I Didn't come up with this, but i agree 98% with what is written in here.
After reading, feel free to tell me what you think. :-)

And uhmm,  READ IT!!! It's not TOO LONG. :-P
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"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person YOU can control in a relationship is YOU.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are,  even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a human being, and he has flaws just like you.

Never let a man define who you are. Never compete for a man, if he really wanted only you then there would be no competition,  nothing will make him blind to the fact that you're the one for him.
Never borrow someone else's man, another girl might just want to borrow yours and well, don't we all just know how that may turn out.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. Some of them, a VERY VERY few will treat you good
A good Brother comes in all shapes sizes,  Stop being picky and accept what God gives you because it may be what you NEED, maybe not what you WANT.
Romance is not always "game"
You should not be the one doing all the bending,  compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage,  deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You wont be doing any favours, you may end up losing a very great person.
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals that should complement eachother to perfection, not supplement.


Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Never settle for Mr.Right Now, except you're in it for game/quickie
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Doesnt mean you should go 'all the way' with the 'others' tho. Use your your brain,  be tactical
Share this with other ladies,  You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget"

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From me: After reading this, i concluded that, i might have been at one point guilty of doing some things, but the most important thing is learning from your mistakes. I've learnt from mine, and i know that most of you can too.

So don't bite yourself, if this note seems to be talking about you, you can always change your ways. And always remember NEVER to settle for LESS. Patience is a virtue ladies.

True!! true words Hot-angel

@ hot-angel

The person that invented those sayings is a genius, i couldn't  have said it better myself

and you my dear for sharing them with us, you're an assistant-genius 

(I'm not sure you remember but if you do, i ended up buyin the samsung x830, thanks for your opinion back then,it helped )

Thanks girls. Im glad some people feel me.

And ohh yes girl, i remember. i just dnt remember which one the x830 is. lemme check online. . . . . . . ohh okay that one, gorgeous!!!!!!

@hotangel
Thumbs up for you, ive really learnt a lot, thanks.

@ hot-angel

damn gurl where did u get this list from it's cool, anyway everything the list said is so so so true

true words, but gals, dey are f.u.c.king not satisfied with wot eva u give dem

true words, but gals, dey are f.u.c.king not satisfied with wot eva u give dem