I called her and she seemed disinterested. I had one chance and i f***ing blew it..

Me right now:

hatbricker:
This gal you're dying to be with guy somewhere is already tired of her.

hanassholesolo:



She's a good girl man, this is my one and only shot to get her.


The thing is when i got her number, there were some bad guys also trying to snipe her but i got there quick. i don't know what happened after i left. (this is probably not helping my case)

rose54321:
Didn't know we had shy guys too. That's really cute.

As someone already said, there's really no rules to chatting a girl up.
My advice is be real, dont use popular lines, also don't over think it (like spending hours constructing a line). Just say whatever comes to mind.
What will be will be.