I have been around for some time now to see how people place emphasis on the virginity of the lady when it comes to marriage. Most of the time, people take it as an achievement to make sure they marry a virgin and it leaves me to wonder who will marry the ones they have disvirgin.

Before we continue, please try to get me right. This article is not in any way encouraging premarital sex or speaking against the norms and values of our culture and religions.

First and foremost, being a virgin or not has nothing to do with your marriage life. Marriage is entirely different from virginity and marrying a virgin doesn't mean you will end up having a blissful marriage. Virginity is not all that is required in a marriage setting. A lady or a guy can marry as a virgin and will never enjoy marital bliss.

Inasmuch as it is good if to meet your spouse as a virgin, it is still not an assurance that he/she will not end up cheating on the other party. People will always display their character no matter the circumstances surrounding their lives. If you want to marry as a virgin or a virgin please go ahead, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, it all comes down to choice.

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issokay

Op you are right, infact may God bless you for this wonderful thread. I know a friend that he keeps on singing he will marry virgin, finally he married virgin is regretting right now. The wife doesn't have respect for him and his family including friends . Chai

Gbam

Of course, Character is very very MUCH important .


Nevertheless, we won't neglect the fact that a virgin girl can easily earn her husband's TRUST . Trust on the other hand is the bedrock of any successful marriage .. for example .. if she accidentally stays late at night before arriving home , her husband would hardly start suspecting her of promiscuity.


This doesn't mean a non virgin cant earn trust , She can ... so far she is well behaved and mature.