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Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:18pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Dear Landers, is it morally right first to inform your pastor as regards your intention to marry a sister in the church before you approach the lady for marriage, am saying this because Most churches see it as offensive, I want sample opinion nairalanders 4 Likes
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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Is it the pastor you want to marry or the girl?. 148 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:23pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
^^^^some churches go as far as suspending the person 8 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Homeboiy: 9:24pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
See question 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by ExpensiveG: 9:25pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
E no concern me....... 'All dis rules and regulations for church relationship dey weak me..... My Pastor does not like dis, My Pastor would be mad at me No be dey Pastor you go marry.... No forget 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Are you getting married to your pastor? Some marriages are in shambles becos of pastors meddling into the affairs of their families. You, your girl and God! After you carry your girl go see some Pastors and your girl turns her backside: 44 Likes
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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by thickminaj(f): 9:28pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Depending on the doctrines of your church... But to me I belive you'll tell her first... It's better to face rejection from her personally than getting it from the committee of elders 21 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:29pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Just like a university, when you are there, you must play by the rules, some churches are against it ExpensiveG: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by ExpensiveG: 9:31pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess: Suspend ke For wetin Dem chop craze be dat. If na me dem suspend, na to waka go find another church or I go just kuku ma stay house worship my own God. Abi dey gum my legs for dey church..... shooo . 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:34pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Nice One, I don't know if it's biblical, because they will tel you that you must follow biblical standards. It's like this, the pastor will confront the sister with a mask identify of the brother and see if God has reveal the name of the brother to the sister thickminaj: 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by ExpensiveG: 9:35pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess: Haba guy reason dis thing na.... for dis generation, person no get FREEDOM to friend church gal wey him like, until him tell em Pastor... Wetin dey Pastor go do, if dey guy tell em say him wan friend dis gal 12 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:39pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Your thought really funny ExpensiveG: |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by apholaryn: 9:41pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
some ppl go just carry church fr head like say na Darling yaki..e neva sure fr ur pastor sef say he go make heaven. mtchew! 13 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by serenegroup(m): 9:42pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammyk sounds like a deeper life. well I was delayed unnecessarily because I told her first and she accepted. when I was asked in the committee of elders the reason for telling her first, I told them it's because I don't want to be rejected, cos I have seen many brothers close to me rejected by sis. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:43pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
You know quiet well churches are guided by laws, some are biblical and others are self driven... apholaryn: 3 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 9:48pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Your guess @ serenegroup, am closer to them oh, the delay is like suspension, but someone should be accountable to God and not they other way broo serenegroup: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by apholaryn: 9:53pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess:whatever law it is I don't think its appropriate ,if my wife shld mistakenly do such..na make she move in with d pastor. 4 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by thickminaj(f): 9:54pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess:all this confronting... Anyway... I belive most of this doctrines are man-made.. And if the pastor notice you don't attend church regularly, ur not part of the workforce he'll keep asking the lady ... Making her have second thoughts 7 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tosyne2much(m): 10:02pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
All this "I need my Pastor's validation before I propose a woman" is bullcrap. And I see that only people with insecurity issues are usually fond of involving their pastors in things that can practically be solved with common sense Some will even tell you according to their doctrine, your pastor is responsible for wooing a lady on your behalf. Soro niyen? Baba Adeboye said, shine your eyes when picking a wife and never let any pastor recommend a wife for you. He said the highest a pastor can do is to counsel you. Finish!!! 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 10:03pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
If you don't attend most of the programs, the lady may be discouraged by these men of God. thickminaj: 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 10:06pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
I want to know if it's biblical broo, Good one from Baba Adeboye tosyne2much: 4 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tosyne2much(m): 10:12pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess:There's no portion of the Bible that says you should notify any man of God before approaching any lady of your choice. All these things are the doctrines churches have created for themselves to guide members in their quest of choosing a partner. U get? 9 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 10:18pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Tosyne2much the special adviser... tosyne2much: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 10:22pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tosyne2much(m): 10:25pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess:Abi how you think the matter egbon? Abi I no talk am well ni? |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sammykess(m): 10:29pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by MissRaine69(f): 10:52pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
If you are no longer autonomous in matters of the heart leave. 4 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Caustics: 10:56pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
no |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Kizyte(m): 10:56pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Thought the thread was for me, I'm at of here |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by seunny4lif(m): 10:56pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Since na pastor you wan marry then no problem. Wetin concern me with pastor when the babe dey there? Na to toast the babe directly now abi My rules not Deeper life rules 7 Likes
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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by NwaAmaikpe: 10:56pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
If you are eyeing a girl in church and want to marry her, I don't think you should talk to the pastor about her. Unless you want to ask him if he has shagged her before. Trust me, 8 out of 10 committed church girls have been shagged by the pastor. That's why it's better you even marry off Badoo or Facebook than marry a church girl. Because on your wedding day; a quarter of the male guests who are church members are people who have used her kpekus for immersion baptism and revival. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Flashh: 10:57pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
My pastor is not my biological father/mother. 9 Likes |
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