Papiikush:
I hate men who act like kids.

He should move out of his father's out and start his own life.

The Bible says for this reason shall a man leave his parent and become one with his wife

Evablizin:
Ride on pastor i'm feeling your message over here.True talk

7footre:
If his own parents left their parents to get married, why are the parents being selfish this time? He should grow some balls nd do what is proper

Papiikush:
I hate men who act like kids.

He should move out of his father's out and start his own life.

The Bible says for this reason shall a man leave his parent and become one with his wife

jieta:
were in the bible was it written that you should leave your AGE parent.

Papiikush:

The Bible doesn't give a fück about age parents when that statement was made

jieta:
did the parents ask him to share the same room with them. there are only asking him to stay were there can be seeing him often is that too difficult for your age parents to ask for.


you don't know how it feels to have one male child if you know you won't make this comment.

Papiikush:

I am not really in the mood to argue about this.

Men don't stay with their parents, kids do.

jieta:
did the parents ask him to share the same room with them. there are only asking him to stay were there can be seeing him often is that too difficult for your age parents to ask for.


you don't know how it feels to have one male child if you know you won't make this comment.

prestige2013:



He is considering them being aged n their health challenges.

eyinjuege:
Has he really been the one taking care of his parents?
I'm not talking of money now, but cleaning their house, washing their clothes, making their meals, ensuring they take their medicines etc.
If he marries, is he ready to continue doing so or he expects his wife to take up that responsibility?
Or is he naturally expected to marry and his wife takes up that responsibility?
Living in the same compound with his parents has both advantages and disadvantages tbh.
But it can cause a lot or friction that could have been avoided

prestige2013:


Yes, he is in charge, Both parents had walking challenges (not bedridden), they don't move out of d compound due to d walking challenges .....

eyinjuege:


Does that mean he doesn't work?

Who looks after the parents when he's away at work? What if he has to travel out of the country or even out of the town for work related purposes ? Does it mean he can't do that?
I know it's a noble act to physically look after your parents, but atimes it's not always possible or even practical. You may have to get professional help to do that.
Meanwhile, what of his other siblings? Can't they rotate it amongst themselves to come and look after their parents, even if they are females.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...quite tricky. The best thing is to move out but since they are old, probably lonely and have their flat different from the guy's, I think he should stay. He should let them know upfront that it isn't his desire, any silly behavior from them towards His wife won't be entertained. He should stay and take care of them, they will be good nannies for the kids...it is not a bad arrangement.