it seems some men believe that when a woman starts pouring hot water on them, that is when they need to quit - i believe quit from the second trial - leave with your ego and your pride intact - for every 'no' there must be a corresponding 'yes' - abi wetin you talk? 

There is no hard and fast rule however some men have stalkeristic tendencies

sometimes it pays off.

i think a lot of guys cannot detect when a 'no' is 'no' and when a 'no' is 'yes'

Well, I have seen a few situations where the lady said no for months and now they are married.

So there is no hard and fast rule to this.

Its pretty easy.

Boy- Girl can I get to know you, your so fine
Girl- Thanks for the compliment but No i dont want to know you
Boy- But I love you
Girl- Eventhough you just saw me 2mins ago? No thanks
Boy- Please please I love you can I know you "Then follows you around town"

That there is crazy  

Ebonyeyes:

Its pretty easy.

Boy- Girl can I get to know you, your so fine
Girl- Thanks for the compliment but No i dont want to know you
Boy- But I love you
Girl- Eventhough you just saw me 2mins ago? No thanks
Boy- Please please I love you can I know you "Then follows you around town"

That there is crazy

personally i feel it's wrong for a man no chase a woman endlessly - the take is this - after one attempt - chill and wait for her reaction - if you get positive vibes, make the second attempt - if not, chill finally - making continous attempt is bad cause (a) makess the lady look like she's doing you a favour (b) makes the guy psychologically weak (c) makes a guy loose his manliness and ego and when she eventually says yes, it will take you ages to rebuild your lost self confidence

woye77:

personally i feel it's wrong for a man no chase a woman endlessly - the take is this - after one attempt - chill and wait for her reaction - if you get positive vibes, make the second attempt - if not, chill finally - making continous attempt is bad cause (a) makess the lady look like she's doing you a favour (b) makes the guy psychologically weak (c) makes a guy loose his manliness and ego and when she eventually says yes, it will take you ages to rebuild your lost self confidence

Uhhhmmmm I agree

girl- will u stop followling me around town, i hate it when guys follow me around on th street
boy- welll then, why dnt we settle in that cool spot, i promise it wont take a min
girl-well fine, if that will get u off my bac
boy- cool, just talk

30miss later,

they make their way to a hotel close by.

so u see, sometimes no can mean yes!

Forget the chase after the first rejection.

@smooooth, i find ur own version of boy vs girl more interesting than that of ebonyeyes but on a serious note i think the problem is that some men just dont know their level, who no like better thing, if a nice looking, sophisticated and well to do guy wants to get to know me, if am not in a relationship, i might consider him, maybe not say yes immediately but at least consider him, so its okay if he tries again, but if a man who needs to be focusing on his life and acheiving some level of success decides that it is me he wants to chase all over town, then obviously that kind of man will never get that no is no until maybe one pours hot water on his head.

Nah, with Nigerian gals PERSISTENCE is key!!! Be it 2 weeks, 1 year, wuteva!!! Funny things is, once they give up the P.U.SSSY they now stuck down your throat like fish bone!!! They dont want u to go, even if u came in less than two seconds.lol.  . So, stay on the chase!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3qq5a2CfvLw

You guys shd learn how to differentiat between a No, Never, Maybe and hard-to-get! Then maybe you'll be able to tell when to let go.